Is it time for me to leave this marriage? He frequently accuses me of cheating.
Q. I came to visit my daughter in another state for 4 days. My husband is sending me text messages saying that I'm out here messing around and he is done with me, all because he called my phone, and I didn't answer. He called my daughter and she...
A. 6 July 2015: Thanks for all the responses that I received, but to answer some of the questions, yes I have tried to get him to go to counseling but he says he don't need it. This trip away made me see things more clear, and I have to do what's best for me and ... (read in full...)
How do I learn to love again after a 15 year toxic relationship?
Q. I am 36 and I am finally letting go of a toxic relationship, Im afraid it will not be easy but I'm leaning on others for support and reading a lot online that offers helpful suggestions He was an active alcoholic which made the relationship int...
A. 21 June 2015: I can see where you are coming from, I am in the same boat i n some ways, I have known my husband for 7 years, and before we got married he was everything I ever wanted in a man but after we got married, things change, you see he, drinks, ... (read in full...)
My husband is drinking again!
Q. My husband is at it again, I had gotten our grandkids for the weekend, he stays out all night Friday drinking, then blames it on me, just cause it is his family he feels he can do that, if Idid half the things he do to me he would be upset, iI'm ...
A. 20 June 2015: Thank you for the replies I have gotten so far, it I appreciate it.... (read in full...)
We got into my argument over my husband's drinking and he hit me!
Q. My husband and I got into am arguement over him drinking and coming home smelling like alcohol, so the other night he informed me that he was drinking a beer while driving home, that did not sit well with me, all I ask os that he not come home ...
A. 15 June 2015: I just want to say thank you to everyone for their support, but to give an update,since we went to therapy, he had not gotten physical with me, but don't think it is not in the back of my mind, things have somewhat gotten better but I'm still not ... (read in full...)
I know I deserve way better than this! What do I do about this marriage?
Q. Ok here is the situation at hand, my husband, I just don't know anymore with him, on 4/27/13 I was having bad chest pains and I was thinking about going to the er, he wouldn't even go with me, he said that all my anxiety attacks are coming from me, ...
A. 30 April 2013: Thank you everyone for the advice.... (read in full...)
How can I forgive myself for letting him treat me so badly and make sure it doesn't happen again?
Q. I spent two and a half years in a relationship with a man who treated me horribly. This man was abusive, manipulative and sexually violent, and always found a way to make things my fault. He said horrible things to me and made me feel like I was ...
A. 28 April 2013: I am so sorry to hear about your situation, I'm in a similar situation my self, my husband drinks and sometimes get violent, I can't even begin to tell u how violent but its pretty bad, the only difference between you and I is I haven't left yet. I ... (read in full...)
Death in my husband's family will make them all drink and I don't want to be around it! What do I do?
Q. My husband has death in his family, and my heart goes out to the family but I really dont want to be around them cause all they do is drink, I mean really, if im in mourning I wouldnt be drinking and getting drunk, and he has the nerve to get mad at ...
A. 18 May 2012: Well after that last incident that happend, we have gone to mirrage counceling and he said he enjoyed going and looks forward to going again, yes I did address the fact that if he is gonna b there drinking that I fear he will hit me again, he got ... (read in full...)
Death in my husband's family will make them all drink and I don't want to be around it! What do I do?
Q. My husband has death in his family, and my heart goes out to the family but I really dont want to be around them cause all they do is drink, I mean really, if im in mourning I wouldnt be drinking and getting drunk, and he has the nerve to get mad at ...
A. 18 May 2012: I really appreciate all comments but, there is way more going on in my mirrage that leads me to feel this way, u see whrn he gets drunk he has a tendancy to put his hands on me like im a punching bag, he gets really out of control when he drinks, ... (read in full...)
We got into my argument over my husband's drinking and he hit me!
Q. My husband and I got into am arguement over him drinking and coming home smelling like alcohol, so the other night he informed me that he was drinking a beer while driving home, that did not sit well with me, all I ask os that he not come home ...
A. 1 April 2012: Thank u both for your advice, you gave me something to think about... (read in full...)
Sometimes I feel he wants to be back with his mother!
Q. I have been married for 2 years now and my husband and i have had our share of problems, and it seems like things are the same to a point, everyday he goes to his mother's house, don't get me wrong I love my mother in law very much, she is always ...
A. 16 December 2011: thanks for the advice, I appreciate it.... (read in full...)
What can I do - his behaviour towards me is a turn-off
Q. What am I to do, when the love is not all there? I do love my husband, but he has done some things that I totaly dissagree with, like hanging out until the next morning with the guys, not answering my calls, not coming home, lieing etc, the list ...
A. 23 August 2011: Thanks for all the advice, we talked and we both are to blame and we both want things to work out, so i guess i will c what happens from there.... (read in full...)
The way my husband acts I think he hates me!
Q. I have had some problems with my husband and the problem is sometimes I feel that he hates me by his actions, when we first met he was the type to go out and party, but me, I was a homebody and I still am to this day, when we got together he stopped ...
A. 22 May 2011: Thank you all for your comments it is nice to know someone cares... (read in full...)
The way my husband acts I think he hates me!
Q. I have had some problems with my husband and the problem is sometimes I feel that he hates me by his actions, when we first met he was the type to go out and party, but me, I was a homebody and I still am to this day, when we got together he stopped ...
A. 22 May 2011: Thank you mandy, you asked why I dont like going out, well everytime we would go out we would argue over something stupid, another thing I was and still not the type to party, and besides the places he wants to go I would feel umcomfortable. And now ... (read in full...)
Husband was never this way until we got married.....
Q. I have been married a year and a half and my husband does not show affection too much, when i try to talk to him he gets angry. He was never thos way before we got married, its like he changed, we don't go anywhere or do anything too much together. ...
A. 4 May 2011: Thanks for the advice.... (read in full...)
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