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Fun inexpensive activities I can do with my ex boyfriend

Q.   Me and my ex are trying sort things out :) I wanted to know what activities we can do that are fun and dont cost alot I seriously can't think of much accept the beach, cinema, I would love any ideas given as we both like sport,hanging out,playin...

A.   14 March 2011: Go play tennis together. or putt putt it's minny golf. super fun go walk in the park or take one good morning and take a run through the park and then go soemwhere pretty for a picknick. or go get some ice cream and take a walk in the town. maybe ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend depressed and going through his second divorce

Q.   I was wondering if you could help me. My boyfriend has been really depressed lately. He is going through his second divorce. We used to see each other once a week, I have not seen my boyfriend in a month. He told me i deserve batter, i told him he ...

A.   14 March 2011: start off with not pitying him. he's just wanting you to pity him don't do that. second of all it sounds to me like he's wanting to give you that hint that he doesn't want you anymore and he wants u to be unhappy so you'll walk away everyone does ... (read in full...)

How do I make her realize she lost the best part of her life?

Q.   Me and my girlfriend had been dating for about 6 months or so and it has been really good until about two weeks or so ago. This past week she has been distnant and very aggravated. She said she was getting bored of her life as a whole along with the ...

A.   14 March 2011: First of all the fact that you let her friend have her sets something huge off. i mean you gave this guy your gf pretty much. so i think that's admirable but at the same time pretty shallow. I think if you really want her back it's gonna take time. ... (read in full...)

She wants to leave me for another man

Q.   what do i do if my girlfriend wants to leave me for anthoner man and i love here to death but she says she cannot take my mouth any more what do i do?...

A.   14 March 2011: well what's wrong with your mouth cuz that may be the answer to your problems man! listen to what she has to say and i'm pretty sure that if she points something in specific by now. it's that she' forgiven it so many times that she's fed up with it. ... (read in full...)

How should I tell this guy I love him, without him mocking my wheelchair situation?

Q.   Okay, there is a boy who is 16 and is amazing. I'm 14 and for this current stage in my life, I am in a wheelchair. I’m not sure that if I should tell him that I really love him. Will he understand, or just laugh at the fact that I am in a ...

A.   27 February 2011: if he truly cares about you then he shouldn't mock you. You're more than that and the fact that you can love and feel and wake up tomorrow and still feel is worth more than all the saints in the world. If you trust him and if he's a decent person ... (read in full...)

He flirts online! Do I stay or do I go?

Q.   So I need advice, I have been married for 7 years now, and my husband has been looking at personals for about 6 years. not only does he look but he replies and his answers are very sexual. He has also registered at single's websites in the past but ...

A.   30 December 2010: Well did you try everything? Did you try to romance him show him differnetn things because if you marry by church you need to conserve your marriage. whether it be by law or church u still need to try to conserve it. If you have tried everything ... (read in full...)

I'm a virgin and I need sex tips! Help!

Q.   I need help. im a virgin and im ready to have sex with my boyfriend but im just scared that im going to be rubbish because ive never done it before. he's had sex a few times, what if im awful at giving a BJ? please give me any advice as to what to ...

A.   30 December 2010: whatever you do don't do it. it's a mistake i swear. i don't think you're ready you just need to think things more clearly i mean look at yourself trying to please him on your first time. No it's supposed to be special for you and for him because he ... (read in full...)

My boobs are small and I don't know what to do!

Q.   Hello, i am 15 and i have small boobs. i am going on holiday in July with my boyfriend and his family and i am inbarased about them. I was shopping not that long ago with him and we were talking about bras and he asked what bra size i was and i ...

A.   30 December 2010: um getting fat doessn't make you bigger it just makes ur stomach and maybe ur butt. anyways if he's just a boyfriend then wear a water pad in your bikini brap like open the inside seam and install a water pad which is the same thing as in a water ... (read in full...)

We had sex and he told everyone! What should I do?

Q.   Im 15 and about a month ago i had sex (i was a virgen) with my 17yr old bf bc i thought i loved him. He promised me tht no 1 would know no matter what but less than a week later he broke up with me bc he didnt want attachments bc hes goin to the ...

A.   30 December 2010: well if it were me i would send someoen to beat him up. but that's just me... advice: 1. You could tell others he has a small dick @2 you could be responsible and talk to his parents about it and make him stop unless his parents are iressponsible ... (read in full...)

How do I get over this crazy in love feeling?

Q.   I met this guy when i was 16. From the first time i met him, i was really excited. I thought he was beautiful and i really admired him. So we kept in touch through the years, granted its only been 5 years. Fast forward to the present, and i think ...

A.   30 December 2010: look. If you aren't willing to wait for him, then you really don't love him. like they say love is patient, love is kind, it isn't angry or boastful and it most definately doesn't take joy in wrong. They always say that if you love them you'll go ... (read in full...)

Help! I feel like I'm being cheated!

Q.   Dear Cupid My bf broke up with me a month back and then we got back together. Since we work together he gave me his password yesterday to do some of his work. I know i am not supposed to check his IM conv history but out of curiosty i di...

A.   30 December 2010: hey yea i think you should leave him. He's lieing to you and if he lies now he's gonna lie from now on and the fact that you accept it, it's just gonna make it easier for him to cheat and keep on doing whatever it is he does because he's gonna get ... (read in full...)

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