Cheating husband says I am violating his privacy!
Q. Hello all. My marriage has been having its fair share of problems but have been working on it. I have caught my husband twice cheating on me previously and just found out he's at it again. I wouldn't say I'm still in love with him as my feelings ...
A. 17 March 2012: Why should you be the one to leave the family home. He's the one who's cheating. Make him move out. Better yet, file for divorce and in the paperwork put down that you get the house so your kids don't have to have their home life and their normal ... (read in full...)
Have you ignored ever ignored an ex ,when you've bumped into them in person?
Q. Is it childish/rude to ignore an ex if you bump into them? I live in the same town as mine, and have avoided bumping into them so far (mainly due to my planning!) If I bumped into them and they said 'Hello, how are you?'(which I think they wou...
A. 16 March 2012: Oh honey, I can't tell you how many people I dodge in life because I don't like them and I see no reason to waste time with the whole "Hi, how have you been?....What's new?"...when frankly I don't give a rat's rear! Be it ex boyfriends, or people ... (read in full...)
Why did he delete me as a friend on Facebook when I got engaged? I want my friend back!
Q. Hi. I have been great friends (with a guy) for 13 year. We almost got together once when I was eighteen, but I decided against it because I didnt want to lose a friend if anything went wrong. He's in the navy but whenever he's back we would get ...
A. 14 March 2012: Shouldn't your future husband fill the role your friend once filled for you? First of all, I suspect your male "friend" doesn't see the needs to keep in touch now that you're off the market. Men and women can rarely be friends because one of them ... (read in full...)
How did the pill make her breasts bigger?
Q. My friend is 19 and has been taking the pill to make her breasts bigger. I thought this was a stupid idea since the pill doesn't do that and she isn't sexually active, so why bother? However, she has been taking it and they have gotten bigger be...
A. 13 March 2012: The pill can make a woman gain a few poundsn(maybe 5 or 10 lbs.) but I took the pill for years and I can tell you it never made my breasts any bigger and god knows I would have doubled the dosage if it had (just kidding, that wouldn't be safe). ... (read in full...)
What's the Best Way to Deal With my Wife's Conflict With Other Women in her "Social Group"??
Q. My wife moved to the U.S. from the Philippines about 10 years ago, and we've been married a couple years. She's in her mid 30s. She recently had a falling out with one of her Filipina "friends", and both of them seem to be escalating the s...
A. 13 March 2012: Tell her to grow the hell up! She's only perpetuating the problem by continuing to respond and spew. And what is this accomplishing? It's getting her all worked up, she's staying pissed off, stressed out and that's no way to live. She has a volatile ... (read in full...)
Do women just naturally need or want less from their marriages as they get older?
Q. Do women in their mid-40's just naturally start reverting back to who they were before marriage? My wife and I have been togethernfor many years. It was always me and her, the two of us together, no matter what. However, now that our kids are a l...
A. 12 March 2012: This will be a painful reply, but I think you're marriage has been slipping away for awhile, but you didn't notice it when the kids were home. And the responsibility of the kids made her feel "whole" and alive. I can't say she doesn't love you but ... (read in full...)
Have you ever smelled a perfume that enticed you?
Q. This question is for Women, but men are welcome too. Have you ever smelled a perfume that enticed you? ...
A. 12 March 2012: Oops sorry,my favorite is Aramis for MEN.... (read in full...)
Have you ever smelled a perfume that enticed you?
Q. This question is for Women, but men are welcome too. Have you ever smelled a perfume that enticed you? ...
A. 12 March 2012: Clinique "Wrappings"...I've had men stop me in grocery stores to ask what I was wearing because they loved the way it smelled. ... (read in full...)
How can I increase my chances of having twins?
Q. hello everyone, i have a very simple question. im trying for another baby but i would like to concieve twins.... any ideas how to increase my chances? iv heard about eatting sweet potatos any thing else?...
A. 12 March 2012: Pray.... (read in full...)
I think my love affair went back to his wife!
Q. I don't know what to do now. I am married and had an affair with married coworker. We had fantastic relationship, spending every possible minute with each other, talking openly about everything, it was about love not sex. We both were not happy in ...
A. 4 December 2010: When you met this last time, why didn't you just ask him what's going on so you could get to the bottom of this trip and figure out what to do next? I know you just want things to go back to the way they were, but that isn't going to happen ... (read in full...)
How do I respond to a woman who flaked out on me?
Q. I am 42. She is 34. We've gone out on two dates and have gotten along perfectly. The first time I took her to a concert, then to dinner afterward where we talked. At one point, she said, "you're so cute." The second time we went to a club, t...
A. 4 December 2010: I would go with your third instinct. Let her make the next move and be prepared that there may not be one. If you cannot bear to do that, then just text her back that it's no big deal and tell her some other time, then you can tell her to call you ... (read in full...)
Can I ever trust my wife again...after her affair?
Q. I found out my wife was having an affair at the early stages by accident. That was 3 weeks ago. I was shocked and heartbroken - my world collapsed, partly due to the fact that she told me that she did not feel anything for me anymore after I ...
A. 16 March 2010: She may be able to distance herself from this guy and put herself back into her marriage, but that is only if she is making an effort to cut all ties with this other guy. I certainly hope he does not work with her, and is traveling with her on these ... (read in full...)
Is this true?
Q. My girlfriend's mum told me... a woman sleeps with a man, has an orgasm and thinks shes in love. The man just thinks he had a wonderful night. Is that true?? ...
A. 16 March 2010: Somewhat true. Women tend to sleep with men after they have feelings for them whereas men can sleep with someone he just met and then never think of her again. Consider it like this; In order for a woman to have sex, she must take a man inside of ... (read in full...)
Tempted to sleep around with a lot of men, as I have a high sex drive! Will I regret doing this?
Q. I would like some advice from fellow adult females. I have just got out of a long relationship and don't want to get into another one for a good while. I have a high sex drive and miss that aspect of relationships. At present, I am tempted to sleep ...
A. 16 March 2010: You should never feel afraid or embarrassed to shop around when it comes to your sexual experiences and preferences. Too many women marry young and end up wondering what's out there, then make a break for it at 40 and freak everyone out. As long as ... (read in full...)
I need to choose between these 2 guys! But I love both of them...help!!
Q. Hallo great helper! Am wondering what to do. My ex has finally managed to win his way back.. I met him over the weekend after months of writing,a few phones and the like. His latest statement-"you love me, i love you, so take me and be happy." ...
A. 16 March 2010: The longer you go in this state of "limbo" the more cloudy reality becomes, the more addicted to will become to the attention of two men. What's that old saying? "Together they make the perfect man" half of one that does these things you like, and ... (read in full...)
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