My ex is driving me crazy! I hate having so much hate inside me, please help
Q. ok, i have written about this a number of times. but its just driving me crazy. we've been broken up for 5 months now. we are at the same university and stay at the same campus and go to the same church. i have tried forgetting him and moving o...
A. 12 November 2011: Ughhh. This guy is losing his touch with women. That's why he needs some sort of reaction about women. He is, stringing you along. What works for me with having that kind of hate is to...well hate. Think about him. Think about how much he hurted ... (read in full...)
Cadet crush. How can I get him to talk to me more?
Q. So I am a new cadet I started pretty late and there is a chief that I really like who is there. He is probably one of the coolest guys I have every met. I dont see him often because hes a really high rank and doesnt teach classes and the other thing ...
A. 12 November 2011: Awww ;3. I have friends in JROTC that are high rank too :D. The thing is, you can keep on improving rank. Keep on going up with the quizzes and community service and you get to be in his squad. Since he's two years older than you than it will be ... (read in full...)
He's so cold to me now we've slept together
Q. my boyfriend and i have been together for about ten months.we had sex after three months of our relationship,but that changed everything between us.he is so cold to me,he doesn't care to answer my calls and if he does,his response is so cold.he also ...
A. 19 October 2011: You need to dump him. You never once said how nice he was during the 10 months you were together. If he doubted you were a virgin how DARE he question your sex life. It's your own life you get to do w/e you want with it. Wait, if he had sex with you ... (read in full...)
I've been very good to my boyfriend from day one, but there has been a constant lack of appreciation and investment at his end..
Q. I've been very good to my boyfriend from day one. I have the ability to anticipate his needs or actions to a fault. He told me to ask him for what I want in the relationship. I don't need much, but the few times I have asked, he hasn't followed ...
A. 19 October 2011: This guy sounds like he's just using you. In your information you often stated things YOU did for him. Never once did you mention on what this guy does for you. He watches your Netflix (that you paid for), you Take him out to lunch (I'm guessing you ... (read in full...)
He doesn't speak for days after we've seen each other
Q. i only see my boyfriend once in a while, but when i do see him, he doesnt really talk to me for like 3 or 4 days afterwards. We are both grown adults. Why do you think he does this?...
A. 19 October 2011: I think you know where this relationship is going when you say "once in a while." He doesn't see you afterwards meaning he's probably ready to break up. Relationships are closeness with separation of like, a day before both get lovesick for the ... (read in full...)
He doesn't seem as interested as I am, what can I do to pull him closer??
Q. there is this guy like his single when i met him and like its being 2 months now he still don't want to start a relationship but the EMBARRASSING thing is that im in love with him and im afraid to tell him cause every time we talk on those things he ...
A. 16 October 2011: um...you aren't in "love" with him, this is just an infatuation that will pass over. When you do talk to him he might not actually live up to your "expectation" of what you thought he was. He doesn't seem interested so lay off him and give him some ... (read in full...)
My sister, who irritates me tremendously, heard me call her a bitch, should I apologize??
Q. Im 20 and my sister is 26 im the youngest and they have always treated me like a baby and since ive started growing up its been hell!! My sister and my mom are overbearing they come in my room telling me to go to bed,yell at me for being on the ...
A. 16 October 2011: No, you absolutely shouldn't. She should learn she's taking things WAYYY to far. Boarding up your windows and taking off your doorknob. To me, it sounds like she has a jealousy issue. She has a baby now she has a New boyfriend. When she looks over ... (read in full...)
How do we spend the night as a little more than just friends?
Q. I have a girl joining me in a couple of nights to hang out as friends. Now my question is simple, how can I make it so we spend the night as a little more as friends? Women especially, what types of things can I do to woo her? I don't want it to be...
A. 16 October 2011: Ah! This advice may sound awkward but...make a pick up line at her xD. If she flinches and looks uncomfortable then she'll probably doesn't want to be more than friends. Start out slowly with a few touches like, patting her shoulder, hugging her, ... (read in full...)
Am I horrible and selfish for not sleeping his way?
Q. things have been rocky with my boyfriend lately. Our last fight was on our anniversary-month. He came over surprise me with a flower, letter and chocolate and in turn I gave him letter and a key chain bear. He told me he had to wake up 7am in the ...
A. 16 October 2011: What he said sounds like a spur of a moment. As his head clears later on he realizes that he should apologize. So he did. You should also apologize and take back the stuff you threw away. You'll regret that. You two just need some time and space for ... (read in full...)
Do I keep going with her? Or give up on her until she is over her ex? Am I just the nice rebound guy to her?
Q. ok so feel a bit strange about doing this but really need some advice. I'm 31, pretty normal guy. Have had a very normal relationship history up to now - few happy long term relationships, few shorter term things. My issue is with my current ...
A. 16 October 2011: You should definitely give up. It sounds like she's just using you for "insurance". It's like this. She'll try to work things out with her ex. When she finally realizes that it doesn't work, she'll start to become more "girl friendish" to you.She ... (read in full...)
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