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writes: I have a girl joining me in a couple of nights to hang out as friends. Now my question is simple, how can I make it so we spend the night as a little more as friends? Women especially, what types of things can I do to woo her? I don't want it to be weird in any way, I want everything to be romantic and special - Keep in mind we're both 18. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, stateside +, writes (16 October 2011):
There is just so much stuff. Find her circle of girlfriends, do them favors, buy them lunch, remember their birthdays, get them cards, tell them how great they are. Have education, housing, job material somewhere in you car or place where it can be seen easily. Let her know you are serious about making it in life. Let her talk alot, ask her question after question. Ask about her family, her plans, her clothes. If you strike out, it doen't mean you are out of the ball game. Study hard, work on your future, out perform anyone that she might hook up with. Stay in touch with her friends at all cost. maybe 4 to 6 years from now, she may be asking you.
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reader, Rawrsie +, writes (16 October 2011):
Ah! This advice may sound awkward but...make a pick up line at her xD. If she flinches and looks uncomfortable then she'll probably doesn't want to be more than friends. Start out slowly with a few touches like, patting her shoulder, hugging her, hands on her knee. Don't be too suggestive and blunt though, it'll make you seem like a pervert. At the end when she leaves, pull her up close and ask, "Do you like-like me?"
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reader, Moo's Mum +, writes (16 October 2011):
Make her a nice meal and eat it together (or failing that a spectacular dessert) and find out what her favourite movie is and watch that together. As the movie progresses you can start to cuddle up together and see where things go.
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