Since I cheated on her, she won't say that she loves me! What can I do?
Q. ok so i feel horrible for this but i cheated on my gf but she said she loved me enough that she would give me another chance but she wants me to still say 'i love you' to her but she wont say it back for a while until she fully trusts me again. I ...
A. 8 April 2010: Well you cheated on her. She either needs time or she'll never get over it. It depends on her. If she can't get over it then I must say I don't think it'll work. Some people can cope with it and will learn to trust you again. If that's the case then ... (read in full...)
I worry what the meaning of marriage is for the new generation.
Q. I am only 17 but I worry what the meaning of marriage is for the new generation. I have seen married couples into this new trend with the threesome. Correct me if iam wrong i thought when you marry its only to one person not sharing your mate. what ...
A. 21 March 2010: o_o I haven't heard of any married people I know having threesomes. But I do believe that marriage isn't as strong these days, but then again couples aren't very strong these days. But marriage isn't what's important here, it' just a word and a ... (read in full...)
Student-teacher relationships, and the importance of keeping it strictly professional
Q. I met my social studies teacher in 6th grade and since that day I've never stopped liking himm. On a personal level him nd I are best of friends on a professional level we're still best of friends and its because we get each other I get him he gets ...
A. 21 March 2010: Uh.. in eighth grade I'm pretty sure if he DID share your feelings it would be illegal. Anyway, he's a married man, teachers can be great friends but becoming more than that can be a complex and dangerous thing. I wouldn't suggest being anything ... (read in full...)
Should I go and meet a guy from the past when I'm married?
Q. Recently and old "friend" has contacted me through facebook. We have not seen each other in 21 years. And we had sexual relations at the time. I feel that everything happens for a reason. And I think that we are developing some feelings for one ...
A. 21 March 2010: Well from what you said it sounds like you've already made up your mind. If you're having problems with your husband then talk to him about them, see if he feels the same way you do. If so then maybe it's time you split. But going to meet a guy ... (read in full...)
How long after you conceieve does it normally take for your period to stop?
Q. If I had sex a week before my period started and hypothetically got pregnant, would I still have my period the nest week? I'm not sure that I'm actually pregnant I just wondered how long it normally takes after you have sex for your period to stop ...
A. 16 March 2010: Thanks for the info! Takes a load off my mind lol your answer was extremely helpful.... (read in full...)
Is it normal to feel down at the end stages of pregnancy?
Q. is it normal to feel down at the end stages of pregnancy?? i dont want to see anyone really, one minute im fine the next im getting frustrated very quickly, i dont want any sexual attention from my partner and i cry at night because i have t...
A. 11 March 2010: I think it's normal. You're going through a big change in life. A child is a huge responsibility and if you're ready to take it on expect to feel a whole range of emotions. Big changes take big emotions.... (read in full...)
He said mean uncalled for things that he can't take back. So why do I want to take him back?
Q. Alright I'm having the hardest time trying to figure out what's going on in my head here. I was with my ex boyfriend for a little over two years and I felt like he was the man I wanted to marry with no doubts. Our personalities, mannerisms and ...
A. 11 March 2010: I talked to him MANY times about toning down his drinking while we were together and though he promised he would, he'd just slow down for a little while then it'd all come back and he'd have cans littering his floor by the end of the night and the ... (read in full...)
Porn, relationships, and confidence of women today.
Q. Okay, so i'm just going to talk about relationships and porn and let me know your opinions on what I have to say, if you're a woman that doesn't mind her man looking at it then fair enough but don't come ranting how us women who aren't are ...
A. 10 March 2010: It's just porn? Everyone makes a huge deal out of it _ Me and my friend and her boyfriend all watched a porn together and made fun of it. They're actually quite funny. Not the whole thing though, geez some of those things are scary. Her vag looked ... (read in full...)
Do I tell his girlfriend he is flirting with me?
Q. I have a guy friend who has been in a relationship with his girlfriend for over a year. He claims to love her, but quite often he acts in a really innappropiate way around me, and sometimes other girls, that suggests he doesn't. For example, last ...
A. 10 March 2010: Well sitting on his lap at all in the first place was a bad idea. If he's with someone you should know boundaries and that definitely sounds like one of them. He might feel a little bit led-on if you let him get as close as fingering you in public ... (read in full...)
How do we deal with such ignorance toward our relationship?
Q. So here's the situation: I am in the military, assigned to Tokyo (where I'm currently living) and I have a job where I am one of only 2 females. Most men here take up Japanese women to be their girlfriends, or brides and most look down upon those wh...
A. 10 March 2010: xD ahh some people crack me up. Screw them I say. I mean, you actually let those kind of people bother you? What they say sounds like they're very shallow and their comments have no basis. So what if he's from the middle east? So what if you're not ... (read in full...)
We used a condom but I'm ill and scared I could be pregnant!
Q. I'm 15, 16 in July.. Me and my boyfriend of just over 5 months now have had sex. the last time was about a month ago. For the past few weeks i've been feeling ill and last night my mum kept asking me over and over and over again if i have had sex ...
A. 10 March 2010: You're probably just nervous and are making yourself sick. I've had plenty of times I swore I was pregnant after me and my ex had sex but it turned out I was just being way too paranoid and getting myself worked up. You may be starting your period ... (read in full...)
He's on his way, should I be worried?
Q. Okay so I just joined up wondering if I could get some advice. Me and a guy I've been talking to for about 6-7 years on the internet have recently become more... involved I guess you'd say. We've never done anything like cyber or all that jazz but ...
A. 13 January 2010: Well we have it pretty well planned out. He's going to be staying in a hotel that's just down the road from me and he has enough money to support himself while he's here and then some for spending, we know that. We're not planning anything serious, ... (read in full...)
I try to maintain the "I'm fine as I am" stance, but most guys seem to go for the trophy girl sort
Q. I have always thought that it was best to be myself- people always say "just be yourself" but then you have the Hollywood idea where looks are everything. Perfect hair, tight clothes, no brains. (Apparently it isn't "cool" to be smart or ...
A. 12 January 2010: They're obviously trying to attract a different kind of guy than you are. I wouldn't worry too much about it. Who wins in the end anyway? They'll be attracting guys who are under the impression they're just dull girls that they find attractive. But ... (read in full...)
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