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writes: I am only 17 but I worry what the meaning of marriage is for the new generation. I have seen married couples into this new trend with the threesome. Correct me if iam wrong i thought when you marry its only to one person not sharing your mate. what really gets me is how can you love me so much but you can stand to see someone else make love to your wife or husband? Is that a real marriage or just to confuse people? If that is how marriage will be I'd rather be lonely.
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reader, rcn  +, writes (7 April 2010):
 Marriage is not about a generation or being new as such. You're marriage will be about you and your husband. Who cares about what's outside your marriage, when you'd be the creators of inside your marriage. I believe marriage holds a great deal of value if those in it keep to its value.
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reader, $izZle  +, writes (23 March 2010):
 just to let you all know having casual sex with many different people is actually a bad thing and it has been proven medically that when you have sex with more people the harmon's in our body docomain and oxytosin which makes us stay with 1 partner and experience things with them stops functioning properly and that's what causes people to stop loving partners that they are with ... and retards the chances of having a permanent relationship with another person...
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reader, veronika  +, writes (23 March 2010):
 I don't see why other people's marriages are anyone else's business.
If someone wants to have a threesome in their marriage, then that's their choice and they're allowed to make it.
It shouldn't worry anyone.
I personally don't even like the idea of marriage at all. I want to "settle down" with someone eventually, but I do not want to get married to them. I don't think it's necessary for me. Hopefully I meet someone like minded. I know several older couples who are in de facto relationships, one who has been together for more than 25 years without marrying and are just as in love as a married couple would be.
Marriage is really personal for couples, and it really isn't anyone else's business.
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reader, Quizic +, writes (21 March 2010):
o_o I haven't heard of any married people I know having threesomes. But I do believe that marriage isn't as strong these days, but then again couples aren't very strong these days. But marriage isn't what's important here, it' just a word and a contract, it's the people who define marriage, not marriage that defines the people. People are very... flitty? these days. That's the only word I can think for it. But yeah, I'd never be comfortable with a threesome. I'd be angry beyond words for my partner to ever even seriously consider it, and I'm sure he'd feel that same way. Just depends on the people. And some people who are deeply in love have a fetish with that kind of thing for whatever reason. Guess it's all preference.
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reader, $izZle +, writes (20 March 2010):
i feel that today, the word love has very little or no meaning. I have lived to see women tell a man i love you because he has money or because he can provide her with security and I don't think that people should marry because of those reasons. Love should be unconditional and that should be the reason people should marry. I have a friend who got married to a man because they just liked each other and she didn't wanna be alone, and now he don't even respect her he doesn't pay much attention to her and she fell in love with another man so her husband tried to threaten her to stop talking to him she couldn't do it so he got her pregnant so that she will be forced to stop talking to him and her husband is happy now but she is not and she still keeps saying that she cant do anything about it because she is married to him. She is 3,1/2 months pregnant now she cooked him a nice lunch his favorite dish pork roast and he didn't appreciate what she did for him... and her lover didn't like that he told her that her husband should have appreciated her efforts and she got mad at him and she was mean to him lol and he asked me what should he do.... can you tell me what shall i tell him ... is that what marriage is suppose to be a commitment that you have to live for like a job you have to do to survive do it even if you don't like it
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank u so much!!!!!!!!i jus want intimacy and conversation is more then sex.sex doesnt last long wen u live with dat person.
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