My husband and I are trying to conceive by self-insemination. What are the success rates?
Q. I am trying to conceive by self-insemination using my husband's sperm. He takes the semen in a clean dry steel container(open). I wait for about two-three minutes to get the semen liquified and then inseminate it intravaginally using a syringe. W...
A. 23 December 2005: It all sounds quite well planned out. It takes about 4 or 5 DAYS for sperm to die off, so in that respect things look quite well. As for the method of insertion, there may be issues. The speed at which the sperm enter you is critical. When a man ... (read in full...)
She's just too tight and it's a strain on my penis!
Q. My girlfriend's vagina is really tight. I have an uncircumsized penis and every time we have sex, it kills me because my skin gets pulled back and actually stays like that. I have to pull out and fix it, it gets annoying. We don't want to use a co...
A. 17 December 2005: It's never easy when there's problems in bed. Even if it's embarrasing to discuss it, talking it out can be a pretty big step in the right direction.
This might be an emtionl problem your partner has. If she is feeling uncomfortble, sex is alwa... (read in full...)
He's worth waiting for but I don't know where I stand. What do I do?
Q. I have met a really sweet, wonderful guy and would love to be his girlfriend. He has indicated that he would like to be in a relationship, but on another occasion he has also said that a ‘friend’ of his betrayed him really badly and I wonder if, as ...
A. 17 December 2005: It's a tricky one... I think the best thing to do is share your experiences, too. Let him know you've been through the same, and you want to share it with him... because he's special. This should let him know how you feel, without being too lax or ... (read in full...)
He's a famous singer in a band and we've dated..so do I contact him or wait?
Q. i have been on a date with a guy this week and i;m totally smitten there's only one problem... he's a famous singer in a band. the question is do i contact him or wait for him to contact me? we're both away for the xmas period so we won't have a ...
A. 17 December 2005: ...and that's ok! Just treat the situation the same as you would with a normal guy! Okay, so he's away over Christmas and works a lot, just work around that. If you feel you want to call him, he'll have no objection - after all, his fame and fortune ... (read in full...)
All I want for Xmas is... My partner not *only* to have bought me sex-toys!
Q. hi, ok ive been with my partner now for 3 months and the sex is great! christmas is coming, as we all know. we have a very honest relationship and he went shopping with one of his male mates, who also has a gf, and they went to a popular sex shop...
A. 17 December 2005: First off - when your guy buys you lots and lots of sex toys, it means he likes having sex with you lots and lots! Again, guys are a little dim-witted without realisnig it; we do things that we don't entirely understand (unless we're psychologists ... (read in full...)
I just want a quiet drink at the pub, but my fella wants to talk off the ear of the barmaid!
Q. Hi there, Can anyone help me with this problem? I’ve been seeing my boyfriend for nearly 3 years. The trouble is that whenever we go out for a drink he always strikes up a long conversation with the barmaid and it could be in any pub. Now don’t...
A. 17 December 2005: It's a tricky one, and, depending on who your guy is, I'm not too sure what it could be. But I'm betting it's one of these:
1) The socialist: Do you often find that he strikes up conversation with strangers? Goes to lots of social outings he doesn... (read in full...)
Our breakup lasted just long enough for him to be turned down by someone else! Do I give him another chance?
Q. My boyfriend just broke up with me and asked someone else out, then dumped her within a day and asked me back out by note. Should I say 'yes' and go back out with him or should I say 'no' and not go back out with him?...
A. 17 December 2005: Hmm, I suppose it all rests on how you feel about each other. Just after breakups, guys get a little affronted, and some like to protect their pride by starting a new relationship "out of spite" (kinda like F.R.I.E.N.D.S, where Ross goes out and has ... (read in full...)
It looks like we like each other, but how do we make that next step?
Q. Dear Cupid, I need some advice. I think this happens to everyone but I'm not sure how others go about it. There is a beautiful lady that I see almost every day at a local coffee shop. I've gotten to where we say hi and wave. She smiles when she ...
A. 17 December 2005: It's not an easy thing, is it... Okay, so a good palce to start would just to get her talking. The next few times you see her, try to get her to take your order and ask her how her day was etc. just to get her talking about herself - showing ... (read in full...)
My husband tells his family every single detail of our lives... But he doesn't trust me!
Q. i have been married for almost 4 years with two children.my husband doesnot trust me at all.i feel like he is married to his family.i mean they n know everything about our life...every tiny detail thanks to him.they tell him stuff and he keeps th...
A. 16 December 2005: Some men have issues with superiority as children, and carry it onto adult life. This may be a result of a psychological complex, where, effectively, you partner isn't AWARE he is acting in such an obnoxious way. Making him aware of it in an ... (read in full...)
Previous attempts at intercourse hurt a lot...is there something wrong with me?
Q. i am 17 years old, the first time i tried sex was when i was 15 years old, though the guy got in me, it hurt very much , but i new that would happen any way, it wasnt a good experience at all, i thought it could only get better. again in the may i ...
A. 16 December 2005: Okay, I can't offer a full emotional explanation - your feelings and issues are your own. However, after the first few lines of your question, I remembered something from my biology classes.
Theres a little piece of skin right inside your vagi... (read in full...)
I've suckled on a nipple but never had sex. People say I send out a "non-sexual vibe"... What can I do?
Q. I'm an incredibly frustrated 24-year-old virgin who's never even had a girlfriend (the farthest I've gotten dating wise was going out with this one girl for a couple of weeks at the start of this year ... I've made out with a lot of girls, and got ...
A. 16 December 2005: Ok, forget what the person before me said. Holding out for that "someone special" aint an easy thing, and whores aren't exactly the ideal solution. My advice - go out with your mates, try and pull (if you don't get one, who's to say you won't get ... (read in full...)
An innocent enough comment... but was there more to it?
Q. A co-worker and I were having a normal conversation the other day about the teamwork. After he said ".... others like you, and I like you", he quickly looked down. Then there was a pause for a few seconds. Was I too sensitive? ...
A. 16 December 2005: Okay, he probably likes you. But don't forget, us guys are sensitive creatures, so if you want to find out, try and do it gently.
He might not like you, it might have been a slip of the tongue, and when he realised what he'd said he got a bit emba... (read in full...)
My experience with my best friend age 10, over a decade ago, leaves me thinking I may be gay?
Q. Hello,i got one question,i remember at the age of 10 my best friend(f) and i were playing and eventually we started touching each other,kissed and it felt good,my mom walked in and caught us,we were immediately separaete for life,i never saw her ...
A. 16 December 2005: Okay, I'm gonna start by getting very confusing by using psychology. Sigmund Freud reckoned that, as a child, between the ages of 3 and 5, children develop an active 'fascination' with their genitals (ever had to tell your child off for having their ... (read in full...)
I really like this girl and we have dated. How do I tell my family I am bi-sexual?
Q. Ok well. i am a 20yr old female, i have only ever dated men but have known for nearly a year that i am bisexual. There is this girl, call her jenny. She is the most beautiful thing i have ever seen, and we play on a sport team together. A week ago ...
A. 16 December 2005: Firstly... I IDENTIFY!!! Although I'm a few months further down the line. If I explain my situation, maybe it will be easier to make your choices, knowing the outcomes of mine? Ok, here we go...
I realised I liked boys about January 2005 time. I we... (read in full...)
He has another gf and won't make a decison between her and I.
Q. I have got involved with my best friend, but he is also seeing someone else. They have been seeing each other for over 3 years, but they lives miles apart and only see each other on holiday, snatched days etc because she lives with her partner. ...
A. 16 December 2005: Sounds quite complicated... unfortunately, this matter is only something your friend can solve. He has to make this choice on his own. If he is involved with both of you up to the point that he is expressing love, I feel that he is, in fact, lying ... (read in full...)
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