I'm attracted to tactile men but how can I stop them being too tactile, too soon?
Q. I would like to ask this to both male and females out there. I've just recently been on a date with a guy I met online. I'm a single mum and my job is 99% female so I find it difficult to meet men the normal way eg through work ,bars etc .I always s...
A. 8 February 2013: a lesson to try is to listen to yourself as you talk feel the way you walk n posture, if you rely feel somthing may be alerting them to act this way their lyies the problem, hope its a bit helpfull.... (read in full...)
Ever since my boyfriend confided that he and his ex engaged in anal sex, I've had difficulty being intimate with him
Q. I have been dating the most amazing man for four months. Everything was wonderful until two weeks ago when he confided that he and his ex engaged in anal sex. Since then, I've had difficulty being intimate with him. I think anal sex is disgustin...
A. 29 January 2013: wow hello uhm I think you don’t like what you heard, it grosses you out every time it's thought about. you're heartbroken to find a piece of what is now yours is badly damaged and it’ll never be the same. Now hear me out a bit. I feel my wife ... (read in full...)
Searched signs of cheating on the internet and she's hitting them all. What should I do or think? She's done it in the past.
Q. do you think because shes cheated and dumped me numerous times for other guys n a girl in the past that she could be hiding it and doing it still weve talked about the past and i still am hurt from the facts of the past, hell i might have a complex ...
A. 29 January 2013: i thank all of you for giving some advice or tools i say , well i asked her directly, who have you slept with that i dont know about? no one,i reminded her of a time of when we split up for a month, bout 6 months before we got married, but remember ... (read in full...)
Searched signs of cheating on the internet and she's hitting them all. What should I do or think? She's done it in the past.
Q. do you think because shes cheated and dumped me numerous times for other guys n a girl in the past that she could be hiding it and doing it still weve talked about the past and i still am hurt from the facts of the past, hell i might have a complex ...
A. 27 January 2013: thank you, id also like to get some comments from women who have cheated i should and want to leave but three kids i love them i think more than her cause their lives are caught up here i cant take them on my own ive been tryin to do all the momy ... (read in full...)
Porn haters, what would you do in this dilemma?
Q. Hi I am female who hates porn in a relationship first off but I have a dilemma.... Porn haters what would you do in my situation... Go back to the guy who was viewing artistic porn with the sound off and didn't give it up until I ask for a ult...
A. 27 January 2013: i hate porn i dont know i think maybe he has gathered some insite on how to be better in bed but wont find it there if yer still with him let him know in some way he needs to learn the other part of making love hes gotta warm u up first teach him ... (read in full...)
Situation with my dad and his neighbour is getting out of hand, what can we do to help the situation?
Q. I am writing this on behalf of my Dad, as none of us are too sure what to do any more. About a year ago, a man in his mid twenties moved in next door to my Mum and Dad. Due to his age, my Dad instantly started worrying that this man was going to...
A. 26 January 2013: if canabis is illegal there then call the police to your perents home for an apparent prowler, have them walk the property to ensure safety, also mention the problem next door , do this while they party and toke up. If cannabis is legal then cal... (read in full...)
He's in and out of my life..he only appears when he wants to
Q. Hey friends! so here's a long story and i beg your patience and advice. I'm a lil bit puzzled by one guys behaviour. To clarify everything i should tell our "love"story. We've met each other by accident, coz two young Germans (about...
A. 26 January 2013: hunt him down to the exact time and place and iether do the whole romantic thing, or interupt and lay it all out for him give him the altimatum or the patient thaght filled and expecting him without him knowing and stand infront of him and choose ... (read in full...)
Couples in Transition: Monogamy and Non-monogamy
Q. Couples in Transition: Monogamy and Non-monogamy By Frank Kermit ND, Relationships Couples who are experiencing a transition in the status of their relationship may sometimes look to explore new ways of redefining their sex lives b...
A. 24 January 2013: i thaught she was cheating and after reading your post on monogany in relationships i believe shes been doin this for a few years atleast 10 ive always noticed how wen i say her choice of friends are always lesbeians or girls living with single men ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has no endurance to be on top during sex
Q. My boyfriend can't be on top during sex. He's about 220 lbs and he's around 6 feet tall, so he's a little overweight but not obese or anything, anyways he gets tired really easily and can't last on top at all. Like 5 to 10 minutes and he either has ...
A. 23 January 2013: hay i get like that but im 148 pounds 6 ft but try longer forplay and make it last awhile till you're satisfied and then finish him off and the other thing, uummm, yes i had that problem but i liked forplay for my short timer syndrome and save... (read in full...)
Should I complain? Or am I the one over-reacting?
Q. Hi guys! Right i was in Uni yesterday there is a 41 year old guy there basically yesterday we had a mock exam and after it was finished he was searching around everywhere so i asked him what he was looking for. He said an earring i said well i'm not ...
A. 22 January 2013: You were fine, he's an asshole and will never be in a happy relationship and prolly lives with his mom or gma lol, don't lose any sleep he's stupid. But you may have sounded rude, he had a bad day and took it out on you and prolly the coffee shop ... (read in full...)
Knowing who and what is right for you....
Q. “How do you know someone is right for you”? If most of us knew how to answer this question, you would tend to think there would be less questions posted to this site. Answering this question successfully does depend on a large degree of self-a...
A. 22 January 2013: I want to chat with you, you may help me figure out whether I'm in the right relationship.... (read in full...)
How do I get my partner to do more foreplay, and have sex more often?
Q. Hi aunts and uncles just a quick question. What do you do when you have a partner that wont do much or any foreplay. He will not do oral sex at all, not even once a year, he will kiss me before and during sex, I do have to intiate it most of the ...
A. 22 January 2013: wow I've got the exact problem with my wife, I've gotta do it all all the time but I do oral on her and she hardly returns the favor. Sorry if I couldn't help much, just found you and you sound like me lol, comment me back please we may come to a ... (read in full...)
I'm unhappy and my parents keep pushing things on me and don't seem to care how I feel
Q. Im 19 i am not happy my parents dont seem to understand that i am not ok. I feel alone. My parents are religious and keep shoving down things on me like if they dont care how i feel. Sometimes i dont feel like living. They dont let me do anything. ...
A. 21 January 2013: They do care do they argue with each other theres somthing on theyer minds must be some heavy stuff theyre dealing with think for a sec may u be a little gogogo n theyre a lil concerned bout wat yer doin n where n who yer hangin with theyer ... (read in full...)
Should my husband go to the funeral of his ex girlfriend's father?
Q. My husband's x-girlfriend's father passed away. They have two children together. She tried to trap him into marriage.. Didn't work. She has also tried to cause many problems between us.. She hates me.. Should he attend her father's funeral? I ...
A. 21 January 2013: The whole house should go to show yer house knows how to contribute in a time of needing help plus the kids can play n not pay attention to the tears if hese considering going if he says no just me n the kids or just himself then well not a good ... (read in full...)
Is our situations just too complicated? Should I stop what I'm feeling?
Q. OK Yes I just got out of a 9 year off and on relationship. I can't stress how much I am over the guy the father of my seven year old and now unborn child. He doesn't want anything to do with us...again. i asked for advice on convincing a guy I've ...
A. 21 January 2013: Well i think some of the others have some helpful advice so check em all out my take is he may be enjoying his no strings atatched life for now and it all seems cool to him but not rite now hes prolly having trouble figurin out how to make ... (read in full...)
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