How can I socialize with slight anxiety?
Q. If anybody could please advise , what’s the best way to through the issue above. Basically I feel down about myself and indeed never feel happy anymore or fulfillment of me being me . I feel as if I am going nowhere with life and life is just a c...
A. 11 December 2013: Hello!
I have to say, reading this I find myself empathizing. A lot.
I can understand it is difficult to get out of a rut once you are in a routine, and that routine becomes boring. I know the classic answer most people will give is 'Join a ... (read in full...)
I want to date her but I get shy when we speak face to face!
Q. Hiii My name is kev , and i'm 23 I had a girlfriend before ( we had been knowing each other by chatting) , and nowadays i am alone , so i have been having problem in communicating with girls in face to face style and girls who are alien up to know...
A. 11 December 2013: Hi Kev! This sounds like a problem that is effecting you in a big way, it can't be nice to feel that you are not confident. Here's my advice: Girls, oddly enough, are humans too! I think too many people have this idea that men and women ar... (read in full...)
How can I be happy if a part of me is forced to be repressed?
Q. Hi aunts and uncles, I hope I do not offend anyone but I am a semi active crossdresser. Basically I am a married heterosexual man with no interest in men. I have a strong feminine side that I feel I need to satisfy, meaning, I need to feel pretty ...
A. 27 January 2012: Firstly:
"Hi aunts and uncles, I hope I do not offend anyone but I am a semi active crossdresser."
-Wrong attitude. You shouldn't be apologizing, it's the people that are 'offended' that should apologize. You are who you are, thats all there is... (read in full...)
Boyfriend's mom won't let him be in a relationship!
Q. how can i ask my b/f to do the right thing when his mum won't let him be classed as in a relationship with me, she bullies him every time he sees her which is only 2 collect his money as she won't let him use his own bank account, we've been ...
A. 27 January 2012: It says that your age range is 36-40, so I shall assume that this is the general age range for your boyfriend too? if so, then the mother, really, should have no say in the matter. He is an adult, and his mother needs to let go. She should have no ... (read in full...)
Am I sending mixed signals or is he just not interested?
Q. I met this guy online, he travelled miles to meet me and now that he's near, we only went on two dates and he went up north to join a course for three weeks. He emailed me saying he was sorry he didn't keep in touch (for a week) saying he had ...
A. 27 January 2012: Hmm. the 'is he interested' question is always a tricky one. Some men are simple. They seem baffled by the 'hard to get' game and would much prefer a woman to say 'I like you. Lets spend more time together'. However, it could be the case that you ... (read in full...)
Dating only 5 months and already he's making excuses to not cuddle/have sex?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for a few months and he is as sweet as hell! helped me move into my flat, would do anything for me, but the last couple of days I have been feeling really annoyed with him but i dont know why~! actually i do know why! ...
A. 27 January 2012: Many women (sorry if this is a sexist assumption...) have the opposite problem! Perhaps there is some underlying issue he doesn't want to talk about, you never know, he might be having some other problem that is preventing him from being intimate. ... (read in full...)
My husband always talks about how hot porn stars are.
Q. my husband watches porn. we have a great sex life. but when he watches porn he says comments like, o look at that big ass, mm those boobs are huge or her pussy looks good i want to fuck it. he says he loves me and loves my body. why would he say ...
A. 18 November 2010: Do you watch porn together? Or is it just with him?
Alot of guys watch porn and it has nothing to do with love. He might have absolutely no emotional connection with these girls on the screen, so there's no reason to feel threatened or feel that... (read in full...)
He's not who I want him to be.
Q. My boyfriend is not the boyfriend I want him to be. He has very different opinions on everything to me. I know they say opposites attracts but this is extreme. It's mainly about how we see the future [when we'd move in together, what the most ...
A. 15 November 2010: I can tell you that I am in a similar situation. I love my boyfriend, he loves me, but we have NOTHING in common. I'm an optimist, he's a pessimist, he loves football, I hate football, but it's all about compromise.
But it sounds like your pro... (read in full...)
Parents can't stand my girlfriend!
Q. my parents don't like my girlfriend. so how can i make them like her...
A. 14 November 2010: Yeah I agree with aunt honesty. We need a bit of background here. Why don't they like her? If she's a drug-dealer ex-convict then fair enough. What reasons do they give and why? Sometimes, parents can know best, however sometimes they are simply ... (read in full...)
I don't want him to be homeless!
Q. Ok I'm in my mid 20s as is my bf of 2 years. He cheated on me, physically and emotionally and I found out a couple months ago. I loved him, and took him back even though I knew I wasn't doing the right thing. (We live together in my house). Over...
A. 14 November 2010: If you decide to end it with the current boyfriend, will he really be homeless? chances are he'll land on his feet, and find somewhere else to live. It sounds like whatever's happening, you and your current bf are not happy. Cheating is a sign that ... (read in full...)
How to bring the Spark back in your relationship.
Q. How do you bring the spark back into a relationship when it is suffered from external factor, that can be sorted out, but put strain on the relationship. Ideas on bringing the spark back would be appreciated! ...
A. 14 November 2010: I can tell you exactly what put the spark back in my dying relationship, and it's one thing: Space. When me and my boyfriend felt that things were getting a little stale, we decided to take a break. within 3 days he arrived at my door, telling me ... (read in full...)
He has people watching me while he's away!
Q. hi ive been dating this guy for a while and hes really nice. i have a wild streak and u know am a free bird and sometimes can do some pretty crazy things. ive never hidden it from him and was open with him from the begining of our relationship. he ...
A. 13 November 2010: Do you think he was really telling the truth or having you on? Perhaps if you are prone to being spontaneous, it's not you cheating he's worried about, but your safety? However, having 'people watching you' does sound a bit worrying, but it sounds ... (read in full...)
I've grown and changed since I proposed to her and am now doubting whether the marriage is the best idea
Q. Hello everyone, I've been so depressed lately. Let me start at the beginning. I'm originally from India, I moved out here when I was 11 so I have been brought up with a mixture of Indian ideals and I've seen all the western ideals by going ...
A. 13 November 2010: This is a very difficult situation...
You never know, your fiancée might be the steady, nice, supportive life partner that you need, rather than the quick flash-in-the-pan romance? imagine yourself looking into her eyes at the wedding, do you love... (read in full...)
Why did my shy crush do this?
Q. This just happened last night. I was at my friend's house and everything was going swimmingly. My crush, his sister, showed her usual signs of liking me (mainly looking at me). In the past, she would show other signs of liking me such as such as ...
A. 13 November 2010: It sounds to me that you might be over-analyzing the situation. Chances are that you are so obsessed over this crush, you are terrified of something going wrong, so you are picking up on small things you think might be an issue.
Honestly, I think ... (read in full...)
I've grown and changed since I proposed to her and am now doubting whether the marriage is the best idea
Q. Hello everyone, I've been so depressed lately. Let me start at the beginning. I'm originally from India, I moved out here when I was 11 so I have been brought up with a mixture of Indian ideals and I've seen all the western ideals by going ...
A. 13 November 2010: Maybe You want to start thinking about what YOU want rather than who your family want you to be. Maybe, if you want to keep your family happy and marry this quiet indian girl for their sake, you may live a long, happy, hassle-free life. And that's ... (read in full...)
Did we have sex because he loves me?
Q. Hey freinds pleae help me out of this confusion. Two years back i was in a relationship with a boy. I know at starting there was just attraction from both sides. We got involved in kissing, hugging, oral sex. after having 2 years relation we got ...
A. 13 November 2010: It's the age-old question. I think that with any sex, it is usually 50-50 when it comes to physical attraction and actual feelings. Some people will only have sex once they are completely emotionally close, where as some people will have sex with a ... (read in full...)
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