Am I completely ruining my life? Do I need to stop drinking? Get help?
Q. So I've recently been doing a great job at ruining my life. After a horrific break-up with a recent ex, (we'll call him M) I've just managed to make a balls of my life at every open opportunity. After the relationship ended I was feeling quite fr...
A. 7 January 2013: Thank you so much for your advice, it seems like the right thing for me too do and it is definitely my resolution. I need to love myself before I can ever dream of learning to love others. You should continue to give advice here, as what you have ... (read in full...)
How do I pull her up on her behaviour without hurting her feelings?
Q. My parents have been on rocky waters for the past few years. They married young and have found it hard to keep the passion a live. They have been separated for a couple of years but hadn't verified it exactly. They still live in the same house. ...
A. 30 July 2012: Thank you for your advice but as I look back I realise I haven't explained the situation to its extremity. I respect that you think I'm not being understanding but for a woman to put her family in a situation where they come second to an outsider is ... (read in full...)
Can I trust him? He clicked like on her profile!
Q. This is probably going to be the silliest question I've ever asked and I'm a bit embarrassed asking advice on this but the other day my boyfriend " liked " a girls picture on Facebook. He says it was his friend but since then it's made me very ...
A. 27 June 2012: I think you and your boyfriend need to talk about boundaries, what is and isn't acceptable in your relationship. Is flirting ok? where does it cut off? What do you consider cheating?
What the consequences would be if it happened etc.
Accusing ... (read in full...)
After we had sex is when he told me he wasn't looking for anything serious.
Q. I started to date this guy, he's 26 and I'm 18. I was really excited because my friends is going out with his brother and it also happened that we had a lot in common. So tonight we were on a date and things got kind of heated and we ended up ...
A. 8 May 2012: Thank you everyone, your advice means more to me than I can say!... (read in full...)
Right girl at the wrong time?
Q. What does is mean when a guy tells you that you were the right girl at the wrong time? When's the right time? ...
A. 17 April 2012: Thank you guys. He said this while talking about our past relationship, he's my ex. But we talk a lot now.. so that's why I wonder if now is the right time?
He doesn't flirt with me but I would love to give us a shot. I just don't know how to w... (read in full...)
Boyfriend keeps asking to slow things down says he cares about me but isn't in love with me
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 monthes things i thought were pretty good we live in different states but only 1 hour away.... we have been seeing each other every weekend i usually go around 7 friday night and stay until around 6 ...
A. 6 January 2012: I was in the same situation with a boyfriend at one point. We also lived an hour apart and we would take turns travelling up and down, we'd stay for the day or night sometimes. Which is a very short period of time, one day come on. But then he'd ... (read in full...)
My ex wants to meet for coffee. Good or bad idea?
Q. So basically my ex and I broke up 5 months ago. He has a new girlfriend but he still wants us to be "friends". I have feelings for him still and he wants to meet for coffee. Do you think it's a bad idea?...
A. 2 September 2011: So basically if I do decide not to go for the coffee does anyone have any advice of what I should say? And by the way thank you everyone!!... (read in full...)
We broke up but I think we both want to get back together
Q. Okay so my boyfriend and I broke up 3weeks ago, he recently wrote to me expressing how much he missed and loved me but had no intentions of doing anything about it. He's starting a new job and a course so hes busy and that is why he can't be in a ...
A. 12 May 2011: The funny thing is you've given me the advice I'd give myself I just didn't want to take it but hearing it from someone else makes me realise that I just have too. Thank you so much for your answer, it's really apperciated!!!... (read in full...)
How often should I contact my LDR?
Q. Hi I'm in a long distance relationship we have been together for about a month now, but as we are both students and she has heavy studys for uni right now we can't meet up till the summer, but I'm just wondering how often should I text her, as I ...
A. 12 May 2011: I've been in this situation and I find that texting is so impersonal! It's very hard to get to know someone through text especially when it's long distant.
I recommend a phone call every two days to talk about everything that's going on in your life... (read in full...)
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