If there is no trust, is there no love?
Q. Hello there, I have a girlfriend and she is polite to me most of the time. I do had times that I enjoyed with her and know her family. I do have times that my heart says that she isn't trusting me entirely and lying on me. My girlfriend trave...
A. 19 February 2010: It can be difficult but maybe you need to learn to trust. Talk to her about these things, its ok for women to have malke freinds.. dont try and control her too much but you do have a right to a relationship with trust and honesty.... (read in full...)
I broke his trust... how can I make this better?
Q. Okay, so I am a senior in high school and so is my boyfriend and we are both almost 18. We have been together since we were freshmen and our three year anniversary is coming up. Our first time having sex wasn't planned at all and this happene...
A. 19 February 2010: hey, i reckon things will work out, you can understand why he would be angry, but i dont think he would consider throwing away somone so special to him over this... in the bigger scheme of things what you did was not that bad. good luck x... (read in full...)
Is my girlfriend over her ex??
Q. Okay, I need a some different points of view on this to help me understand. As of 6 months ago I started dating my current girlfriend. She is a wonderful girl and I'm totally in love with her and she says she is totally in love with me. However,...
A. 13 February 2010: I think she cares for her ex. BUT does not in anyway want a romantic relationship with him, she does with you! When two people share thier lives together they will always have that small bond. Sorry but that is the way it is.
She obviousl... (read in full...)
He wants us to be "best friends" NOT boyfriend and girlfriend!
Q. We'd been really close and intimate. i thought we were going to be in a special relationship soon because he told me we were having something special. recently i was questioning him texting other girls and we brought up the 'freedom' matter...
A. 13 February 2010: I think you have done the right thing, in time he may realise what a mistake he has made...I dont think you have to have complete no contact if you can take the emotional strain. Just dont get too close to him, a little reminder here and there of ... (read in full...)
Am I being taken for a fool?
Q. I'm very confused and need advice please. a guy at work started 6 months ago and from the start i have been attracted to him. we have become very close friends but no more and for now im happy with that, hes just got divorced from his wife and she...
A. 13 February 2010: Its a tricky thing.. there are a number of options. He doesnt know how you feel about him, maybe he doesnt see the same need as you to be honest and upfront about everything. Dont get me wrong honesty is very important in a relationship and with ... (read in full...)
I lied to her and now she won't talk to me. How can I make this right again?
Q. I need help... i lied to my girlfriend about this girl that i liked way before she came along and i just told her the truth and she says she hates me now and i need to fix this before valentines day, we've been going out for 10 months almost 11 and ...
A. 13 February 2010: Hey, she is hurt mainly because you lied. Girls like honesty, trust me from experience. She now needs time to think things through. PLEASE if you do one thing give it to her, trust me on this. Show that you care about her and are thinking of her but ... (read in full...)
I feel I hurt his ego by saying no to being with him...
Q. My good friend and i accidentally fell for each other while he was in a relationship with a miss 6 years younger than him. regardless of their indifferences, i knew my friend loved her and worked to keep the relationship going. we exerted hard to ...
A. 7 February 2010: You did the right thing, there was too much going on in his life at that time to start a relationship, you know time is a wonderful thing when it comes to matters of the heart. Give i time, maintain contact as a freind and just see how things turn ... (read in full...)
Should she have been more honest, and was she a virgin for me??
Q. I have been married for 2 years and have been together for 4 years in total. One year into the relationship we knew we were going to get married and started having sex with each other. We were both virgins, and it was special knowing she had saved ...
A. 7 February 2010: If you really do love her, then I wouldn't let this get in the way of your relationship. You should however be honest in telling her that it did bother you. Tell her that you would have valued the truth before. However she does not deaseave to be ... (read in full...)
Opinions needed. My first time...
Q. Hi. me and my boyfriend want to lose our virginity together, as we have been discussing ideas. Any ideas you have would also be welcome! He hasnt seen me completely naked yet, but i said i would like to wear a sexy outfit at first, i'm not sure what ...
A. 7 February 2010: Just take it easy, all this over the top stuff on the first time, I don't think is a good idea, its kinda puts a lot of pressure, trust me there is plenty of time for all that kinky stuff later.. Just go with the flow(obviously be safe)and take it ... (read in full...)
I feel neglected by him...
Q. My boyfriend lied to me about going to work, he said he had work from 2 to 5 and lied about it instead i think he went to his friend's house and played video games, he came over at 5 and stayed the rest of the night acting all affectionate so i knew ...
A. 7 February 2010: Tell him how you feel, tell him that you don't like being lied to and that you respect he needs to do his own thing, just don't lie about it..ask him how he would feel if you lied to him. Remember this..having personal space in a relationship is ... (read in full...)
I'm worries because I repeated something my ex g/f told me in strictest confidence.
Q. Ok i broke up with my girlfreind and i really took it bad, she had revealed lots of intimate secrets to me(about sexual abuse in the past) i promised her i would not tell a soul. During the break up I became a real mess. I had to speak to somone and ...
A. 31 January 2010: They are not close freinds, they are more aquaintences and the freind i told is a very nice person who has told me she will not ever mention it again or tell a soul, she told me that this is not gossip and she wont ever,ever tell anyone. I am not ... (read in full...)
I'm worries because I repeated something my ex g/f told me in strictest confidence.
Q. Ok i broke up with my girlfreind and i really took it bad, she had revealed lots of intimate secrets to me(about sexual abuse in the past) i promised her i would not tell a soul. During the break up I became a real mess. I had to speak to somone and ...
A. 31 January 2010: I just needed someone to talk to, what have I done? oh god... (read in full...)
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