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I caught my boyfriend cheating on me by the fake profile that I created. Where do I go from here?

Q.   I have recently found out that my boyfriend has been cheating on me having cyber sex on skype with random girls on the internet. I did this by creating a fake facebook and pretending to be another girl. I know that this is wrong, but I was already ...

A.   21 February 2011: You need to tell him that you know about.Its up to you wheithr you give him another chance or boot him out your door.Remember he could always do it again.Do u trust him enough to stay with him.... (read in full...)

Should I tell my boyfriend I had a miscarriage? I don't want to stress him out...

Q.   I just found out I had a miscarriage,I didn't know I was pregnant so you can imagine I'm still a bit shaken, my question is about my boyfriend. We have a long distance relationship, things have been a bit rough lately and he's really stressed out ...

A.   21 February 2011: You have to tell your boyfriend you had a miscarrige after all it was his baby that died.I really feel for u at the moment and i hope u can sort it out and grieve together.I wish you all the luck in the world.... (read in full...)

I lied about my photo and don't understand the guy's response

Q.   I've recently been talking to this guy and I lied to him about my picture. I finally came clean and and he said to me "I'm disappointed in you, but I don't know if I can be." what exactly does that mean? ...

A.   20 February 2011: He probably means he cant trust u like he did before.Sometimes u just have to tell the truth with boys and men because thats what they prefur.... (read in full...)

Should I cheat on my bf with the cute boy next door?

Q.   Alrighty so, I have been in a relationship for quite some time with a great guy. I absolutely love him to bits. He's always remained faithful and he's such a great boyfriend. Only a select few know about our relationship. Ok so I live two houses d...

A.   20 February 2011: It would be wrong to cheat on him when you still love him. The other boy has a girlfriend and you have to remember her feelings to in this.Please dont destroy ur love for your boyfriend to be with ur other lover. ... (read in full...)

My friend has withdrawn into a shell. I want to hep him!

Q.   I have a problem and I just cannot seem to find the way forward. Here's the thing, I fell in love with a good friend of mine about 3 years ago. Things were just fine with the usual ups and downs of a what was mostly a long distance relation...

A.   20 February 2011: I think you need to give him space for a bit until he comes out and starts to talk again. If he still isnt coming out of his shell in a week then maybe just let him rest until he finds the courage to talk to you about it.... (read in full...)

Wife hiding credit card debt from me and lying about it!

Q.   My wife and I have been have money problems for about two years now. It all started when collection compines started calling. At first she tried to hide it but she could not. It turned out she had gotten credit cards in our names with out my ...

A.   20 February 2011: You need to talk to her no matter if she wants to or not.Ask why she kept it a secret and tell her that she has a choice between you and her money secrets.If she carries on you may have to take her to a consultant to see if she has something wrong ... (read in full...)

Could I have gotten HIV from this? Condom broke!

Q.   hello guys, im kinda freakin out right now. yesterday i went clubbing with some friends and we got really drunk. and there was this girl next to me. so i went to talk to her and we danced and everything. later on she went home with me and we had ...

A.   20 February 2011: There is a small chance that you may have it.Best to go and get it checked by a doctor.... (read in full...)

How can I improve my self confidence, stop worrying, and be better in school and relate better to others

Q.   Hello, I am only 15 at the moment and I have a slight issue with my self confidence. I know I'm not really thin but I don't think I'm fat, I have an hourglass figure and have a little larger reir end and thighs, which is difficult to get rid of...

A.   20 February 2011: The teachers are just a bit worried about how shy you are. I am shy myself and sometimes teachers ask me to put my hand up and collaborate in lessons more. To try and build your confidence join a club outside of school and see how you go. By doing ... (read in full...)

How can I get her to notice me without talking to her?

Q.   I like a girl and I want her to take notice of me, how can I let her notice me without actually approaching her and talking directly to her?...

A.   19 February 2011: Im a girl and every girl likes a guy who is polite and is a gentelmen. Maybe get a excuse to help her with something if she offers.If you are still to shy to approach her get one of your friends to ask her out for u.If not then just give a smile ... (read in full...)

Things were going good and flirty then he just stopped messaging me!

Q.   I've been chatting to this guy for a good few months now and we chatted every day and the past month and a half it got a little flirty and he kept talking about hopefully finding a "lovely girl" and then winking and hinting it was me. Then on Monday ...

A.   19 February 2011: Send him a messege on facebook and ask if u done anything wrong.Some guys just need space for a little while to sort their head out.If he dosent speak to you withen the next couple of days maybe he has just moved on.Think aboutyour desition... (read in full...)

He won't even look at me now that he has a girlfriend!

Q.   Ok let's see if y'all can help me..Ok me and this guy only went out for a few days but before that we talked and flirted with each other and even after that we flirted and talked and texted and IMed on Facebook,and like whenever he had a girlfriend ...

A.   19 February 2011: Go up to him yourself when nobody is about and ask him why is he like this. If he ignores you, you are better off without him until he sorts his problems out. Once he has sorted them out, maybe then you can communicate together, but until then give ... (read in full...)

What to think about my boyfriend's female-friend?

Q.   My bf and I had just gotten to our 5 months when he had an emotional affair with a new female friend. Now all I ask is if he could tell me when he goes out with friends and I would do the same. Well during that whole period I found out he went wit...

A.   19 February 2011: You have all the right to feel weird and worried about this. Ask him if you could meet this girl and if he says no then he is probably hiding something. Remember don't get stressed about it just in case it is nothing.... (read in full...)

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