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anonymous
writes:hello guys, im kinda freakin out right now. yesterday i went clubbing with some friends and we got really drunk. and there was this girl next to me. so i went to talk to her and we danced and everything. later on she went home with me and we had sexbut after a while the condomn broke and i kinda stayed inside her for a while with any protection, this actually happened also when we had the morning sex ...but i didnt think about it untill now !! is there any chance that if she has hiv, that i would get infected too !!! i mean i stayed inside her for like 30 seconds or something and then i realised that the condomm broke !!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2011): hi kinda
there are 90% chances to get hiv +ve if she is hiv infected. But if she is safe then there are no chances. first of all you should know that how kind of girl she is. and i think you should checkout yourself at clinic.
best of luck
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reader, JDinCali  +, writes (20 February 2011):
 Seems like one night stands aren't for your conscientious mind. That's a good thing!
Try using condoms that haven't been in your wallet or glove compartment long. The newer the condom the better the elasticity of its rubber and to aid its durability use lube.
Definitely get tested. Chances are you're not the first one night stand she's had.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (20 February 2011):
 It's illegal in many countries to have HIV and not warn your sexual partner about it. It's being recognized as a lethal attack on a person, and you could be sentenced like a person who killed someone in cold blood if you spread the disease knowing you have it. So, if there is such a law in your country, and this woman in fact did pass HIV on to you, it's a matter for the court and you should get a lawyer.
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reader, chigirl +, writes (20 February 2011):
You should get yourself tested in about two weeks time. You can call your doctor and explain the situation. But as far as I am aware, they can't test you earlier than in two weeks.
I hope you got that womans phone number or full name so you can track her down in case she infected you with HIV, or any other STD, or in case she got pregnant.
You should also buy her the morning after pill, emergency contraceptive, to make sure she's not getting pregnant.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2011): You need to get tested, as you could have any STI, but there is no need to panic just yet! Its much more common for someone to have a treatable STI, or a less severe one. You have to wait 12 weeks from the date of exposure to be able to be tested for HIV, and 10days for the rest, so book in with your sexual health clinic for 10 days time and then again for the HIV blood test in 12 weeks! Good luck!
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reader, Party rings  +, writes (20 February 2011):
There is a small chance that you may have it.Best to go and get it checked by a doctor.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2011): If you have her contact details, ask her if she's ever been tested for HIV. You'll have planted a seed of doubt in her mind and she might just go and get herself tested if she hasn't done so previously. Ask her if she would be so kind as to let you know if she tested positive when she gets the result, which will save you having to go to all that trouble.
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reader, dunlu  +, writes (20 February 2011):
 you can get it but be positive and just get tested to be sure.
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (20 February 2011):
 Yes it's possible if she is a carrier. You need to get tested.
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