Is my girlfriend cheating? if so, how do I get her to admit it? Then what?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for over 4 years and recently I've become very suspisious that something is going on behind my back. I have come home from two trips out of state to find her not wearing her necklace I gave her that she swor...
A. 14 February 2010: first of all i dont think that is enough evidence for you to be jumping to the conclusion that shes cheating.
How long has she been wearing the necklace she promised you she'd never take off as long as 'you' loved her? Maybe she wanted to take it ... (read in full...)
How can I help her raise her self esteem and let her know that I care for her?
Q. Last night my girlfriend told me that she believes that she is not good enough for me. She told me that she likes me. But she said that she has low self esteem and feels that her life is not going to be a good one because of past decisions she has ...
A. 2 February 2010: Wow, i think the fact that you have come here to ask advice pretty much shows you care a great deal for your GF. I admire you for that and if she ever did see these posts, believe me, it will lift her self esteem soooooo high she wouldnt know what ... (read in full...)
Wait...my boyfriend hit his ex????
Q. I don’t know what to do with my boyfriend! He has everything I could ever want in a guy- nice, very much like me, adorable, caring, loving, funny, hot, fun, and I feel like he is practically my best friend. I can share anything with him and we can ...
A. 2 February 2010: You wanted advice and you got it. It doesnt really matter who contacted who, but the fact that you are replying is sending him all kinds of mixed signals which is why he is probably hanging on. And he promised you something kind so you want to ... (read in full...)
What is your definition of respect?
Q. I am in a relationship with a man who calls me the C word often for "acting like one". He feels this acceptable, am I missing something here? Men please describe your level of respect for and what kind of person fits the label? Ladies please let ...
A. 18 January 2010: unacceptable, most degrading ... (read in full...)
Wait...my boyfriend hit his ex????
Q. I don’t know what to do with my boyfriend! He has everything I could ever want in a guy- nice, very much like me, adorable, caring, loving, funny, hot, fun, and I feel like he is practically my best friend. I can share anything with him and we can ...
A. 9 January 2010: you have to tell your boyfriend about his friend, his ex and what they have told you. You can not make your decisions based on what his so called friend or his ex tells you. The information is hardly credible is it?? I mean dont disregard their ... (read in full...)
How do you get someone out of your head?
Q. How do you get someone out of your head? I should not be thinking about a married man the way I do. It's a guy I have been friends with for about 10 years - from our early teen years. He's recently married and has a baby on the way. I always kind of ...
A. 9 January 2010: Sad but true...Pinktopaz sums it all up. Youve probably heard it all before - time heals. I too have been in that situation and the less contact i had, the easier it was to stop thinking bout him. but as soon as you make contact again, you go all ... (read in full...)
Things seem awkward but I think he might like me
Q. Hey i wrote up two days ago and thanks to "Another_Kapiti" who wrote back to me but just to give you an update. It was a very long question about this guy that i needed to tell him i really loved him but didnt wanna risk our friendship because ...
A. 4 January 2010: wow, sounds like your kinda obsessed with this guy. Either way if you cant have him as a lover, it would be pretty dam hard loving him as a friend. Imagine how youd feel once he gets a partner that wasnt you? As for Facebook stats, dont read to ... (read in full...)
Crush? Or something more?
Q. Ok - I like this guy but I can't decide whether its a crush or something more than that. I have known him for about three years now. I know I was immediately attracted to him - but now I have got to know him better and we are fairly friendly ...
A. 4 January 2010: Is there any reason why you'll never be more than friends? Generally when your into a guy, it starts out as a crush, turns into infatuation and if your lucky becomes love. I dont really know your history but there could be many reasons why you feel ... (read in full...)
What do I do about people invading my FaceBook?
Q. Another anonymous question :) I've been on a nice dating site (yes, that one, whatever one you're thinking of) and I've had limited (but good) luck meeting people, shooting a few messages back and forth, but that's as far as it gets... I think ...
A. 4 January 2010: oh actually, if you profile is set for public, ANYONE can see your FB page..not sure about comments. You have to go and change you settings to private, that way only the people you allow as your friends can view your profile... (read in full...)
What do I do about people invading my FaceBook?
Q. Another anonymous question :) I've been on a nice dating site (yes, that one, whatever one you're thinking of) and I've had limited (but good) luck meeting people, shooting a few messages back and forth, but that's as far as it gets... I think ...
A. 4 January 2010: block or delete them?... (read in full...)
He loves someone else but isn't going to do anything about it?
Q. ok i need some advice. my boyfriend and i have been going out with each other for four years, about six months ago he told me that he loved somebody else but he wasn't going to do anything about it. it took awhile but i'd thought that we had worked ...
A. 4 January 2010: ok i know you are in a hard situation, but how can you trust your partner if he has told you he is in LOVE with someone else? He is treating you that way because he seems confused himself. If this 'other' person was interested in him, do you think ... (read in full...)
Is this what relationships are about, or am I being taken for granted?
Q. I've been with this guy for 6 years. I stood by his side through thick and thin, I put up with things that I would never have. Ok lately in the past year our relationship has crumbled, he's been totally emotionally abusive towards me. He claims ...
A. 3 January 2010: You are definitely in an emotionally abusive relationship and everything you have described are traits of an emotional abuser right down to him moaning about the house being messy. I to am in one and have only just identified with what people like ... (read in full...)
Lonely, lost and confused
Q. This is long and confusing and hard to put everything into context but in a nutshell - i am totally confused about my feelings i keep having about my brother in law. History - I have been with my current partner for 15 years, we met at high scho...
A. 3 January 2010: Hi Anon,
thanks for that - i too thought the same thing about BIL showing signs of being controlling. The thing with the brothers is they never were bought up together. BIL was adopted when he was younger. Im not looking at jumping into ano... (read in full...)
Is my obsession with wearing women's clothing healthy?
Q. I like to dress up in a sari with all ladies materials make up and underpants i even like to wear other ladies clothing with all ornaments bra panties make up and a wig with long hairs I wore the sari first time when i was 13 wears and became d...
A. 3 January 2010: there is nothing wrong with it only that it is not really publicly acceptable. I know many men who dress in womens clothing, not on an everyday basis but they dress in drag and attend shows and clubs etc. They have so much fun and he is every bit ... (read in full...)
Lonely, lost and confused
Q. This is long and confusing and hard to put everything into context but in a nutshell - i am totally confused about my feelings i keep having about my brother in law. History - I have been with my current partner for 15 years, we met at high scho...
A. 3 January 2010: thank you so much "caring guy" your words were like a breath of fresh air and confirms what i thought i should do. It is so hard to leave a relationship especially without the support of anyone. I have not involved my family as we go through the ... (read in full...)
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