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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Ok - I like this guy but I can't decide whether its a crush or something more than that.I have known him for about three years now. I know I was immediately attracted to him - but now I have got to know him better and we are fairly friendly and and still have feelings for him. I have thought several times that I was over him and we were just friends but everytime I see him the feelings just keep coming back.I have the general sort of infatuation that I know goes with crushing on someone and I can't stop thinking about him...and I don't know whether it makes me happy or in pain. But I also feel so happy with him, and safe and I it feels natural to just joke around. Though that could be just because he teases me lots!Can a crush go on for this long? He is a couple of years older than me and I think that its very unlikely that we'll ever be more than friends to be honest.I don't know...just please give me some thoughts on the matter! Thankyou! xxx
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reader, not confusious  +, writes (4 January 2010):
Is there any reason why you'll never be more than friends? Generally when your into a guy, it starts out as a crush, turns into infatuation and if your lucky becomes love. I dont really know your history but there could be many reasons why you feel this way about him eg - you are or have been in a bad relationship in the past and he is everything your past or current partner isnt. It sounds like you are very much into this guy and weather it is a crush or not, why dont you ask him out? A crush can last for a long time, believe me i know and until you move on and cut him out of your life, it is pretty hard to get over them. Unless there are reasons preventing you two to be together, i say you should just talk to him about it. If hes not that inclined towards you, that will be the first step to getting over your crush.
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