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What do I do about people invading my FaceBook?

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Question - (4 January 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 4 January 2010)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Another anonymous question :)

I've been on a nice dating site (yes, that one, whatever one you're thinking of) and I've had limited (but good) luck meeting people, shooting a few messages back and forth, but that's as far as it gets... I think maybe I'm a bit too nerdy for most, but it's my job and my favorite thing to be, aside from it being me of course :) I have comfort waiting for somebody who appreciates me for me.

My question is about the people whom I dont talk to any more, for lack of interest beyond my control; they've invaded my Facebook, my personals add... I was smart enough to put them through my Google phone number, so the ones who like to text me while drunk/inebriated/I dont care are easily blocked...

Some of the nice ones are still around, I dont mind seeing their updates, but it's apparent they have no interest in me (I think). Would it be best to remove them from view, is it only my despiration which keeps them around?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2010):

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No, my profile is set to "private", I just have a gaggle of people whom I met in the meet-and-greet process of dating, who requested I add them and such... I dont know these people anymore, and they just lost touch as we chatted, but they remain on my facebook and comment on my posts and etc.

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A female reader, not confusious New Zealand +, writes (4 January 2010):

oh actually, if you profile is set for public, ANYONE can see your FB page..not sure about comments. You have to go and change you settings to private, that way only the people you allow as your friends can view your profile

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A female reader, not confusious New Zealand +, writes (4 January 2010):

block or delete them?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2010):

How do you know they're looking at your stuff? As far as I know Facebook won't allow that and if we post things there is b/c we want people to see them or else why add them as friends?

Facebook has security restrictions so that people can block applications and select what and who searches you in the network and your things there. If I were you I'de be erasing people and leave just the ones you like to keep friends with. That's what I so at least.

Good Luck!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2010):

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To staff and reponders: I did not really mean /invading/, per-se, just a gaggle of people whom I nor my friends know being on my pages.

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