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My b/f says I will tempt him to cheat because I won't have sex before marriage

Q.   hello, i have aboyfriend i intend to get married to,am 25 years and want to settle.we slated adate in actober this year to get married.he wants to have sex with me but i want to have sex after legalised marriage.whenever we go out i came back lat...

A.   20 February 2012: I guess that he has had sex before and you are feeling his pressure to do it with him. I want you to know that communication, respect and trust are very important in relationship and in a marriage. I the man's eyes he can not see past his penis. ... (read in full...)

My passion is steadily cooling and I'm wondering if I should breakup with boyfriend because hes selfish sexually?

Q.   my bf is 36, I am 21. he was my first and at first it was exciting. but I have only been able to come once in our 2yr time together...Now, he does little foreplay and goes right in. Hard and fast. Done. He has stamina and no problem getting/staying ...

A.   18 February 2012: What was it like for you having someone more experienced and you being new at it? I would get rid of him unless he starts to change. He needs to listen to you and give you what you want. It will take time for him to change. Some guys like it ... (read in full...)

How do I get back my confidence after finding out my wife had an affair?

Q.   I have been married for 18 year to my college love. I just learned that she had an affair with some one that she use to date before me. I have forgiven her and want to move on with our life together but I am badly hurt. My ego and self esteem is ...

A.   18 February 2012: Thank you everyone for you words of encouragement. It's been almost a year since this has happened. She explained that she has too much to drink and that she still had feelings for him that were not resolved. I don't know why I am so wrapped up ... (read in full...)

What do I do when my boyfriend ignores me?

Q.   what to do when my boy friend ignores me a lot and does not meet me nor does answer my call nor texts me and just avoids me what do i do ? ...

A.   18 February 2012: He's trying to say leave me alone. How long have you been dating? If he is going through sometime sit down and talk about it. I he will not open up to you them try to show that you care and be there for him. But if things don't change. Leave ... (read in full...)

My husband would rather watch porn and get an erection and masturbate than have sex with me! Where did I go wrong?

Q.   I have been married to my husband for almost 14 years and over the last 6 months to a year I have noticed he is into his porn more than he is into me. He came home early one afternoon and asked me if I wanted to have sex with him... I jumped at the ...

A.   18 February 2012: He's not being honest with his feelings. He is hurting emotionally and professional help. Porn is very addicting to men especially men who has lost their way sexually. He is lost right now looking for a deeper connection some way of feeling ... (read in full...)

I'm so afraid I'm going to cheat on my fiance

Q.   I have a great finacee but her sex drive has never matched mine and I'm fine with it...I love her and we've been in love for years were getting married this upcoming March. I masterbate every morning after my girl goes to work (she works in th...

A.   18 February 2012: It will be the biggest mistake of you life. Never do it. She going to have your child. There will be so much quilt on you if you cheat. I say you should continue to be the master of your domain and ask her to do it for you sometimes. Your are ... (read in full...)

The cleaning lady is coming on to me, how do I proceed from here?

Q.   So the cleaning lady comes over every Friday to the house and i kind of have a crush on her. There are times when were home alone together and i swear i get the feeling that she wants me! She's like 45-46 im 19. She's always sparking conversation ...

A.   18 February 2012: Leave it alone. Don't fall for it. Stay strong.... (read in full...)

Its been almost 6 months since we broke up yet it still hurts like it was yesterday

Q.   My boyfriend of 2 years and I split up in September 2010 and yet I still don't seem to be over it. I still find myself thinking about him and the 'what ifs' and whenever anything goes wrong and I need a cry I always end up using it as an excuse to ...

A.   18 February 2012: I too have suffered hurt of a loving relationship and it does take time. The best thing you can do is spend time with people who love you and care to be with you as you try to heal and get back on you feet. You will never be any good to any one ... (read in full...)

Why is my ex messing with me like this?

Q.   I was with my ex for two years, he broke up with me unexpected, we are both hot tempered.he told me he wanted it over as we were living together i said i refuse to hear this threat anymore just do it. he did. moved out. as we work together in...

A.   18 February 2012: When you are in this stage of your relationship it takes time to tell what will happen. Just go with the flow. Tell him what you like and don't like. If you can not see eye to eye on things just take a break. Sometimes when your are in the heat ... (read in full...)

He thinks that I should ask his permission before I go out with my friends!

Q.   me and bf have been together for nearly six years both in twenties. we have been arguing really bad so i went up his house to try and sort it out but we couldn't resolve anything. i ended up going down my girlfriends house and going out ...

A.   18 February 2012: When you choice to date some one for this long it's a lot like being married. You should always tell you man what you are up to. He cares about you and loves you. He should know. I think you should always have open trust and communication with ... (read in full...)

My college lover: Should I continue with him or cut all ties?

Q.   i am in college; A guy and I has been on and off friends for about 2 years, during that time we have had intercourse and also tried become more than friend. During one of our periods of being apart he got into a relationship, but his girlfriend ...

A.   18 February 2012: Have fun and see where it goes. Try not to think about it that much. You are young you have time to be serious. Talk to him openly and always tell the true. If he can be honest them you both will find happiness. Relationship can be hard when ... (read in full...)

It's really disappointing that my boyfriend isn't coming to see me perform anymore!

Q.   i am a musician and i perform on weekends. my boyfriend used to always come watch me perform and it really was the sweetest thing. i felt really good knowing he was there supporting me but the last few weeks, he has chosen not to go to my ...

A.   18 February 2012: Yes you should talk to him. Find out what on him mind. I believe that couples should always be honest with each other no matter what. You should let him know how you feel when he's there and when he's not. Then work together to find a solution.... (read in full...)

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