Do I support her in her wish to work in the porn industry? OrI find reasons to help her decide against it?
Q. She says she wants to do porn.. my fiance is a very beautiful woman however due to her past (abusive mother and a father who was never there) she has almost no self esteem and because of that was often taken advantage of by men when she sought l...
A. 8 September 2011: Think of the psychology here first. There is a large possibility that due to her past she subconsciously and irrationally wants to be abused and degraded as she has been programmed to expect such and may feel that's what she deserves and to be treat ... (read in full...)
Why does she dress hot for work but not for me?
Q. She dresses HOT for work, low tops, flouncy skirts, sometimes no panties. When she comes home she dresses down, pyjamas instead of negligee, baggy pants instead of skirt, baggy dresses etc. I see all the answers saying this is innocent and to just...
A. 31 August 2011: Thanks for that, I truly enjoyed reading that. LOTS of info and a lot of good sense. Actually, I've already set into motion a lot of what you've said but for different reasons, mainly I'm just simply done. What will be will be and I'm going to start ... (read in full...)
Why does she dress hot for work but not for me?
Q. She dresses HOT for work, low tops, flouncy skirts, sometimes no panties. When she comes home she dresses down, pyjamas instead of negligee, baggy pants instead of skirt, baggy dresses etc. I see all the answers saying this is innocent and to just...
A. 29 August 2011: Tennisstar, tried the counselling, she bailed.
The garments I hanker for are the garments she wore from day 1, then suddenly changed. To be fair, like I said, it's not so much garments as intent. You mention wearing your husbands shirt, if she pick... (read in full...)
Why does she dress hot for work but not for me?
Q. She dresses HOT for work, low tops, flouncy skirts, sometimes no panties. When she comes home she dresses down, pyjamas instead of negligee, baggy pants instead of skirt, baggy dresses etc. I see all the answers saying this is innocent and to just...
A. 28 August 2011: Tennisstar, Sorry, you're wrong, I give whenever and how ever, she dictates, she snaps her fingers and I jump, I fear losing an opportunity. I don't so much tell her what to wear as beg her to make a little effort for me occassionally, like once ... (read in full...)
Why does she dress hot for work but not for me?
Q. She dresses HOT for work, low tops, flouncy skirts, sometimes no panties. When she comes home she dresses down, pyjamas instead of negligee, baggy pants instead of skirt, baggy dresses etc. I see all the answers saying this is innocent and to just...
A. 28 August 2011: She's my wife. That's all good not telling her what to wear, so long as she does the same. She works in an office setting. I don't have a concern with the nice and pretty clothes, that's great, I have a concern with unappropriate clothing. She does ... (read in full...)
Why does she dress to impress when I'm not around?
Q. hey whats up guys and girls i need help i don't know what to do. my girlfriend always dresses nice when I'm not going to be around like when she goes to school or work or something she never wears nice things when i am. does she have something on ...
A. 28 August 2011: I know this is an old one, but I was about to ask the samr question, or very similar. She dresses HOT for work, low tops, flouncy skirts, sometimes no panties. When she comes home she dresses down, pyjamas instead of negligee, baggy pants instead of ... (read in full...)
BF is a flirt but did he have a fling?
Q. How do I know if I can trust my boyfriend? My bf and I were attending his nephew’s high school’s volleyball games. The nephew was new to the sport, and pretty much sat on the bench every game. At most, he got to serve once or twice. At the...
A. 25 July 2011: I think you've basically answered your own question.
I can't, and no one can, say whether he has or has not betrayed you in anyway, but I would suggest your relationship is not concrete, whether that be due to his actions or your suspicions is neit... (read in full...)
How can I win her love before I lose her to somone else?
Q. I am an 18 year old guy who has never kissed a girl. This really bothers me. I think I have fallen completely in love with my friend. The problem is she is best friends with another guy. Who I am also friends with. They are always together. As far...
A. 24 July 2011: I suspect this could be infatuation, particularly at your age. Either way you have to decided for yourself what to do. Understanding the possible outcomes may help. If you're true to yourself and tell her then you at least got it out of the bag and ... (read in full...)
I feel I am really a lesbian...and I wonder if this makes me a bad person...
Q. I am single..I have been raised as a good daughter and a model of being a good and responsible person. I dress well and my talk and even my gestures are very firm and proper but suddenly, I my have learned that I am attracted to a female like me and ...
A. 23 July 2011: Sorry, I meant to say courage, not confidence, but same difference I suppose.... (read in full...)
I feel I am really a lesbian...and I wonder if this makes me a bad person...
Q. I am single..I have been raised as a good daughter and a model of being a good and responsible person. I dress well and my talk and even my gestures are very firm and proper but suddenly, I my have learned that I am attracted to a female like me and ...
A. 23 July 2011: What's bad is not being true to yourself. Why try to be someone else when being yourself is hard enough?? If you have an urge and do not go with it you are stiffling and emotional force which can cause a number of other difficulties. If that's who ... (read in full...)
My mother is preventing me from seeing my ex-bf, whom I love soooo much!!!
Q. Hey Guys , I was with my boyfriend for over a year and a few months ago he broke up with me, he recently has told me he wants to give us another chance and I'm soo happy because i love him so much and the past few months have been horrible without...
A. 23 July 2011: No better friend than a Mother. You may disagree, but you may also, if you listen as Abella indicates, discover something you missed. On the other hand it could just be your Mom's pissed at him dumping you, Mothers can be protective like that.... (read in full...)
Any tips for my first meeting with my online boyfriend?
Q. I am taking all the precautions, being safe, public place, telling my friends etc etc. My question is, is it normal to be so unsure of everything? I like him a lot, but I feel nervous, that he wont like me at all, that maybe we aren't meant to ...
A. 23 July 2011: A Female, wise to take precautions. Other than than Tisha is right. I'd only add if there's a spark you'll know, believe me, and if there isn't then either have some fun or move on. No harm no foul.... (read in full...)
We split-up but I'm confused as to what he wants...
Q. im so confussed, me and my ex boyfriend split about 2 months ago. we stop contacted for about a month but then got back in contact. we have been talking and texting but both said we cant get back together. but one night on a night out i seen...
A. 21 July 2011: You're both young, he isn't able to commit and remain faithful. I suspect he wants to play the field, but as is typical for many men, it's ok for him but not for you, which is bull. Nail him down, it's all or nothing. And remember, you're young, you ... (read in full...)
3 questions about lingerie...
Q. Sooooo today I went shopping with my best female friend. She convinced me to buy some lingerie, it's a corset like thing, red with black lace, very sexy. It wasn't for a guy or anything, I am single, but it was just for me, ya know? I didn't have ...
A. 21 July 2011: Bottom line, they're clothes. If Mom finds them tell her this is the 21st century and some people wear this stuff as evening wear fer cryin' out loud. Seriously, you're Mom should know you well enough to know whether you're a normal girl wanting to ... (read in full...)
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