Will sex hurt because I am circumsized?
Q. Im a circumsized male (was circumsized since birth for medical reasons) and am wondering will sex hurt with/without a condom (I dont intend on having kids any time soon though, so mainly with a condom), I know unless lube is used I wont be able to ...
A. 10 November 2010: DenimandLace if right. I myself have been circumsized for many years and sex does not hurt. Not even a little. When stimulated, a female's organs produce natural lubrication. If you feel that's not enough, then add some, but don't use any type of ... (read in full...)
What can I do to make him more comfortable in the relationship and confident?
Q. Hi. Ok so I've been seeing this guy for a couple weeks now and I like him. So far he's been a really great guy. The only problem that we're having is he's extremely self conscious and has low self-esteem so he constantly doubts my motives. He says ...
A. 10 November 2010: Women can provide confidence to men. Just do a few simple things. Make the first move a few times. Call him more often. Grab his hand to hold. Do a few unexpected nice things and before you know it, you've gotten inside of the walls he's built. ... (read in full...)
I feel more like roomates with my wife, I desperately want to feel wanted but she is so cold and it has led to me starting an affair....
Q. I have been married for 21 years. My wife is a wonderful person. Kind. Caring. Hardworking. A great mother. She is a well paid nurse. I do well running my own business. We have two teenage children that are doing great in every measure. ...
A. 10 November 2010: Obviously, stop the affair. Next, book a trip for at least a long weekend. Don't ask her where she wants to go. Don't make her plan it. YOU have to plan it and make it happen. I've been married for 14 years and have three kids. Wives can be stolen ... (read in full...)
How do I talk to her and ask her out? She is very pretty and I am the guy that gets bullied!
Q. I really like this girl in my class (me and her are 14) i like everything about her but i dont know have to talk to her. She is much taller than me :/ and some people dont like me (just for no reason) and sometimes bully me. She is not part of that ...
A. 10 November 2010: While I agree with Serpico to some extent, the ladies (Daphne and Kit-Kat) probably have some good advice. Just get friendly with her. While girls do like guys with confidence, they much prefer someone who they can relate to and who can make them ... (read in full...)
Friend's boyfriend consuming my thoughts!
Q. I cant stop thinking about one of my friends boyfriend! i think of him all the time.. going to bed waking up he is always on my mind! I know i could never act upon this and never would but its so hard trying to get him out my head! We talk all th...
A. 10 November 2010: Look, no one is married or engaged here, right? How serious are they? How long have they been dating? Maybe they aren't that serious? How strong/ long is your friendship? Odds are, you're going to have to let one of these people go. Unless your ... (read in full...)
We're both shy, who makes the move?
Q. I'm sixteen years old and have never had a girlfreind, but a few weeks ago (well, 7) I met a girl who is just about perfect, it's just that I have the age-old problem of not knowing if she likes me or not. She seems to be the shy type which makes ...
A. 10 November 2010: I agree with Serpico. Man up and ask her out. Or just walk her to class. Key is, make your intentions known and take control of the situation. Otherwise, you will regret it.... (read in full...)
She's 29 and lives across the Atlantic, should we get married?
Q. Hi, there cupid...,i am a guy 20 years old from Nigeria. I have a lady who lives in the U.S.A. She said that she loves me with all her heart but the problem is that she i older than me because she is 29 years old and am 20years old. If our ...
A. 10 November 2010: Have you ever even met? Meet first. It might be a fat 52 year old bald guy. Your best bet is to meet someone near your own zip code and stick with that. These things almost never work.... (read in full...)
For the guys, does it have to be smooth as a baby's butt or is a little stubble ok?
Q. hey this is for all the guys on here! do guys really care if there is some stubble on a vagina if the girl is unable to get all of it off when shaving? or does it need to be perfectly smooth and hairless?...
A. 10 November 2010: Smooth is certainly nice, but trim is key. Of course, it all comes down to personal preference. So long as the stubble isn't irritating, it's not a problem. And, as other guys mentioned, shaving can cause issues as well. Just trim it close and keep ... (read in full...)
How do I give my man more space?
Q. "OPs own title"I was in a relationship for about 2 years and it ended really bad, my ex cheated on me and stuff... I got into a relationship with another guy like 8 months ago... its been good, we have our problems but we work it through... he ...
A. 9 November 2010: First, you probably need to give yourself more attention here. You were hurt in a recent relationship. How long was it before you got into another one? This one? It sounds like there are jealousy issues on both sides and some time apart would ... (read in full...)
How do I say goodbye...?
Q. well im going through very tough times i have been with this girl for about 6 years, long distance and together we were engaged for about 2 years but she broke off the engagement due to her not trusting me and a couple of lies that i said many years ...
A. 9 November 2010: Don't make it a goodbye. You can't just cut it off like an appendage. You just meet, keep it platonic, and make sure you tell her that you're pleased that you have BOTH decided to move on with your lives. From that point on, just don't try to get ... (read in full...)
Wanted: New breasts!
Q. I have ugly breasts. They're small for my body (I have huge hips) and they have big areolas. I also don't like their shape much, it's a very common shape but it's not round and nice. If they were rounder and had small areolas I wouldn't mind the ...
A. 9 November 2010: Men look at more than that. Most women have breast augmentation only because they want it. My wife did it even though I told her that I did not care. If it's a big deal to you, then have surgery or find a new way to think about it. Just do one or ... (read in full...)
I spend more time playing up to friends than being with my boyf
Q. Well I have a boyfriend and we've been together for about a month now. He is really sweet and he trys to spend lunch-breaks with me at school but I never know what to say to him or what to do...and I feel really bad cus i spend most of my time ...
A. 9 November 2010: Don't worry about it. Just enjoy your friends and tell him that you are both too young to get all wrapped up in it. Tell him that you like him just fine, but you just like to hang out with friends at school.... (read in full...)
Was it wrong for me to open that message?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 5 months, but we've been officially talking for over a year. I feel in love with him a long time ago. We trust each other so much! I know he might be the one for me. We have so much in common and all of that. ...
A. 9 November 2010: Yes. It was wrong. If you trust him, then you're going to have to wait it out. Maybe he doesn't really talk to her. Maybe he's just being nice because he doesn't want to hurt her. Maybe he's planning a booty call. Even if you didn't open the ... (read in full...)
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