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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 5 months, but we've been officially talking for over a year. I feel in love with him a long time ago. We trust each other so much! I know he might be the one for me. We have so much in common and all of that. We trust each other enough to share each other's passwords. He asks me to check things and I ask him to do the same. Lately I've been too busy to do anything due to AP testing. Then, I go to his messages to find a poem he wrote me a while back because my account was hacked and everything was deleted. I find messages from his ex. She brought up a message that was sent to her before our relationship began. She said she loved him and missed him. He gave her his number and told her to call him. The thing is, he told me that he never talked to any of his exes and that he deleted them all.Was it wrong for my to open that message?What should I do?
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reader, Myke +, writes (9 November 2010):
Yes. It was wrong. If you trust him, then you're going to have to wait it out. Maybe he doesn't really talk to her. Maybe he's just being nice because he doesn't want to hurt her. Maybe he's planning a booty call. Even if you didn't open the message, it would still be there. At least, due to your snooping, you're wise to the situation. Now just let him take care of his own business and try to trust him. Sounds like if they have some type of involvement that isn't appropriate, then it will come up at some point.
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