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I don't love him anymore but I still haven't got closure

Q.   This is SO long and I apologise :/ My boyfriend had been making me miserable for quite a few weeks by like just doing things like calling 31 times a week, but then when i did talk to him not pay attention to what im talking about, talking c...

A.   31 December 2010: First of all, chill. This is still very recent, so of course you feel this way. Angry and betrayed. With all of what you wrote, you let a lot of steam off, and that is good. We're here to listen (read) so no need to apologize about the extensio... (read in full...)

My ex still texts me. Should I tell his new girlfriend?

Q.   Hi guys, you may have read my previous question about my situation with my ex.. complicated as it is! (and I recommend that you read that question first so that this one makes sense!)I made the decision to move out of the house that we lived in and ...

A.   31 December 2010: Steena, If you really want to move on from him, the best option is to ignore these texts. He soon will figure it out, and hopefully stop. As for the new girl, she has a different view of him than you, they're starting their relationship... (read in full...)

1st period and I need some advice

Q.   I just got my period for the first time and I am a little nervous about whats going on in my body. Can anyone help, girls only please....

A.   31 December 2010: I also used to get heavy periods, they could last for 7 days, the 3 first days to be a drag because I would stain everything and it embarrassed me a lot. Your body will tell you when the period is close from now on, some signs can include:... (read in full...)

Should I just make it clear that I'm attracted to older guys?

Q.   I'm 19 years old i turn 20 in a couple of months. I'm only attracted to older guys say 24-28... I'm sick of feeling like its something i should be ashamed of So i was basically wondering do you think i should just make it clear to everyone?...

A.   31 December 2010: That's a bit extreme to say "I'm ONLY attracted to..." Probably it's just been a coincidence so far. You know what they say about girls, supposedly we are more mature than boys our own age. To me, truth is, boys will be boys deep inside, no matte... (read in full...)

Is it wrong to go out with my ex's best mate? Or should I wait a bit?

Q.   i'm in bit of a pickle! I recently finished with my bf about a month ago. He says that he still loves me and askes for another chance but i don't love him back. But here's the thing, two weeks ago one of his best mates said that he fancies me and if ...

A.   29 December 2010: Dear Sara, Male friends share a special code of rules, and one of them is not going out with your mate's ex. At least, most of the boys I've met agree on this. If you really fancy this other guy, maybe you should wait for a while, out of re... (read in full...)

How to talk to a grieving friend?

Q.   Hi everyone, My friend's dad died a couple of months ago and I am seeing her for the first time in a few days. I'm lucky in that I've never had to deal with a death of a loved one so close so I'm not sure what are the best things to say are? I...

A.   29 December 2010: The death of a loved one is a very personal experience, and as such, it is different for everybody. When my dad died (RIP), I did the opposite: I kept my friends near. I did my everyday things normal, went to school, to my graduation, started ... (read in full...)

Is there hope her with this girl? How should I proceed?

Q.   hi friends, I am 27 years old ,I am attracted towards a girl who is 21yrs old. She has boyfriend from last 4 years Three months back i some how managed to get her number. I called her, told her I messaged her. But she did not reply, and she told her...

A.   29 December 2010: I don't think it's right to make a move on a girl who already has a boyfriend, and apparently, a very traditional father. Her call means that she is tempted to talk with you, because you are someone she doesn't know, something new and exciting... (read in full...)

Said he adored me. We broke up, so then he scared me when became abusive. Now wants me back?

Q.   Please help i loved someone, he looked cute. i dated him now 2 years together. He says he adores me, but one day we fought so hard, so i decided to break up. He started to scare me, with the msgs. He had he started to shout and say bad words, and ...

A.   29 December 2010: I was in your same situation, and it was really hard for me to start letting go after we broke up. He wasn't always like this, but whenever something crossed him, he would make a right fit out of it, becoming abusive, specially with words to... (read in full...)

My BF and I get so nervous when we are together

Q.   I ask a question on here why my boyfriend and i get so nervous around each other but I have to ask something like that. If you haven't read my last question then I shall give you a summary of it. my boyfriend and I get super nervous around each oth...

A.   27 December 2010: You don't give a lot of information on why you get so nervous around each other. Maybe both of you are really shy, but if you took a step towards a relationship, then not everything is lost. If you're together, it means you started as friends,... (read in full...)

How do I tell him I'm not ready?

Q.   me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 months. we are both 15. he says that i have changed his life because i make him so happy and i am amazing to him. he also makes me happy and i am in love with him. recently he fingered me, and i wasn't ...

A.   27 December 2010: How do you tell him you're not ready, exactly like that. "This is important for me and I don't feel ready yet". You are 15, and it's normal to feel all those hormones having a war inside, but please DO NOT rush into this, do not do it until yo... (read in full...)

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