None of my sexy pics look good, how do I get this right?
Q. My boyfriend is currently living at the other end of the country to me but we keep in touch via text, e-mails and phone calls. He has recently suggested I send him photos of me because he misses seeing me, and I want to keep him happy but I just ...
A. 26 January 2011: I'm a bit of a photographer, and I can tell you that you're never going to get great glamour shots like that if you're using a point and shoot in the mirror. Your biggest issue is likely not angle but lighting -- a flash that's on the camera tends ... (read in full...)
Should I consider this a one night stand or what?
Q. background info..I'm in my late 20's and he is in his early 30's. We both have children. I have been talking to this guy I met on and off now for months. On one occasion, we wound up back at his place, but chose to wait to have sex. We have talked o...
A. 26 January 2011: Ideal relationships go through the natural progression of things, and long-term things hardly ever are spawned in the breaking of that progression. I firmly believe that there's a sexual progression that should accompany your interpersonal intimacy. ... (read in full...)
I have no concrete proof, but I feel he is cheating.......
Q. I dont know where to start. I am married for almost 5 years (in March). Early in our relationship, of all people, our dog groomer kept sending texts to my husband saying she could groom our dog but didnt want money for it (wink wink) then emailed ...
A. 26 January 2011: I mean there's definitely a lot of suspicious stuff going on... You need to talk to him about it. Based on your information, my gut says he cheated on you with the dog groomer. Not sure about the barmaid, but the dog groomer seems really suspect.... (read in full...)
Should I tell her that her fiance cheated on her?
Q. Last summer, I met a guy. Well, we were just friends. We hung out with each a few times. He introduced me to his friends and introduced him to my sister. I thought we were going to begin a relationship. Well, he went home to visit family. A few da...
A. 26 January 2011: Tell her. Wouldn't you want to know? Everyone has a right to the truth, no matter how painful. Personally, I would want to know if I was about to marry an asshole. She'll be pissed at you, right away, since it seems like you do indeed deserve some ... (read in full...)
No closer to getting her back and no idea how to cope with that!
Q. So there's this girl I've known for six years. On and off again we've loved each other and we've "dated" a bunch of times. She lived in a completely different state than I did, so it was childish. Finally, we're in college. It's great, she moves...
A. 26 January 2011: Was there a justification given for her disgust? Did she tell you that you've done something to make her so repulsed by you? If it was indeed as out of the blue as you make it seem, anon is right. Sounds like she found somebody else to have a fling ... (read in full...)
Should I go to this party where there's a chance I could cheat on my boyfriend in a moment of weakness?
Q. Im going away for the weekend because i've been invited to a birthday party ...but my boyfriend is going away too and i was moaning to him about how hes gonna cheat on me ..but the thing is the party im going to has this guy who fancies me and said ...
A. 26 January 2011: Sounds like everyone else has this basically covered, but I'd say that if you're worried that you might cheat, you don't respect your boyfriend the way that you claim to. No matter how drunk I was, I would never, EVER cheat on my girlfriend. It ... (read in full...)
I'm worried about any embarrasing things I might have done
Q. I am feeling terrible because I ended up having sex with the guy in the apartment next door the other night. I only just moved in and it was the second time we had visited and had a drink. I can't even remember much of it or how it started. I knew I ...
A. 26 January 2011: Yeah I wouldn't worry too much. Dirtball is right in asking how much you drank though. Your anecdote seems to imply that you only had one drink, which isn't enough to make anyone black out. In that case, I'd worry about date-rape. It also may be ... (read in full...)
We used to have sex 4 times a week now we only do it once a week
Q. I'm almost 7months pregnant me n my bf hav been togethEr for 4yrs I love him but he has been wrkin out of twn n only comes over the weekends we only have sex once a week we used to have sex about 4 times a week I'm really confused I don't no if its ...
A. 26 January 2011: Yeah I'd say primarily because it's physically impossible to have sex when the two of you aren't in the same town... Also probably because pregnant women tend not to look as sexy as not pregnant ones, but that's an issue that will go away in about 2 ... (read in full...)
Did I squirt? Or pee?
Q. I was fooling around with myself earlier and something happened. I think I squirted but I'm not sure if I peed :/ I know it sounds really stupid but its happened a few times. I go to the toilet before to make sure I don't need the toilet and when I ...
A. 23 January 2011: Actually AntPain is right only about his terminology. Female ejaculation is a phenomenon that happens to a lot of women, but there is a ton of scientific controversy over the content of the fluid thats "squirted". There are tons of conflicting ... (read in full...)
Is she just saying I'm big to make me feel better?
Q. me and my girlfriend have been going out for a good while now, and we plan on getting married before we ever have sex, I'm a virgin and she says she's a virgin too, my penis is 5 1/2 inches long and she says that huge..but what if she's just saying ...
A. 23 January 2011: Yeah, mate, I'll level with you -- she's absolutely saying it to make you feel better. But every girl in the history of the world who's ever commented on how big some dude's cock is said it just to make him feel good about himself. That's because ... (read in full...)
Would watching gay porn bring out these feelings in me?
Q. : Ok i hav been masturbating on gay porn and i feel so horny looking at all these buff guys naked, i also hav developed crushes on boys at school and i dont like girls anymore that much! Plz help! Im 15!! Is this because i watched gay porn?...
A. 23 January 2011: I don't think the gay porn is making you have those feelings, I think the reason you like the gay porn is that those feelings were already inside you.
Don't sweat it though, kid. There are a lot of assholes out there who for whatever reason h... (read in full...)
Are my girlfriend's sexual issues common in women? Is there something I can do to make the experience more enjoyable for her?
Q. My girlfriend and I are sexually active. After having sex for a bit, she will ask me if I am about done. After she asks me this question, I just stop, or other times she will say it's hurting her. We use a lot of lube. Is this normal for women? Is ...
A. 23 January 2011: I don't feel like you've given us enough information to answer your question adequately. How long is "a bit"? Does she enjoy sex ever? Does sex hurt her all the time, or just after a long session? I guess the part I'm confused about is that you say ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is in a band that has two attractive girls. How can I stop feeling insecure?
Q. I have a boyfriend of 4 months. I am 15 going on 16. I absolutely love him to bits, he is everything to me and I never, ever, ever want to lose him! Everything has been going perfectly, he treats me like his only girl and we spend as much time as ...
A. 23 January 2011: It's a question of self-esteem. There isn't much you can do to stop feeling insecure beyond feeling more confident in yourself. Your boyfriend sounds like he's doing all the right things - he's saying what he should say, and nothing you've said has ... (read in full...)
Should I stay and hope she changes her mind?
Q. I've been with a girl for 5 months now and I'm crazy about her. The problem is that she is graduating and is leaning towards not being in a long distance relationship for a year until I graduate while I am certain that I would like to give it a ...
A. 23 January 2011: Hey, man. Listen, if you're crazy about this girl, stick it out. Who knows what will happen. I was in the same situation a couple years ago, and when me and my girlfriend graduated from high school and were headed to separate colleges, she seemed to ... (read in full...)
My wife contributes very little to our relationship
Q. My wife and I have been married for two years and I'm worried about our future because she contributes very little to our relationship. I bring in 100% of the money (I'm putting her through college), but in return she doesn't clean, cook, take ...
A. 23 January 2011: You need to have a serious conversation with your wife. I know you feel guilty bringing up your disappointment -- it's because you love her, and you don't want to hurt her -- but you need to tell it to her straight and be brutally honest with her, ... (read in full...)
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