What can I do? My Husband makes me feel like a 5 year old, because I have to rely on his parents for financial support.
Q. I'm a woman who has been married for three yeas and have a beautiful 9 month old baby. I'm originally from southern Asia and because my husbamd is an only son, we live with his parents. My MIL works And my FIL recently was made medically retire...
A. 17 August 2012: hi,
you should talk to your husband and tell him that you want to work part time. he could look after the baby. if he doesn't want to do that then you could suggest that you should have a joint bank account so you can access funds. if he still... (read in full...)
Car problems! Is he irresponsible or taking advantage?
Q. I'm frustrated about my boyfriend and his friends (and maybe his parents too for spoiling him). Maybe someone has a similar experience to share, or advce to give me? My boyfriend got a car from his parents that his parents are paying for. It's...
A. 14 August 2012: that is a very strange situation. obviously your boyfriend doesn't have a stake in this vehicle because if he did he would be more careful about who gets to use it. he acts like they're borrowing the lawn mower, yeah sure just bring it back when ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend is pregnant and angry at me
Q. I just found out that my girlfriend is pregnant. We're both just over the 40 mark, it was a major shock to me as I never, ever thought I would have children and because of our ages the odds were so slim. She already has 3 kids which can sometimes ...
A. 19 July 2012:
Thanks everyone for replying. Well, after I wrote this I did get to talk to my gf. I was so nervous and figured she would meet me at the door with some kind of weapon but that didn't happen. It went pretty well. She has given up cigarettes and ... (read in full...)
What is preventing me from forming friendships?
Q. I am eighteen years old ( completed secondary school)and I have no friends for the last nine years.Please believe me as many who I have gone to help to don't believe me.I changed schools , no help.I have attended a two psychologists for a deeper ...
A. 19 July 2012: hi, katewww,
I'm sorry it was more of a rhetorical question. I just meant to consider that people might be uncomfortable with you for some reason. I wish I could offer more.... (read in full...)
What is preventing me from forming friendships?
Q. I am eighteen years old ( completed secondary school)and I have no friends for the last nine years.Please believe me as many who I have gone to help to don't believe me.I changed schools , no help.I have attended a two psychologists for a deeper ...
A. 12 July 2012: I think you might be right with the surrounded by adults thing, it could be a factor. I didn't have a lot of friends when I was in school. I was always quiet and just minded my own business. what other people my age were doing didn't really ... (read in full...)
Am I wasting my life away?
Q. so this is not a relationship question more of a life question. ill try keep this as short as possible and as informative as possible. so long story short, i have social anxiety very shy and basicly just want a simple life with no worries ie; ...
A. 21 October 2011: Hi, Jamie, Henry Ford said, whether you think you can or you can't, you're probably right. College or not, whatever goals you set for yourself you have to decide that you can and will get them done. Take it one step at a time. Why can't you m... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend being cheap?
Q. Hello, The other day me and my boyfriend were out and he wanted something to eat, I told him I didn't have alot of money on me and that I would eat when I got home. He looked at me and was like you can't be that broke and I was like yes I am...
A. 21 October 2011: cheap or a jerk? Both.
He is definitely cheap. If he only had enough money to buy one meal he could have waited to get to your place or bought something and shared it with you. I can't believe he dropped you off and then went back. This spe... (read in full...)
Are some people meant to be together because of coincidence and fate?
Q. hi, i really wanted to know if there is such thing as fate, or coincidence,as people called them. so,ok there is this guy in my school. he's one year above me. its been 4 weeks into a new year in my school. i really don't know him at all; he is an...
A. 1 October 2011: I believe fate can play a role and does. The most wild example of this is the following. I read this story in a motorcycle mag and it is unbelievable. If two people are meant to be together it will happen. This woman who was from Norway, I b... (read in full...)
I'm surrounded by couples but I have never had a girlfriend
Q. I'm really frustrated. I'm surrounded by couples everywhere. I'm friends with alot of couples and sometimes I feel awkward. I've never kissed a girl, or had a girlfriend. One time, all of my friends were sitting around talking about their first kiss ...
A. 1 October 2011: don't despair! It will happen if you are patient, but you have to make an effort as well. You say you're tired of hearing it, but it's true - you're young, you've got lots of time. Try online dating sites to talk with girls and maybe get a few ... (read in full...)
I'm surrounded by couples but I have never had a girlfriend
Q. I'm really frustrated. I'm surrounded by couples everywhere. I'm friends with alot of couples and sometimes I feel awkward. I've never kissed a girl, or had a girlfriend. One time, all of my friends were sitting around talking about their first kiss ...
A. 1 October 2011: don't despair! It will happen if you are patient, but you have to make an effort as well. You say you're tired of hearing it, but it's true - you're young, you've got lots of time. Try online dating sites to talk with girls and maybe get a few ... (read in full...)
He never wants to get married because he is afraid a woman will take away his money.
Q. I've been married for 20 years. It was a loveless marriage and Im glad that I had the courage to end it. I've got my own house now and a part time job which I can manage to support myself. I've met this man 16 years older than me. I've been with ...
A. 1 October 2011: I'm reminded of a line from a Queen song, "Somewhere a wealthy man is sitting on his throne, waiting for life to go by."
This doesn't sound like a very loving relationship. I am financially cautious myself at times because I've worked hard for... (read in full...)
For 4 years I've been trying to get him to notice me!
Q. i like this boy in my class for 4 years now and im always tryin to get him to notice me.he shows no interest in me at all .he barley even talks to me. i dont want to tell how i feel right away because that might freak him out . i just want to know ...
A. 1 October 2011: Hi, there's an expression in business, something to the effect of: a guy knows he's missed a good opportunity after somebody else got to it first. Or something like that. Basically, you have to make him jealous. you're relatively young to be ... (read in full...)
Checked my boyfriend's facebook account and found emails from the past that I don't like!
Q. Hi all. I have been with my bf for almost two years. I suffer from terrible insecurity and have often wondered if he has cheated. Anyway, I know it’s wrong but I decided to check his facebook account. I found nothing untoward in the last two years ...
A. 1 October 2011: yours is a good example of why people should mind their own business and not spy on people they supposedly care for. You expect him to be perfect and then betray him to see if he meets your standards. Shame on you. That said, I think you're rea... (read in full...)
Husband accidentally left message on my phone calling me a dumb bitch!
Q. my husband accidentally left a voicemail on my cell phone where he is talking to his friends and saying " the dumb bitch won't answer her phone" I feel very hurt I never thought he would refer to me as a dumb bitch and I feel disrespected and he ...
A. 1 October 2011: I can understand how that would make you upset. What was your husband doing at the time? If he was out drinking and acting like a teenager with his buddies then he could have just been showing off and being a jerk. Guys do stupid things all the ... (read in full...)
My ex is demanding money that he gave me as a gift
Q. my ex and i broke up almost a year ago, however since that time we have remained 'friends' (i say that loosely as its been a very turbulant time, sometimes we've got on and acted like a couple still, other times we argue constantly) he made my life ...
A. 9 September 2011: give him the money back. It's worth it not to have the hassle of him always holding this over your head. He's desperate and using the only thing he can to get back at you. gladly pay him and tell him to do one.... (read in full...)
My wife angry because I was helping a student online
Q. My wife has a big driving test today. Last night I couldn't sleep so I thought it was fine to go to the other room for a couple of hours (before midnight) and a student of mine (grade 12) came online and was asking for my help with her college ...
A. 9 September 2011: Wow, man! you really sound stressed. As long as you're not doing anything unethical with your students your wife has no say. if she does then she must be some kind of control freak. Her reaction speaks volumes. she also sounds like a bully by ... (read in full...)
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