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... Send *r-M a private message | | | *r-M's profile:Hey there. My name is Mario, im an 18 year old guy from Northern Ireland, and heard about this site from someone very special to me, so i decided to sign up and see if i could get helping people :D
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I'm embarrassed to have sex with my boyfriend!!
Q. I feel really embarassed about this problem because it is so stupid... Im 18 years old and recently I had sex with someone who ive been with for a long time. until then id said no to having sex with him because I wasnt ready but around 3 monthes ago ...
A. 11 December 2008: Hey, i'd just like to throw in this advice;
Talk to Matt, as im sure if he is as perfect as you see him to be, he will be understanding about it all, and will most definitely help you get over your embarrassment, and will be supportive when you... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin unsure of what to do Advice please!
Q. hi im a virgin and i have found out that in my girlfriends last relationship she lost her virginity im 16 and she is 15. im still a virgin and i want to have the best connection i can my my girlfriend however i feel that when the time comes for us ...
A. 11 December 2008: Hey dude, Listen, don't worry about not knowing what to do, or how long it will last. Before you and your girlfriend make love for the first time, explain to her that it is your first, and you want to make it special for her and need her to tell ... (read in full...)
Am I just wasting my time messing with her heart or should I pursue this just to see if something good will come out of it?
Q. Recently I was told by a nice gal that she likes me and that she has been thinking of me but the problem is that I have only known her for a little time and I don't know if I feel anything or even the same thing for her at all. I was recently dumped ...
A. 11 December 2008: Hi, i'd just like to say that before you tell her anything, you should have a good long think about what the situation is. Think over how you feel about this girl, how she makes you feel when you are around her etc, and work out if you have feelings ... (read in full...)
He's always staring in my direction, is it because he likes me?
Q. I like this guy but I don't know if he likes me back. I always catch him staring at me and looking in my direction and when I look towards him he is always smiling. Does he like me?...
A. 7 December 2008: From personal experience, i'd wager that he likes you. I did that all the time with the girl i am currently with (before we started dating of course) because i found her to be very beautiful and couldn't really keep my eyes off her.
I am aware th... (read in full...)
He wanted to cum in my eye!!!
Q. I was having sex with a guy I've been seeing for a while the other night, when he said he wanted to do something. He didn't want to say what but I made him tell me and he said he wanted to come in my eye! I thought it was a joke at first so I ...
A. 7 December 2008: I don't really see why he would ask you to do this, maybe its a secret fantasy of his, but to be honest, i would avoid doing it, as it is a huge risk and can lead to visual impairment/lazy eye.
Talk to him about it and find out why he wants to... (read in full...)
What should I do with this? How do I handle it?
Q. Ok, so my girlfriend broke up with me about 2 months ago. The main reason for her ending it was because she said it felt too weird because we were too good friends before hand. I was ok with this, and was able to get over her and move on, and I am ...
A. 7 December 2008: If you think that she likes you again, you should ask her about it. Not in a confrontational way, just in the sort of 'i was just wanting to ask, do you like me again' way, just to have what you are thinking out in the open, and make sure you ask ... (read in full...)
Should I even meet her when she's messing me about?
Q. Ok here's my situation: I've got to know this girl through a friend and we've mostly just been speaking on msn but we have seen each other around and about town. Anyway she recently split up wth her bf and we kinda both told each uther we li...
A. 7 December 2008: Hey, i'd just like to say that if she said to you that she likes this other guy, but wants to still meet up with you, then tell her that not knowing who she likes isn't good enough for you and you want her to be sure it's you she wants. You can't ... (read in full...)
Need to end relationship, want to minimise hurt.
Q. Hi I've been dating now for 5 months, a girl i met online of all things, we chatted for a very long time as friends before dating. Things have got very close, we have told each other we love each other and i do love her to bits, its a distance r...
A. 2 December 2008: Im sorry to tell you this, but there is no easy way to break up with someone, the nicest thing you can do, which can unfortunately also be the most painful, is to be honest with her about what is wrong, and how you feel, and why it is that you are ... (read in full...)
I love him to bits... how do I get him back?
Q. How do i get him back? i am totally confused! i dated this guy for 5 months, he had just came out of a long term relationship. while we were together everything was amazing, he told me that he loved me and i replyed how i felt about him. i told him ...
A. 2 December 2008: To be honest, and i'm sorry if this isn't what you want to hear, but i don't think you will get him back, and in all honesty, i don't think it is in your best interests emotionally to take him back in to your life. He sounds like he is just ... (read in full...)
This will be our first real date... any tips?
Q. Hi. I've got my first date with a guy I like on Friday. Thing is thugh, we've been going for coffee together for the last fortnight, and always chat on msn so we already know each other a fair bit - we go to the same uni and study the same course. ...
A. 2 December 2008: Best advice i can offer you is, just be yourself.
If you both already know quite a bit about one another then you wont have to do the awkward small-talk part, so just be yourselves, have a good time, talk about anything and everything, and just... (read in full...)
YOUR views on commitment please!
Q. Do you think most guys don't want to "commit" in their 20's even if they REALLY like a girl? Or would even a guy who doesn't like commitment commit if he found the perfect girl? What do you guys think?...
A. 2 December 2008: Hey, well, first of all, there are guys out there who don't really want to commit to a relationship, as they will be thinking "why put myself through all that, im young and should be enjoying life and 'racking up the numbers'", but to be completely ... (read in full...)
Can I ask my brother to watch him masterbate?
Q. Hi, hope u can help bit of a dodgy question but I walked into me older brothers room hes 15 and cought him touching himself. We both freaked out but it was to late and he came, he insists that he didnt but i saw it, he was shouting at me a...
A. 2 December 2008: Hi, i'd just like to add to the rest of the answers you've already received by saying that asking your brother to let you watch him masturbate would not, in my opinion, be a good idea. Yes you are female, but i doubt he will have had sexual thoughts ... (read in full...)
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