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*podman
writes:hi im a virgin and i have found out that in my girlfriends last relationship she lost her virginity im 16 and she is 15. im still a virgin and i want to have the best connection i can my my girlfriend however i feel that when the time comes for us to have sex wouldn't know what to do and also how long should my first time last?thanks answers will be greatly appreciated
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reader, ipodman +, writes (21 December 2008):
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reader, Mr-M +, writes (11 December 2008):
 Hey dude, Listen, don't worry about not knowing what to do, or how long it will last. Before you and your girlfriend make love for the first time, explain to her that it is your first, and you want to make it special for her and need her to tell you/show you what she likes the most. Pay attention to her, the sounds she makes, how her body reacts, and most importantly, don't go all out to get your end off, its about her, so make sure that she enjoys it. Patience and perserverance is the best adviceI hope this helpsM
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2008): There is no set time how you should last or even what you should do. The best thing is to make sure she gets pleasure. Just because she lost her virginity doesn't mean it was better than you can do or that the boy knew what he was doing!
Wait until the time is right for you both before you go so far, or maybe build up in steps to it then it won't seem so daunting.
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reader, Red77  +, writes (11 December 2008):
What's more inportant your friends approval or your purity? Life is tough with peer pressure, but you don't have give into it! Can you live with yourself saying I lost my Virginity cause I wanted to fit in? Tough love here
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