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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: Ok, so my girlfriend broke up with me about 2 months ago. The main reason for her ending it was because she said it felt too weird because we were too good friends before hand. I was ok with this, and was able to get over her and move on, and I am currently involved with someone else although we aren't actually going out yet, but it could get to that point soon. I also heard that so had she because she told one of my friends that she liked him and so I thought that it all worked out ok in the end. But recently things have started to change. Firstly she went off this guy because he wasn't nice to her and did some pretty bad things, and now I have a feeling that she likes me again. The reasoning behind this is because all the things she says to me now are very very similar to when she liked me before, almost identical in fact. Also she randomly apologized to me the other day after a night out, and gave no reason for it, another thing she did when she liked me before. And finally she had told me when we broke up that I was her definition of the perfect guy and now her MSN name is "Nobody's Perfect, Except you!" and she said it is about someone, but she couldn't say who. I can't say for definite that she does like me, but it really seems like she does. What should I do with this? How do I handle it?
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reader, Mr-M +, writes (7 December 2008):
If you think that she likes you again, you should ask her about it. Not in a confrontational way, just in the sort of 'i was just wanting to ask, do you like me again' way, just to have what you are thinking out in the open, and make sure you ask her to be honest with you.
Also, if you haven't still got feelings for her, tell her so (after she answers your question of course), and best of luck with the new girl you are involved with
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