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writes:Recently I was told by a nice gal that she likes me and that she has been thinking of me but the problem is that I have only known her for a little time and I don't know if I feel anything or even the same thing for her at all. I was recently dumped by my last gf and don't know whether I actually like this gal or if my head is just rebounding. Is it ethically and ok to tell this gal that the feeling is mutual and see how it goes just to test out the water. I don't want to tell her about my ex and this new gal really likes me a lot compared to my ex. Am I just wasting my time messing with her heart or should I pursue this just to see if something good will come out of it? I know it's shallow but my friends disapprove of the new gal because she is not as attractive as my ex but I think her personality is better and therefore a worthy shot?? WHAT to DO??? help plz
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reader, petina1  +, writes (11 December 2008):
 You are young enough to test the water with different girls. You could go out on a night out and see how you feel about her. No one is expecting a wedding just yet. Never Ever listen to your mates, at the end of the day you have to be the one living it with any girl you decide on, not them. good luck. hope this helps.
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reader, Mr-M +, writes (11 December 2008):
 Hi, i'd just like to say that before you tell her anything, you should have a good long think about what the situation is. Think over how you feel about this girl, how she makes you feel when you are around her etc, and work out if you have feelings for her, then tell her what you've come up with. Don't enter a relationship half-heartedly because in the end up someone will get hurt (most likely her, no offence), and it will end in tears. Hope this helpsKeep me postedM
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