He cheats on me! How do I get past this because I'm at rock bottom?
Q. I'm at rock bottom at the moment, me and my bf were together nearly a year when he started going out every weekend with him mates. this may not seem out of the ordinary but i at the time was working both friday and saturday night because my boss was ...
A. 24 December 2006: it was always him who talked about engagement, he brough it up, he proposed to me after he did it lol. i just dont understand!... (read in full...)
Is it selfish of me to prefer sex when he's wearing a condom.. because he lasts longer?
Q. When my boyfriend was using a condom, he would make me come multiple times. After I told him I'm taking the pill, he stopped using condoms. I'm not afraid of STD as I know I'm the only girl he will ever sleep with. My situation is this. I know my ...
A. 24 December 2006: just remember and remind him that you can still get pregnant while on the pill... (read in full...)
It was my first time and the earth didn't move!
Q. Last night i had sex for the first time with my boyfriend of 10 months. It wasn't planned and was a bit out of the blue. Anyway, i am a little concerned that maybe something is wrong. It didn't hurt me at all which is good, it just felt a little ...
A. 24 December 2006: it didnt get good for me until many many times afterwards. the first few times usually arent great for many people. dont worry! getting wet and excited isnt a problem, its meant to happen :) just dont panic about it or that will just take over the ... (read in full...)
Taking her to a movie...and I'm nervous! Any first date tips?
Q. Hey, I'm 15 and going on my first date with this really amazing girl in about a week. This is my first actual PROPER date, because all the ones that I have been on in the past have been with other people around! (like going bowling in a group, ect) ...
A. 24 December 2006: awwww it sounds cliche but just be yourself, dont start off the relationship pretending to be someone you're not. thinkg of things to talk about if you two get talking before or after the movie so you wont have to deal with awkward silences. oh and ... (read in full...)
Does vaginal discharge mean your periods are coming?
Q. does viginal discharge show you are comming on your period?...
A. 24 December 2006: i had discharge about two or three years before i actually started my period so it can show a lead up to it but it doesnt mean it will be soon... (read in full...)
We split up and I kissed another guy! So why do I feel guilty for doing that?
Q. This is going to sound strange but i recently split with my boyfriend of 2 years about a month ago!!! I went out last night and i ended up randomly kissing some guy in a club. I still really love my ex, and we are best friends!!! But i feel guilty ...
A. 24 December 2006: it sounds like you still have feelings for your ex deeper than you think, but you've got to remember its not like you've cheated on him. time is a healer and eventually you'll be able to move on and not feel so guilty. the way you've got to think ... (read in full...)
I cheated, he just found out, how can reassure him it wont happen again!?
Q. my problem is quite complex. i have been with my boyfriend since i was 14, we basically grew up together ans are not just a couple we are best friends too. but recently he found out that i cheated a few times a while back when we were goin through a ...
A. 24 December 2006: being in the receiving end of cheating, your bf wont trust a word you say. like sweetiegirl just said, it has to come with time but if you want to stay with him dont put yourself into situations where he'll wonder whether you'll do it again. be ... (read in full...)
My bf is texting another girl every day. Is he cheating?
Q. My boyfriend has been texting some girl at his work regularly (every day) when i'm not about. Do you think he could be cheating? And is it acceptable to be hiding it or does he just think cos i don't know he can carry on and get away with it. She ...
A. 23 December 2006: be careful where it will lead. my bf texted this girl and ended up sleeping with her. just be careful but you must talk about it with him because not all guys are the same.... (read in full...)
Am I right to feel upset that he was masturbating in the bed next to me while I slept!!!?
Q. I woke up one night to my boyfriend masturbating in bed next to me. I feel this isnt normal for him to do this next to me while i was asleep. Am i right to feel upset or should i just let it go....
A. 23 December 2006: thats happened to me, but he was asleep at the time as well. i just laughed. its natural - he's a guy, it doesnt mean he's cheating on you. dont worry =)... (read in full...)
I want to remain friends with my ex, how can I do this?
Q. I am in a current 1 yr. loving relationship and have recently kept running into my ex. I broke up with him and tried to speak to him once;he barely responded.I still care about him and would like to remain friends,how should I go about it!...
A. 23 December 2006: my bf broke up with me and asked if we could still be friends...... its too hard
how can someone who hurt you so badly ask to be friends and expect you to be their mate while they're off with someone else in another relationship? its just too hard... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant because he came and was fingering me?
Q. Ive never done anything with any guys before and was a complete virgin until me and my boyfriend decided to go further. Anyway the other night I slept round his house and things led to another and I ended up tossing him off and he was fingering me ...
A. 27 July 2006: the same thing happened to me, and i wasnt pregnant cos i worried too get a test done to rest your mind but dont worry ^_^ xxx... (read in full...)
I've been bullied and it is still hurting me
Q. I was in my 1st year at 6th form (I was 17) and teachers said that bullying shouldn't exist. This one guy in particular took a disliking to me, he made fun ofme, never took me seriously, always gave a stupid remark everytime I asked him something ...
A. 26 July 2006: hun the first thing to do is to realise in your mind why he's doing it
it's the only way in his sad little life that he probably has some sort of control or uses it to feel big because he's compensating for a lack of in another area if you know... (read in full...)
I'm male, inexperienced and looking to learn some moves.
Q. I am an inexperienced male who is wondering what kind of moves i can make to show someone i am interested. I am not looking for anything big, i am still only 16, but i wish i knew more about this subject....
A. 25 July 2006: be interested in them generally. i hate guys who talk all about themselves without asking me any questions about me...
but dont go too overboard and sound like you want to stalk them lol
xxx... (read in full...)
Something for the men to answer: Is this sensation in my lower torso normal ?
Q. This is something only a male can answer. When I reach orgasm, apart from a sensation in the penis, I also sometims get one around the lower torso area afterwards. Is this normal?...
A. 25 July 2006: i'm not a guy either, but my boyfriend says he goes really light headed and gets a feeling all over his body - i think any sensation is normal as everyone is different
i hope a guy answers for you though cos it's what you asked for
xxx... (read in full...)
I feel left out, everyone else has boyfriends except me!!
Q. Im 14 and ive never had a boyfriend. All my friends have and i feel really embarrassed. When i see them hugging or kissing their boyfriends i feel sad and lonely. How can i get a boyfriend? Im not a slut, it just i feel left out. Plese help!...
A. 25 July 2006: im 17 and i never had a boyfriend til i was about 16 and a half - i felt bad when i saw others but trust me - when it comes to things like GCSEs (if you're from the UK) you'll be glad of fewer stresses in your life. if you have a boyfriend now you ... (read in full...)
I just dont enjoy sex with my boyfriend anymore, its affecting us what can I do ?
Q. I dont enjoy sex with my boyfriend anymore. i use to but after we moved in together it has just gotten worse and worse. now of course he is is complaining bu as much as a try it just is not the same. i dont feel cormfortable anymore. what can i do ...
A. 24 July 2006: what is it about the sex that you dont like? is it being with him, or is it that you dont get any pleasure anymore?
xxx... (read in full...)
Started cheating on my boyfriend... now I have strong feelings for both guys!
Q. My bf and I have been going out for 6 years. He and I have gone through a lot. He is always by my side when I am in trouble. And I stood by his side when his company is in bad shape.. I started cheating on my bf 2 years ago. I met someone o...
A. 24 July 2006: how can you say that you love these guys when you're ready and willing to cheat on them. i dont know whether i just have strong morals on this sort of thing - but i have NO idea how you can justify it. i agree with someone else further down the page ... (read in full...)
I love him, but he's in the Army now. I can't accept that he'd choose a career that separates us!
Q. My bf joined the army recently and I really don't like it. I'm still quite young and don't want to be in a relationship that is so serious. I have been with him for 2 and a half years and he left 7 weeks ago. I am really not happy with the situatio...
A. 23 July 2006: i know how you feel!!!!!!! me and my bf weren't together for two and a half years but he joined the army. the way i see it is that if it's something that he wants to do then support him as it lets him grow as a person. it wont be forever! it hasnt ... (read in full...)
We're engaged, he flirts online, I flirt at work, we fight and I don't want to lose him
Q. I am engaged to be married to a man in the military. It has only been a couple months since I last saw him, and already it seems that things have taken a turn for the worse. I fight with him on the phone constantly. I'm always accusing him of ...
A. 23 July 2006: i know i'm only 17 and i dont have a lot of experience, but by the sounds of it you're better off with someone who will actually talk back to you. as for the Myspace thing.. i dont know how he could justify it. good on you for breaking up with him ... (read in full...)
We're both still virgins, after three attempts!
Q. Hi, I have tried to have sex with my girlfriend. We are both virgins and I can't seem to get inside her. I've been given advice and done everything like lots of foreplay, being relaxed, alcohol, use lubricant, using fingers to open it up, condoms,...
A. 23 July 2006: i agree, its going to really hurt but dont let that put you off? at what stage do you stop trying because you may need to just push a little bit more... i cried when me and my bf first had sex but he wasnt a virgin so he knew what he was doing. ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to bleed for this long?
Q. How long after losing your virginity is it normal to bleed for? I had no idea it bled for longer than just during the sex, but it's been 3 days and i'm still bleeding, and it's not my period....
A. 23 July 2006: i'd get it checked out by the doctor. i luckily didnt bleed at all apart from a little patch of blood i found afterwards. i wouldnt be too worried but get it checked out!!... (read in full...)
My period is late - might I be pregnant?
Q. my last menstrual period was on june 18, 2006. since the 18 of july 2006 ive been getting pains. its weird bc the day after i have pains i get my period.. i really want to know if i m pregnant been trying for a yr with my fiance.. plzzzzzz ...
A. 23 July 2006: i agree do a pregnancy test, the most accurate are ones through the doctor but they may take a few days to come back. i dont know how old you are but see if there's a family planning clinic in your area because they do it there and then and they're ... (read in full...)
Is it true that this could have made me pregnant?
Q. question..my bf and i had sex for the first time a week ago.we did use a condom but only after he had been rubbing himself against my clit.then i made him put a condom on straight away and we then had full sex.only now i've been told that i could ...
A. 23 July 2006: it might not show a true result. can i just say that i've had like 2 pregnancy scares, and if you had just finished your period and had sex for the first time (like i did) and he was rubbing up against you it's very doubtful, just relax about it - ... (read in full...)
We rushed into sex, but im scared that this will ruin the relationship!
Q. My boyfriend and I rushed into things kind of quick. I'm only 16 and so is he. I was just wondering if sex really does ruin a relationship. I hope not because he is one of the very few nice ones out there that won't cheat or lie or anything. We only ...
A. 23 July 2006: it depends on what kind of person you are to be honest. sex doesnt mean to be the end of a relationship, if thought of in the right way it can strengthen the relationship. just be careful that protection is used obviously and that you continue to be ... (read in full...)
I think I love him, but not sure if im sooooo in love with im confused ?
Q. I don't think i'm SOOOO in love with my boyfriend but i think i do love him. Sometimes like once in awhile i feel like i'm asking myself if i love him or not. He is a GREAT guy and i don't want to leave him. He's one of the few good ones. In the ...
A. 23 July 2006: i know exactly what you mean, i had the same thing when i started with my boyfriend. i had mixed feelings at the start but i thought why not give it a go, now i love him and i dont always have a spark when i see him... it's normal. If you're ... (read in full...)
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