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writes: Im 14 and ive never had a boyfriend. All my friends have and i feel really embarrassed. When i see them hugging or kissing their boyfriends i feel sad and lonely. How can i get a boyfriend? Im not a slut, it just i feel left out. Plese help!
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reader, SoNzZz +, writes (25 August 2006):
 Hey...Just cause your friends have a guy dont mean you have to have one do. I Think your quite sensible actually...You wanna know why...because all young relationships break. You might feel hurt and sad looking at your friends with their guys but dont worry. The more you wait...The more good chance you will have with a guy. xx
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reader, XxBxX  +, writes (7 August 2006):
 You don't Need a boyfriend, i know its hard, i was in the same situation as you. there is someone out there for everyone, you just have to be patient. And sure enough, you will have a bf that you love to bits, and he will love you to bits too!
Good luck!
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reader, finchy +, writes (25 July 2006):
 You don't really need a boyfriend because your friends have one, you should wait until you find a guy you care about and know and trust. You should enjoy being single in the meantime and have fun with your palz. xx
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reader, mjmoonwalker89 +, writes (25 July 2006):
 im 17 and i never had a boyfriend til i was about 16 and a half - i felt bad when i saw others but trust me - when it comes to things like GCSEs (if you're from the UK) you'll be glad of fewer stresses in your life. if you have a boyfriend now you may have so many more emotional issues that will feel worse than you feel now
relax girl! your time will come!! believe me, i have friends the same age as me who dont even have any guy friends... dont worry yourself.
think of it as something to look forward to later in life
i know how you feel cos it was one of the things that made me depressed when i was younger.... like.... 2 years ago lol ok not that much younger and now i realise being in a 10 month relationship i wouldn't have been able to deal with the responsibility you have in a relationship.
it might not be much comfort but think about your life like a long line - you're only at the very beginning of it and you have SO much time to think about boyfriends in the future
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reader, kat14 +, writes (25 July 2006):
 trust me you dont want a bf its not all its cracked up to be im nearly 15 it just complicates things i dont have a bf and after having one for a few weeks i often find myself wishes i was single.
Dont just go for anyone find a guy you like, flirt abit look at him for a few seconds when he realises look away. Smile at him stuff like that. Then let him know over msn or by text or maybe thru a mate that u like him. See what happens.
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reader, Hot (Advice) +, writes (25 July 2006):
 Hey little girl go back and go play with your barbie dolls. Don't worry about playing with guys yet, you are only little and have a lots of growing up to do.
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reader, chazx +, writes (25 July 2006):
 Hello Sweetieyou dont need to get a boyfriend because everybody else has one you have alot of time to grow up and do the hugging and kissing stuff so dont rush your life away ok babe because life is precious every minute means something so take things as they come and try and do something that makes you feel better like read a book that interests you and will make you cheer up.Good Luck and have fun.children your age try and act more grown up then they actually are but they are not as old as they think so stay your age and do teenage things ok!
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