Love really can conquer all. A story of taking a chance and finding true love. Thanks DearCupid.org
Q. So this is more of a story than a question. I used this website to find advice about 6 months ago. I had asked if it was a smart decision to move 7 hours away with a guy I only met a couple times. The advice was not what I wanted to hear of cours...
A. 22 October 2012: Yes I jhave my daughter. Me and her father have come to an agreement as far as custody and agreement is concerned. But she and my fiance get along great she adores him as well as he adores her.... (read in full...)
Is this just a rough patch? Will things get better?
Q. Im a 20 year old mom of a 4 year old daughter. And in the past 4 years I have learned that I dont enjoy being a mom. I know that sound brutally honest but I cant help the way i feel. I love my daughter with all my heart dont get me wrong but Im not ...
A. 17 April 2012: thank you so much! To everyone thankyou for such wonderful advice. I think it would be a good idea for me to be around other mothers my age. I just have to find some. I dont really have any friends, or at least friends with kids. And i completely ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure where to start with the moving. I am confused
Q. So I have decided to move somewhere 7 hours away from where i live now. Im moving to be with my boyfriend. I just dont know where to start. Ive never moved on my own like this before. I have a job here where I live now and could probably get this ...
A. 4 April 2012: Yess. his parents said it would be ok with them. I know I should get a job first but how do i do that? Do i apply now and tell them I cant start for another 2 weeks or so? Or do I move down there and then try and find a job? Financially, Im not ... (read in full...)
How should I propose?
Q. So I'm sure i found the love of my life. We've been friends since May of last year, and been dating since December. I know it's only been a short time but I know he's the one. I'm not one who ever wanted to get married but for some reason I want to ...
A. 30 March 2012: Well I just wanted to say thanks to everyone for your advice. Even though none of you answered my question haha. Anyways though, we have talked about getting married and he is ok with me asking him so i know thats not a problem. As far as living ... (read in full...)
Should I move to be near the new guy? I'm getting nervous about my ex
Q. So the guy I been talkin to since june, I finally went and met him in person for the first time in december. I thought it was goin to be super awkward and I was so nervous. But actually it wasnt awkward at all and for the first time I felt like I ...
A. 17 January 2012: Yes i do know what you mean. In fact, i finally realized that ive been trying to hold on to a friendship with him and its not getting me anywhere. I was afraid to let go completely just in case I was making a mistake. But i realize in im ok to just ... (read in full...)
Should I move to be near the new guy? I'm getting nervous about my ex
Q. So the guy I been talkin to since june, I finally went and met him in person for the first time in december. I thought it was goin to be super awkward and I was so nervous. But actually it wasnt awkward at all and for the first time I felt like I ...
A. 16 January 2012: Well i understand that the change for my kid is drastic. But if i were to move with this new guy i would leavee my daughter with my mom and her dad for a little while until i get settled in. This will also give me time to see if me and this guy ... (read in full...)
Did he or did he not have sex with his ex?
Q. Ok so about a year ago my bf of 4 1/2 years went and visited his ex in California. He didnt tell me about this until this past July. The only reason he told me is because we were having relationship problems and we ended up breaking up. He decided ...
A. 20 September 2011: Well honestly, if he did cheat on me then I could forgive him but I would put an end to our relationship. I told him if he ever cheated on me, I would be gone. To this day I know without a doubt in my mind I'll stand by that. So I just really think ... (read in full...)
To tell? Or not to tell? I cheated twice on him
Q. Hi everyone! I've asked two questions before about my relationship with my bf of 4 1/2 years. Well I have another question for everyone. I cheated on my boyfriend twice wit 2 different guys. SHould I tell him? I mean I know if I tell him everything ...
A. 9 September 2011: Thanks Little Bunny lol. I love your advice. I mean I dont feel the need to cheat on him ever again and I've already put that in the past and I'm ready to look forward. Thank you much! Your advice was very much appreciated... (read in full...)
To tell? Or not to tell? I cheated twice on him
Q. Hi everyone! I've asked two questions before about my relationship with my bf of 4 1/2 years. Well I have another question for everyone. I cheated on my boyfriend twice wit 2 different guys. SHould I tell him? I mean I know if I tell him everything ...
A. 8 September 2011: I just want to say thanks to everyone for all the advice it's become very clear on what I need to do. I agree with all of you I know it's the right thing to do. Now I'm just not sure when I will tell him but I think that's inevitable. I just need to ... (read in full...)
My ex has forgotten when my birthday is. Do I have a right to be peeved or am I making a big deal of nothing?
Q. My ex and me were together for just under six months. It's been several months now since we broke up. We've tried to be friends since then but it has been difficult for me because she ended it and then got a new boyfriend soon after. Anyway, t...
A. 8 September 2011: I see that your true to holding your promises. But you did say you promised you would try to remain friends. I think if you are still talking to her after all this time that's trying pretty hard. Tell her you tried and you're not breaking your ... (read in full...)
I've had a crush on her since 1981. Now that I've told her she has stopped contacting me
Q. Hi, I have a friend on Facebook. I have known since 1981. I have had a crush on all this time. The 20 years that I didn't talk to her, she was still on my mind. She is the most beautiful thing I have ever seen, or ever will. So I wrote to her ...
A. 8 September 2011: Have you had any relationship with her in the past or was she always just a crush? It's possible that she needs time to thing or that she's maybe busy, or she doesn't want you. Although you don't have the answer it doesn't hurt to keep trying. Maybe ... (read in full...)
To tell? Or not to tell? I cheated twice on him
Q. Hi everyone! I've asked two questions before about my relationship with my bf of 4 1/2 years. Well I have another question for everyone. I cheated on my boyfriend twice wit 2 different guys. SHould I tell him? I mean I know if I tell him everything ...
A. 8 September 2011: It's so hard though because I've been with him for so long. I know that I really did love him with all my heart. I've been there with him through thick and thin untill just recently when i cheated. But I guess my other question is, Can you fall out ... (read in full...)
To tell? Or not to tell? I cheated twice on him
Q. Hi everyone! I've asked two questions before about my relationship with my bf of 4 1/2 years. Well I have another question for everyone. I cheated on my boyfriend twice wit 2 different guys. SHould I tell him? I mean I know if I tell him everything ...
A. 8 September 2011: You do have a great point but I guess Im still just a little conflicted with what I should do. And I've never cheated on anyone before but I guess I felt it'd be easier to cheat on him then to tell him I don't want him anymore because I want to have ... (read in full...)
My ex has forgotten when my birthday is. Do I have a right to be peeved or am I making a big deal of nothing?
Q. My ex and me were together for just under six months. It's been several months now since we broke up. We've tried to be friends since then but it has been difficult for me because she ended it and then got a new boyfriend soon after. Anyway, t...
A. 8 September 2011: I see how you could be annoyed a bit but at the same time it doesn't matter because you two aren't together. Personally, I think it bothers you because you still have some feelings for her. I think you should just slowly or suddenly wichever you ... (read in full...)
My husband insists nothing happened between him and his female friend, but I know he's lying
Q. Sorry for the length, needed to vent. I have been with my partner 9 years. He has a job that means he is away from home at least 1 night a week, but usually more. Late last year I became aware of a woman he had befriended (he felt sorry for her b...
A. 8 September 2011: confront Him!!! You need to tell him that you have all that information. This way if he still denies it then you know for a fact that he's lying to you and he has no problem doing it. I think given your situation, it could either go 2 ways you guys ... (read in full...)
Should go see him or I should just forget about him?
Q. Ok so Im 18 years old. Ive been with my boyfriend for over 4 1/2 years now and we have a 3 year old daughter together. I lost my virginity to my boyfriend and he's all I've ever known. But probably right after I turned 18 something in me changed. I ...
A. 4 September 2011: Well I am going to college to be a nurse. I have about 3 more classes to take before I can apply for the program. I graduated high school a year early, so my goals as far as success in life are and always will be on track. No questions asked. And ... (read in full...)
I have no confidence in bed!
Q. i have absloutly no confidence when it comes to sex! really want to srop being so unconfident and insecure and i keep tellin myself that im gonna take controll during sex, but when it comes to it i can never do it! i am generally quite a confident ...
A. 4 September 2011: Well I personally think that you just aren't all that comfortable with him yet. After I had sex with my bf for the first time, he took my virginity, I didnt even want him to see me naked for more than a few seconds. I just didn't feel comfortable. I ... (read in full...)
Is once a cheater always a cheater applicable to my boyfriend's case?
Q. Ok, I know we've got dozens of posts on the phrase "once a cheater always a cheater" I have always believed this before but now I am trying to open my eyes again to see if I might be wrong. Ok, so here goes my story. My current boyfriend used t...
A. 4 September 2011: Well i think if he did all that for you then it's doubtful he's going to cheat on you. In his defense, he probably didn't break up with his gf right a way because he was afraid you wouldn't accept him. I mean seeing how he did go through a ... (read in full...)
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