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My girlfriend lost a bottle of her favourite perfume while in a club with me last night... And she wants ME to replace it! What should I do?

Q.   Last night in a club with my friends, I got separated from the group. I decided to text my girlfriend to find out where she was. When I couldn't find her from her directions I told her where she could find me. When she got there she waved to me, and ...

A.   30 January 2010: She's just being selfish. Its not your fault she lost it, she didn't need to have a bottle of perfume out with her. I wouldn't pay for any of it if I was you. ... (read in full...)

I don't feel anything when I kiss or hug her

Q.   im confused about something ...this girl is very close to me and i have broken off with her twice because of my confusion telling her that i need some time and im kind of committment phobic(which is true perhaps because im confused)....still she has ...

A.   28 December 2009: I think you know deep down that this isn't a relationship that is going to last, unfortunately, but sometimes that is the way they go. It sounds like it has turned more into a deep friendship and that although their isn't a reason not to like her ... (read in full...)

Do I shave it all off or leave some?

Q.   Hello Right, i am 16,, female and i am with a 20 year old. We are ready for sex but i keep putting it off because of my down below.. i have been shaving it off for so long, and i dont know weather or not he will like it, and i want it to be ...

A.   28 December 2009: I would say leave a little, having none makes it look like a childs.... (read in full...)

I don't like keeping things a secret, is this cheating?

Q.   hey, im 18 and bi. i have recently been fooling around with another guy that i met at college. both of us are still in the closet and no one knows about it. My problem is that im starting to date this girl at college also. me and the guy have still ...

A.   28 December 2009: Does the guy know about the girl? Would he mind if you were with them both? From the girls point of view though unless you say you want an open relationship then she will see it as cheating. If you are unsure of which person you want be frank about ... (read in full...)

Did my husband rape my sister or was it consensual?

Q.   i found out that my sister woke up to find my husband on top her having intercourse with her. shes saying this is what happened and she pushed him off and that he kept calling her BABE referring to me. for some reason he hought it was me. yeah ...

A.   23 December 2009: I think there is a good chance you have a twisted sister. Going by her reply about always breaking up peoples relationships and what the friend saw in the hall. I think she has obviously felt jealous of you and other peoples relationships and took ... (read in full...)

My new boyfriend is great, but I'm worried about my ex

Q.   I am stuck in the middle of a real dilemma and it's tearing me apart on the inside. This year my boyfriend (now ex-) of 2.5 years and I both went off to college. During my first week there, I met this incredible guy. We started talking and we both ...

A.   23 December 2009: It sounds like you are currently in a 'filler' relationship it is exciting at first and there is nothing wrong with the relationship or the person they just don't tick all the boxes. They do fill your time and make you feel good and its easy to ... (read in full...)

Is it normal to prefer sex during the first days of menstruation?

Q.   I am curious. My wife tells me that she is most interested in Sex about the 3rd or 4th day of her period. Is this quite normal?...

A.   5 November 2009: I know that sometimes I feel intersested in sex around that time of my cycle. I can't speak for anyone else but everyone is different, its certainly not something to worry about. ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is hardly ever in the mood for sex, have I done something to cause this?

Q.   I've been with my girlfriend for a little over 3 years now and we hardly have sex anymore. she had cervical cancer last summer and since then shes never been in the mood for sex.. is it something i did or what should i do? [Moderator's Note: Po...

A.   5 November 2009: You didn't do anything, she has probably gone through a whole range of emotions and is still coming to terms with having had cancer. The best option is to talk to her about it. Also give her the choice to just keep it at kissing and foreplay to ... (read in full...)

Was my boyfriend just trying something new or was I right to react the way I did?

Q.   im 16 and my boyfriend is 19. we had been fighting lately and just got back together last night. i went over his house last night and we worked it out. so we were just sitting there watching tv, him on the couch and me in the chair next to ...

A.   24 October 2009: No, your friend is not right if your bf forced you to have sex against your will he has raped you. My advice would be to get up and report him to the police, don't have a shower first as if he didn't use a condom there is evidence inside you. He ... (read in full...)

What does this body language mean?

Q.   hi .. can anyone enlighten me? i was just wondering what body language it means when my bf of 4 months looks quickly away with his eyes at the moment when i kiss him goodbye.. its just a quick kiss on the lips, eyes open but his eyes flit to the ...

A.   24 October 2009: Hmm, is he ok with with other forms of public affection? If so maybe it is just what he does, ask him if he is even aware that he does it. Also what is the rest of his body language like? if its purely just his eyes glanciong to the side you may be ... (read in full...)

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