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writes: hi .. can anyone enlighten me? i was just wondering what body language it means when my bf of 4 months looks quickly away with his eyes at the moment when i kiss him goodbye.. its just a quick kiss on the lips, eyes open but his eyes flit to the side. he's been doing this since the beginning of our relationship, we're both in our early 40's. If anyone can tell me what this means i would appreciate itthanks Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2009): thanks for answering.. he isnt comfortable with public displays of affection and isnt very affectionate generally,although he is nice to me. when i kiss him goodbye its always in his house where nobody else can see. i have wondered if he just isnt that interested in me really but trying to hide it! he says his last gf was very cold and finds me abit overwhelming at times.. i think i'm just a normal person certainly not over affectionate and i do consider his feelings when we are around others.. i have met his mum and quite a few of his friends although he has only met 2 of mine and one of my 3 children.. he doesnt seem interested in wanting to meet my parents, family or my other children.. they're in their early 20s- adults really! we live 40 miles apart and i seem to be doing all the running to visit him as he works long hours over part of the weekends too...
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reader, miss lilian +, writes (24 October 2009):
Hmm, is he ok with with other forms of public affection? If so maybe it is just what he does, ask him if he is even aware that he does it. Also what is the rest of his body language like? if its purely just his eyes glanciong to the side you may be reading too much into it. best to talk to him
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