She won't cooperate in getting the divorce finalized in my country too
Q. I think I have posted many times about my American wife who came to Pakistan and after six months wanted a divorce. Few days back, US state superior court gave her divorce as she hired a very skilled attorney . Despite marriage happened in Pakistan, ...
A. 29 July 2013: Maybe you could hire an attorney as well and get this all sorted through the law. That will then mean that you would not need to speak to her through Facebook. I think getting an attorney will be the quickest and simplest way to deal with all of ... (read in full...)
My wife wants to re-establish contact with her bad news family
Q. I have a dilemma. My wife has a very disfunctional family. Her mother took off when she was two never to be seen from again, and her father has been in and out of her life for her 30 years. She was raised by her fathers parents and his sister. Her ...
A. 29 July 2013: I understand that your lives have been much better without her family. Nevertheless, stopping her seeing them would just end up in more arguments and could end up with her resenting you.
You should sit down with her, talk through your worries with... (read in full...)
I told my girlfriend's friend she was hot, and now there is friction between them
Q. Dear cupid, Just eight days ago , I said to my girlfriend's close friend , in front of her, that "Oh my God, you are one hell of a hot girl." . Her friend just smiled whereas my girlfriend said "Enough" . Ever since that happened, my girlfrie...
A. 29 July 2013: How would you feel if your girlfriend told one of your mates that he was hot in front of you?
People in relationships expect them to be the only ones you have eyes for.
The fact that you said that would seem as if you were looking around and not ... (read in full...)
My trust issues are ruining everything how can I put this right?
Q. Hi aunts and uncles! Please can you help me. I'll start with a bit of past background, I'm one of this that's always been unlucky in love, and it doesn't seem to be getting any better. My childrens father cheated numerous times, and subseque...
A. 28 July 2013: It is hard to fully trust someone when you have experienced cheating and it is difficult to explain your feelings to somebody else. Your new person has never experienced this before which is why he is finding it hard to understand you. Maybe you... (read in full...)
My husband's friend verbally attacked me and my husband believes him over me even though there were witnesses
Q. Hi,I am 24 years old and I now its 3 years to my marriage and there was always problem my husband spent more time with friends thn me.....but I managed as I love him so much,but now one of my husband's friend his name is suraj and he is married and ...
A. 28 July 2013: It is obvious that you still love him.
You need to think, can you forgive him?
Try to call him or Skype him and try to forgive and forget.
You know what happened and deep down so does he but you really love him so maybe it's for the best to reso... (read in full...)
Is there any hope in getting out of the friendzone?
Q. Okay, so, this guy and I have known each other for 3.5 years. I'm 23 he's 21. I'm his second oldest friend because he has Avoidant Personality Disorder. We recently had a big fight and had to work it out. We got everything all worked out and over ...
A. 28 July 2013: Hello,
What I would say is wait and see if her breaks it off with this other girl. You wouldn't want something to happen at this party and then for him to go back to her.
Most importantly I guess you have to ask yourself, just how important is... (read in full...)
I'm emotionally attached to him but got caught up in a mess. What now?
Q. He came as a visitor whom I received. I was almost 18 and he was 29. We texted each other after our official meeting. He was very flirty and asked whether I was single. We planned to have coffee, but he got lost and his tour guide picked him up. ...
A. 2 December 2012: Hello, I would say that this guy wants to have his cake and eat it as well! The fact that he lied about his relationship shows that it was something he needed to hide from you. I think you should try and move on and forget about him. If he was... (read in full...)
How to get over being angry with in laws ???
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years. We get along just fine but I don't get along with his mom nor his brother because when we started dating his brother out of the blue without even meeting me told my boyfriend that I was no good ...
A. 2 December 2012: I can see where you are coming from and why you are upset. But they are his family and with something like a wedding I'm sure that he would want them there. I think that you should try and be the better person for yourself and your boyfriend and al... (read in full...)
How can I be myself around him without clamming up?
Q. Hello, this is my first time asking for advice on here.. ok so there's this guy I've hung out a couple of times.. see the problem is that I'm usually very talkative and I can keep a conversation but when I'm with him my head goes blank and we have ...
A. 2 December 2012: I think it's because of your history and he was your first kiss, it makes sense for any feelings from before are still there. You need to try and remember that regardless of the past you are meeting again now, try and talk to him like you've j... (read in full...)
Could my boyfriend be cheating with his ex?
Q. Help everyone! I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years. In the very beginning of our relationship he had left his iPad opened and nosey me checked out his Facebook . Well I came across a message he wrote to an ex saying how "he missed her and h...
A. 2 December 2012: I think maybe you should just sit him down and ask him to answer you honestly. The fact that you are a flight attendant just means that you'll be more worried everytime you go off to work. You may need to speak to the girl herself and ask her what... (read in full...)
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