Erection problems! What can I do?
Q. my penis no long erict enough time during intercourse.how can I avoid this problem?...
A. 10 June 2007: All men occasionally lose their erections. Mostly, this will be symptomatic of problems either in your personal life or what is going on at work etc. Stress is most definitely the enemy of an erection. If there are problems in the relationship... (read in full...)
I want to save my marriage, but don't want to lose her. What do I do?
Q. Hi, I am married with a beautiful wife and 2 kids. Recently my wife has become much more demanding sexually, with us often making love 3 or 4 times a day. Although, you can imagine I am delighted with this, there is a fly in the ointment. Sh...
A. 9 June 2007: Well where do I start! Have long since come off the anti depressant which made me feel far worse. I have gone to counselling. This has been really useful. However, the real change has been within me. Suddenly, I have felt the need to take lovers. ... (read in full...)
Is it right to spend time with the opposite sex when you're with someone else?
Q. Is it right to spend time with the opposite sex when are you in a relationship with someone else?...
A. 29 May 2007: I think men and women can be friends without them wanting to have sex with each other. However, you need to be vigilant of your feelings and her feelings. I had a long term friendship with a highly intelligent ex-student of mine. She is engaging, ... (read in full...)
I have a fluctuating sex drive. Should I be worried and is this normal?
Q. I have a fluctuating sex drive. Over the period of about two months, i can go for weeks with absolutely zero interest in sex, and then one day, become this ravenous sex animal, and not want to leave the bed for hours, if not days, on end. Needless ...
A. 29 May 2007: Yes, This is not that uncommon. My wife had a very similar sex drive to you up until 8 months ago. And then wham. She wanted sex every night, two or three times a night. My wife is in her early 40's by the way.
It seems that women fluctuat... (read in full...)
I want a boob job but my boyfriend doesn't... yet he spends time in the gym sculpting his body!
Q. Hi, My boyfriend is happy with my chest size but I'm not. I'm 23 yrs old and feel that my chest size is small annot proportion with my body. I have been thinking of having breast augumentation for 3.5 yrs now, since I thought maybe over time wil...
A. 22 May 2007: He is right. The fact is that most men like women who like themselves not women who are neurotic. Small boobs, frankly are nicer and less likely to go south that big ones. They also don't weigh you down and in my experience are far more sensitive ... (read in full...)
I am a boy and how do I calculate my penis size?
Q. I am a boy and how do I calculate my penis size? What is the ideal penis age in 20-29?...
A. 19 May 2007: You don't. The fact is that most men are roughly the same size at about 6 inches. If you are smaller or larger than this, you are statistically infrequent. For the record I am about average. And as my wife comments, it is not so much the size as how ... (read in full...)
What can I do to make him want more sex?
Q. Hi, i am 22 and my boyfriend is 20. We were living with roommates so our sex life was scheduled around when they were gone. We just moved into our own house and I thought it would get better, but we still don't have sex as much as we used to. What ...
A. 18 May 2007: Could be that his sex drive is not as strong as yours. Men sometimes need to be told that women are in the 'mood'. We have a simple signal method. Have some candles in the bedroom. If you fancy making love, light them. Equally, if he wants it get ... (read in full...)
I want to save my marriage, but don't want to lose her. What do I do?
Q. Hi, I am married with a beautiful wife and 2 kids. Recently my wife has become much more demanding sexually, with us often making love 3 or 4 times a day. Although, you can imagine I am delighted with this, there is a fly in the ointment. Sh...
A. 16 May 2007: Thanks for the advice Rythmnandblues2. For the record, I agree. Glad to say that everything is looking much rosier. Me and my wife are getting on much better. We are also back to having an awful lot of sex. One shouldn't complain. She has decided ... (read in full...)
I want to save my marriage, but don't want to lose her. What do I do?
Q. Hi, I am married with a beautiful wife and 2 kids. Recently my wife has become much more demanding sexually, with us often making love 3 or 4 times a day. Although, you can imagine I am delighted with this, there is a fly in the ointment. Sh...
A. 10 May 2007: Some positives to feed back. For the first time since all this has blown up, we made love. She was understandably anxious about it. As previously I had not been able to perform on a few occasions for the first time in our marriage. Fortunately, it ... (read in full...)
I want to save my marriage, but don't want to lose her. What do I do?
Q. Hi, I am married with a beautiful wife and 2 kids. Recently my wife has become much more demanding sexually, with us often making love 3 or 4 times a day. Although, you can imagine I am delighted with this, there is a fly in the ointment. Sh...
A. 9 May 2007: Went to counselling on Tuesday. In England, you go initially for an initial appointment. This then leads to the prospect of more meetings. Nonetheless, you get 50 minutes to start off with.
Was disappointed with meeting. My wife claims to see n... (read in full...)
How can I make myself last longer while having sex?
Q. Hi im 15 years old, and when me and my girlfriend are having sex i sometimes have orgasm too quickly, sometimes it doesn't even take a minute. I don't really mind this that much, and even my GF says it is ok, but it makes me feel that i am not ...
A. 8 May 2007: Try exercing your pelvic floor muscles. When you go to the toilet, stop the flow of your urine for 10 seconds and then repeat 3 or 4 times. This will create extra control for you when you have sex. I often last for over an hour because I have highly ... (read in full...)
I'm 16, just lost my virginity and now my BF wants me to shave down there!
Q. hey am 16 and and i just lost it to my b/f who i have been with for about 2 years now and he said he would like me to shave all my hair on my pussy... would it make a diffrence if i did or not?...
A. 8 May 2007: Don't think you should do it just because he wants it. Do it because you want to. Really it makes no difference, just looks.
I am sure that you are beautiful with or without your hair. Let's hope you bf thinks so. And remember, only do things b... (read in full...)
I want to save my marriage, but don't want to lose her. What do I do?
Q. Hi, I am married with a beautiful wife and 2 kids. Recently my wife has become much more demanding sexually, with us often making love 3 or 4 times a day. Although, you can imagine I am delighted with this, there is a fly in the ointment. Sh...
A. 8 May 2007: We go to counselling today, so last night told her that I have a big problem with her controlling me. She was shocked, and I commented that at the moment I cannot promise that counselling will solve this issue. I may have to leave the marriage. Can ... (read in full...)
I want to save my marriage, but don't want to lose her. What do I do?
Q. Hi, I am married with a beautiful wife and 2 kids. Recently my wife has become much more demanding sexually, with us often making love 3 or 4 times a day. Although, you can imagine I am delighted with this, there is a fly in the ointment. Sh...
A. 5 May 2007: Not sure it will work with us. However, I am prepared to have an open mind. May be I need to learn to let go and trust her. Just wonder what it would say about our relationship? How she will cope just 'having sex' and how I will cope 'just fucking'? ... (read in full...)
I want to save my marriage, but don't want to lose her. What do I do?
Q. Hi, I am married with a beautiful wife and 2 kids. Recently my wife has become much more demanding sexually, with us often making love 3 or 4 times a day. Although, you can imagine I am delighted with this, there is a fly in the ointment. Sh...
A. 4 May 2007: What is the point of being moody? No, I just get on with it. As I have already said, sex or the lack of it is certainly not the issue here. Although more recently the sex has dried up, before that it was almost constant. Too much. However, I am not ... (read in full...)
I want to save my marriage, but don't want to lose her. What do I do?
Q. Hi, I am married with a beautiful wife and 2 kids. Recently my wife has become much more demanding sexually, with us often making love 3 or 4 times a day. Although, you can imagine I am delighted with this, there is a fly in the ointment. Sh...
A. 4 May 2007: I'm not sure how I control her? She does what she wants all the time. Sex is an example of this. Everything plays to her tune. She wants it, she gets it. I want it, I don't even bother asking. However, I am not perfect. She has resentment issues I ... (read in full...)
I want to save my marriage, but don't want to lose her. What do I do?
Q. Hi, I am married with a beautiful wife and 2 kids. Recently my wife has become much more demanding sexually, with us often making love 3 or 4 times a day. Although, you can imagine I am delighted with this, there is a fly in the ointment. Sh...
A. 4 May 2007: A bit non-plussed by this post. Naturally enough, I don't think I am the controlling one. We all try to control at sometimes in our life, but everyone knows that control just does not work. It breeds resentment and jealousy. In my circumstance,... (read in full...)
I fancy my teacher...........
Q. hi, I am in love (or at least fancy) my teacher. Everyone who has given me online advice says that this is perfectly normal although I can't talk to anybody because I know that It will become gossip. I think about him all the time and everyone says ...
A. 3 May 2007: As a teacher, I think it is important to state, that it is perfectly natural for pupils to become close to their teachers. However, it is inappropriate, and could lead to the sacking of the person you so like.
So think carefully about putting ... (read in full...)
I want to save my marriage, but don't want to lose her. What do I do?
Q. Hi, I am married with a beautiful wife and 2 kids. Recently my wife has become much more demanding sexually, with us often making love 3 or 4 times a day. Although, you can imagine I am delighted with this, there is a fly in the ointment. Sh...
A. 3 May 2007: As I explained before at the moment she has done nothing but heavy pet with a customer(friend) who she is writing a website for. However, she has made it plain that she would like to and she would like me to have sex with other women. (‘If it makes ... (read in full...)
I want to save my marriage, but don't want to lose her. What do I do?
Q. Hi, I am married with a beautiful wife and 2 kids. Recently my wife has become much more demanding sexually, with us often making love 3 or 4 times a day. Although, you can imagine I am delighted with this, there is a fly in the ointment. Sh...
A. 2 May 2007: Think that you are right Rhythmandblues. Up at 5, because I cannot stand to be in the same room as her. She tossing and turning with anger with me, I can feel it. It's palpable. Beyond the texts what have I done to her apart from try to love her?
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I want to save my marriage, but don't want to lose her. What do I do?
Q. Hi, I am married with a beautiful wife and 2 kids. Recently my wife has become much more demanding sexually, with us often making love 3 or 4 times a day. Although, you can imagine I am delighted with this, there is a fly in the ointment. Sh...
A. 1 May 2007: Had another row with her tonight. I used the word manipulative (she was not keen) on the phrase, but I stand by it. She reiterated that nothing was going to happen, and just because she might want it, it didn't mean it would. (If you get that!!), ... (read in full...)
Our sex drives are different, I sought attention elsewhere, nothing happend sexually, but now she doest trust me!!!
Q. Been married to a gorgeous girl for 3 years and we have a 6 month old daughter. I love my wife very much but we have very different sex drives. Mine is high and hers is low. When we don't have sex for a length of time I feel undesirable and I crave ...
A. 1 May 2007: Interesting to note that it is not necessarly this way round. My wife wants sex two or three times a day and I cannot keep up. Nonetheless, in both situations, you need to talk to each other and tell each other what you want. Communication will bond ... (read in full...)
I want to save my marriage, but don't want to lose her. What do I do?
Q. Hi, I am married with a beautiful wife and 2 kids. Recently my wife has become much more demanding sexually, with us often making love 3 or 4 times a day. Although, you can imagine I am delighted with this, there is a fly in the ointment. Sh...
A. 1 May 2007: 18 years of marriage and two kids, one only four, suggests that we are not that toxic. I agree that the situation she is asking me to put up with is toxic and unfair. As I said in another post we are not possessions, but their needs to be trust. ... (read in full...)
I want to save my marriage, but don't want to lose her. What do I do?
Q. Hi, I am married with a beautiful wife and 2 kids. Recently my wife has become much more demanding sexually, with us often making love 3 or 4 times a day. Although, you can imagine I am delighted with this, there is a fly in the ointment. Sh...
A. 1 May 2007: She see's it as merely sex, nothing else. Why would she need to be counsselled about her sex drive, it's natural. Despite all my efforts I am clearly not able to satisfy these, she needs more sex and greater experience. This I think is a big issue, ... (read in full...)
I want to save my marriage, but don't want to lose her. What do I do?
Q. Hi, I am married with a beautiful wife and 2 kids. Recently my wife has become much more demanding sexually, with us often making love 3 or 4 times a day. Although, you can imagine I am delighted with this, there is a fly in the ointment. Sh...
A. 30 April 2007: Real difference between the views - some beseeching me to let her have her desires, whilst other posts seem certain that she is manipulating me in the extreme. Expect the answer is somewhere in the middle. Clearly, she wants to have her cake and eat ... (read in full...)
I want to save my marriage, but don't want to lose her. What do I do?
Q. Hi, I am married with a beautiful wife and 2 kids. Recently my wife has become much more demanding sexually, with us often making love 3 or 4 times a day. Although, you can imagine I am delighted with this, there is a fly in the ointment. Sh...
A. 30 April 2007: It wasn't said with a caveat, but now you come to mention it, perhaps I will ask her why she loves me. Deep stuff though! Can you really tell me that you all know why your partners love you?
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I want to save my marriage, but don't want to lose her. What do I do?
Q. Hi, I am married with a beautiful wife and 2 kids. Recently my wife has become much more demanding sexually, with us often making love 3 or 4 times a day. Although, you can imagine I am delighted with this, there is a fly in the ointment. Sh...
A. 29 April 2007: Spoke to wife today, and asked her the question. Does she love me or not? She says that she loves me. Although she also says that she loves the material things too!! I still think that we can grow together, we just need to focus on our relations... (read in full...)
I want to save my marriage, but don't want to lose her. What do I do?
Q. Hi, I am married with a beautiful wife and 2 kids. Recently my wife has become much more demanding sexually, with us often making love 3 or 4 times a day. Although, you can imagine I am delighted with this, there is a fly in the ointment. Sh...
A. 29 April 2007: Unfortunatley, I think your right. This is what I really believe, she tells me not, but all her actions betray otherwise. Suffering with tablets, she does not seemed even concerned. Even more depressed after this post. ... (read in full...)
Is the size of my penis okay to satisfy a girl?
Q. my penis size is about 4.5 inches and i masterbate a lot, i'm afraid of sex. Is this size ok to satisfy a girl?...
A. 29 April 2007: My wife tells me that its not my size she likes but the girth, so celebrate what you have got, and remember, most of the nerve endings in the vagina are actually within the first 2 inches of the vagina, e.g. the G spot etc. So concentrate on having ... (read in full...)
I want to save my marriage, but don't want to lose her. What do I do?
Q. Hi, I am married with a beautiful wife and 2 kids. Recently my wife has become much more demanding sexually, with us often making love 3 or 4 times a day. Although, you can imagine I am delighted with this, there is a fly in the ointment. Sh...
A. 29 April 2007: Deep down I suspect that what you put I believe in. However, she tells me that she loves me. Why should I doubt that. Nontheless, I think it puts 'trust' on the back burner. I find myself wanting to look on her phone, get her e-mail password etc, ... (read in full...)
I want to save my marriage, but don't want to lose her. What do I do?
Q. Hi, I am married with a beautiful wife and 2 kids. Recently my wife has become much more demanding sexually, with us often making love 3 or 4 times a day. Although, you can imagine I am delighted with this, there is a fly in the ointment. Sh...
A. 27 April 2007: She taken me to doctor today to get some anti-depressants. What do you think? She clear that my mind is not straight and I need prescribed drugs to help me. I am not sure whether its drugs I need, but have gone along with it. Have to excuse typing, ... (read in full...)
I can't understand why my husband wants us to 'swing'! This is destroying me! Help, any advice?
Q. i cant get my head around why my husband would want us to swing,is it because he dont fancy me anymore or because he`s bored with me,pls help me as this is destroying me an im feeling a waster and a failer...
A. 27 April 2007: My wife certainly shares this fantasy, but with friends. It is not that unusual particularly if the lady has a very strong sex drive like mine. Men of course often have huge sex drives, they want to experiment. It does not mean that they do not love ... (read in full...)
I want to save my marriage, but don't want to lose her. What do I do?
Q. Hi, I am married with a beautiful wife and 2 kids. Recently my wife has become much more demanding sexually, with us often making love 3 or 4 times a day. Although, you can imagine I am delighted with this, there is a fly in the ointment. Sh...
A. 27 April 2007: Still feeling very unsure, think I've become depressed by the whole thing, and it's clouding my judgement. The last post was very interesting. Talked to her last night, and she said exactly that. She feels it is safer with people she knows. She does ... (read in full...)
I want to save my marriage, but don't want to lose her. What do I do?
Q. Hi, I am married with a beautiful wife and 2 kids. Recently my wife has become much more demanding sexually, with us often making love 3 or 4 times a day. Although, you can imagine I am delighted with this, there is a fly in the ointment. Sh...
A. 26 April 2007: She adamant she wants sex with friends not strangers. It would be far easier to take if it was just acquaitances. She says I'm depressed and need to get my head straight. ... (read in full...)
I want to save my marriage, but don't want to lose her. What do I do?
Q. Hi, I am married with a beautiful wife and 2 kids. Recently my wife has become much more demanding sexually, with us often making love 3 or 4 times a day. Although, you can imagine I am delighted with this, there is a fly in the ointment. Sh...
A. 26 April 2007: We flirt endlessly by text, and she says she is happy. Nonetheless, I agree that she needs lots of love and attention. I will give her lots of love and see where it goes. ... (read in full...)
I want to save my marriage, but don't want to lose her. What do I do?
Q. Hi, I am married with a beautiful wife and 2 kids. Recently my wife has become much more demanding sexually, with us often making love 3 or 4 times a day. Although, you can imagine I am delighted with this, there is a fly in the ointment. Sh...
A. 26 April 2007: Although I really want to believe that she will only have sex and not get involved, I suppose I find it diffiuclt to believe. I feel insecure, I am sure that is not that hard to understand. Women, tend to sleep with people they love and care for, ... (read in full...)
I want to save my marriage, but don't want to lose her. What do I do?
Q. Hi, I am married with a beautiful wife and 2 kids. Recently my wife has become much more demanding sexually, with us often making love 3 or 4 times a day. Although, you can imagine I am delighted with this, there is a fly in the ointment. Sh...
A. 26 April 2007: She also tells me that its her hormones! Well there is no doubting the strength of these, but as to whether she needs to sleep with friends is another matter. Are hormones really that strong?
May be I am losing here. May be a divorce is the only... (read in full...)
I want to save my marriage, but don't want to lose her. What do I do?
Q. Hi, I am married with a beautiful wife and 2 kids. Recently my wife has become much more demanding sexually, with us often making love 3 or 4 times a day. Although, you can imagine I am delighted with this, there is a fly in the ointment. Sh...
A. 26 April 2007: Thanks for the reply. Talked to her last night, she says that she does not need counselling, but I do. She sees my job as the root cause of the problem. She also tells me that she wants to remain in our relationship, and would be prepared to drop ... (read in full...)
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