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Why do women often think too much into how to act with their guy?

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21 January 2011: Why don't girls realize how easy it is to be a "catch?" I see so many posts that involve girls who will resist some sexual acts, or just being sexually aggressive, because they don't want their partners to think they are a slut. That's just not ...

Should I pursue a relationship with a bisexual girl?

Q.   I am in a bit of a dilemma, and was wondering if you guys could help me. There's this girl who I think is so pretty, and she has all the qualities I am looking for in a girl. However, she likes both guys AND girls. I don't know whether or not I ...

A.   25 May 2011: Sure go out with her! Why does being bi mean in any way a negative? That just means maybe at some point down the road she might be open to some fun ideas or not doesn't matter. I dont really think her sexual preference shud be a huge deciding fact... (read in full...)

Gf is angry because I didn't insist that we lv event so she could study, what now??

Q.   Short version: My gf is mad at me because I didn’t ask her if she wanted to go home early so that she can study for her exam even though it was an event that she wanted and chose to go to. Long version: 1. Background: Gf had to study for ...

A.   1 February 2011: She is playing games. This is why you see jokes on sitcoms and stuff about "women being impossible to understand." Those jokes refer to her. Not sure what you should do, I don't think you are in the wrong at all. I wouldn't just apologize a... (read in full...)

Why does he look at porn when he still thinks I am beautiful and we have great sex?

Q.   We all know about the ups and downs in a marriage.But my husband and me managed to really deeply fall in love again for the last two years. Married for 17 years and two kids. We have lots of wonderfull fullfilling sex.I love and appreciate him. So I ...

A.   25 January 2011: You are taking this way too seriously. 3 to 4 times a month is not by any means something to be concerned about, he's not exactly an addict. Give him a break, it has nothing to do with you it's just something most guys do. Just enjoy the great wa... (read in full...)

Is this wrong?

Q.   Hi, I just a question. You know that saying that a guy is never suppose to hit a girl? Well I have a friend who's dad hits her, my friend is 15 and she is to scared to tell any one. Her mom is always there when it happens and never says a...

A.   25 January 2011: yes, its wrong, of course it is! An abusive parent is not a good thing! I dont know how you would handle the situation or even if you should get involved at all, but I do know your mom is straight up wrong about that. Doesn't matter who, if s... (read in full...)

Why do women often think too much into how to act with their guy?

Q.   Why don't girls realize how easy it is to be a "catch?" I see so many posts that involve girls who will resist some sexual acts, or just being sexually aggressive, because they don't want their partners to think they are a slut. That's just not ...

A.   22 January 2011: I'm not sure what you could say, is she clingy just in general or is she trying to scramble to "save the relationship?" If it's the second, I dought the two will go on too much longer. But if it's just the way she is handling being in a relat... (read in full...)

What should I do with my girlfriend, stay or leave?

Q.   me and my girlfriend have a for the most part a good relationship, me and her know what each other is feeling, she a Gemini, so i heard about the split personality, like 2 people, but back to what i was saying, she talkes to her ex's saying they are ...

A.   13 January 2011: For 1 thing, I wouldn't neccassarily take zodiak stuff as absolute fact. May be true, who am I to say, but I wouldn't base any important decisions on it. Second, I would try to condense your problems into smaller articles in the future or atleast ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend has an irrational fear of pregnancy, even though we never had sex!

Q.   My girlfriend has an irrational fear of pregnancy I'm afraid. It's not a matter of sex even though, she gets super freaked out about touching my penis in case it somehow got her pregnant. She is even acts worried in the hot tub about over exciting ...

A.   13 January 2011: cat lady, I know you answered this question with the intention to help and I apreciate the long message, but with all due respect I'm not a moron :P I know perfectly well that simply popping more pills wont increase the effect of most drugs, i... (read in full...)

My girlfriend has an irrational fear of pregnancy, even though we never had sex!

Q.   My girlfriend has an irrational fear of pregnancy I'm afraid. It's not a matter of sex even though, she gets super freaked out about touching my penis in case it somehow got her pregnant. She is even acts worried in the hot tub about over exciting ...

A.   12 January 2011: She is on a certain amount of BC to control her period, but she says it's not enough to prevent pregnancy. I'm not sure why she doesn't want to increase her dosage or whatever it is you do... (read in full...)

He's trying to change me on so many levels. When will these changes be 'enough' for him?

Q.   Hi, i really need some advice!! Iv been with my boyfriend for almost a year. Im 22, he's nearly 30 and he's a christian. Iv never felt like this about anyone before and i really really love him. When we first met everything was great! He was just as ...

A.   12 January 2011: Religion can be a very delicate topic. Way too often people get so caught up in their religious that they aalianate themselves, and it is a very unfortunate thing. It is by no means wrong to be christian, but the way he chriticizes your lifestyle ... (read in full...)

Can't get a boyfriend, what am I doing wrong?

Q.   Why can't I get a boyfriend? I am half- japanese, and all of my friends say that I'm really pretty, and guys have called me beautiful, georgeous, hot, ect. And they tell me I could get any guy. I can't even go down the street with my friend ...

A.   12 January 2011: If the problem really is that guys find you "unaproachable" then it's pretty obvious what to do. If you like someone, be forward! YOU can always ask HIM out, and if your as atractive as he sayI'm sure he'll be interested in getting to know you.... (read in full...)

Do I stay the course?

Q.   I am 17 and have been with my girlfriend for about 14 months. She's my first girlfriend and even though I know it probably won't last on acount of that, I love her. But I feel down about our intamacy. As of now she's willing to rub me a bit dow...

A.   11 January 2011: Thanks guys. I guess I knew that I should just wait and see how things develope, but it's really nice to be able to hear it from others. :) 6 replies overnight haha this site is great. Thanks again... (read in full...)

Do I stay the course?

Q.   I am 17 and have been with my girlfriend for about 14 months. She's my first girlfriend and even though I know it probably won't last on acount of that, I love her. But I feel down about our intamacy. As of now she's willing to rub me a bit dow...

A.   11 January 2011: For the record i really dont want to break up with her because shes an amazing person. Im just dissapointed with how she is sexually. I also am saddened by the thought of never exploring some of my sexual desires- like ever. So im really not sure ... (read in full...)

Do I stay the course?

Q.   I am 17 and have been with my girlfriend for about 14 months. She's my first girlfriend and even though I know it probably won't last on acount of that, I love her. But I feel down about our intamacy. As of now she's willing to rub me a bit dow...

A.   11 January 2011: For the record i really dont want to break up with her because shes an amazing person. Im just dissapointed with how she is sexually. I also am saddened by the thought of never exploring some of my sexual desires- like ever. So im really not sure... (read in full...)

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