Will money eventually come between us?
Q. My girlfriend and I were friends for awhile before we started dating. We've been together for 6 months now and things couldn't be better. She was born into a wealthy family and has inherited a lot of money. I'm an average office worker and make a ...
A. 5 June 2012: Hi the problem here is actually with you and not your girlfriend. You seem to be selling yourself short. You must have a lot going for you or she wouldn't have chosen to be with you and I bet she would paint a very different picture of your ... (read in full...)
I have this "shell" around me, I don't let people in that easily!
Q. In the past few months, i met a guy and started talking to him. We clicked right away, we had similar personalities, we understood each other pretty well. I have this "shell" around me, i don't let people in that easily and i'm so afraid of reject...
A. 27 May 2012: I think the first thing to understand is just because you click with someone or find some common ground it doesn't necessarily mean you should become romantically involved. It's really difficult when you have not had any experience of relationships, ... (read in full...)
Does it ever happen that the guy falls for the girl who's been standing beside him all along?
Q. Hi, just wondering what are the possible outcomes for my situation here. This guy Josh is one of my closest ever friends..we tell each other absolutely everything, have helped each other through our hardest times (parents divorce, death). We had a ...
A. 26 May 2012: I think sometimes it can be the case that what you are searching for is actually there beside you all along. You have a strong connection with this guy and it's great that you are always there for each other as there are very few people that you can ... (read in full...)
Does he love me or is he leading me on?
Q. I love this guy. I have a feeling that he likes me too. He messages and calls me every day. But he had a bad relationship previously and now he says he doesn't want to fall in love and get hurt again. but he also says he cares about me and calls me ...
A. 29 April 2012: Hi, this guy obviously feels comfortable talking to you and sees you as a good friend. When you have a connection with someone and it's quite intense it's easy to get confused about your feelings. This guy obviously needs you right now but just be ... (read in full...)
Together a year and worried our relationship is not going anywhere, what should I do?
Q. I don't know what to do with my relationship with my boyfriend. I asked him if he sees us living together and having a family,and he says he wants kids one day. Lately I just feel he just wants things to stay the way they are. We have not done ...
A. 29 April 2012: Hi,it sounds to me like this relationship may have run its course. You have been together a year which is long enough to be moving things along if it's what you both want. I was in a similar situation with my ex boyfd. We lived seperate lives and ... (read in full...)
My life is a mess and I feel trapped! HELP!
Q. I'm 17, and I just can't DO this anymore. I don't know. I'm so bored, alone. Trapped in my city and I hate it so much. The only thing keeping me going is the promise of going to Univerisy next year, but that's stressing me out and I don't know. I'm ...
A. 8 October 2010: Hi i had to reply to this question as I went through a very similar thing when I was your age. It is like been thrown into a black hole. Firstly it is normal to experience this kind of stress at this time of your life. For 17 years everything is ... (read in full...)
I want to stop my daughter from making a big mistake!
Q. My 20 yr old daughter is making the biggest mistake of her life, I know that everyone says kids need to learn by their mistakes and I totally agree but not when it can ruin their future. 5 months ago she came home and told us that she was dating a...
A. 8 October 2010: Tell your dauhter that you appreciate she is an adult and can and will make her own decisions but to think very carefully about what she actually needs from this man if she is wanting a future with him. Can she really put her faith and trust in a ... (read in full...)
Wow! Is there such a thing as love at first sight?
Q. I've been with my bf for a year. I met his friend for the first time 3 months ago. Where we both fell straight in love with each other. Love at first sight. No joke. We've seen each other only twice since, both occasions lots of mutual friends were ...
A. 5 October 2010: I think it is possible to feel a strong attraction to someone immediately and this can develop into an infatuation. Most of the time this has a bigger impact then love as there is no rationalising it. Added to which there is the thrill of knowing ... (read in full...)
Do I pursue something with him again or move on? I
Q. I've been dating this guy for about 2 years, we have had our ups and downs just like any other couple, I thought we were doing really, really well..he even took me out to California to meet his dad in August! But three weeks ago, he broke up with ...
A. 4 October 2010: Hi,this guy sounds like he wants to have his cake and eat it! He wants everything he had from you before but just without the committment. If this was what you both wanted then fine but it isn't. Everything is now on his terms and that's not a ... (read in full...)
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