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Childish by nature
Q. I met this guy off of a dating website (strike 1 on me) in February of this year. We went on a date, hit it off, talked for a couple of days and then I didnt hear from him again for about a week. He informed me that his exgirlfriend of 9 months had ...
A. 16 December 2009: Update. The friend that was staying at his house has went home today. He was an out of town friend who came to stay for the week. NOW, he texts me and wants to come over and spend the night.. blah blah blah.. Almost everything about me says walk ... (read in full...)
My husband doesn't show me any attention... he prefers porn!
Q. Well I've been married for 1 year and a couple months ago my husband has started watching porn on his i phone and he was so caught up with it that he wouldn't even go to bed up until 4 am in the morning. He wouldn't even pay attention to me even ...
A. 14 December 2009: As much as we women need and want attention from our partner, you know in your heart that it is NOT okay to cheat. If you are not happy with your husband then leave him. Dont cheat. If you have talked to him in reference to his constant ... (read in full...)
Yikes!!! Am I pregnant? Please help.
Q. Hi, I'm 16 but I'm really worried. I had sex with my ex boyfriend and we used a condom but I've missed my period, I'm 28 days late and I'm really scared because I've had this funny feeling in my stomach and sometimes I feel like I'm about to come ...
A. 20 September 2009: Naturally when you're younger your periods are almost "etched in stone" as to when they're going to start. By the sounds of it, you could possibly be pregnant. Early on in your pregnancy, you're not going to really feel anything in your abdominal ... (read in full...)
I keep losing my erection with my new girlfriend. I desperately want to get this sorted, please help!
Q. Hi, im 19 years old, ive recently been having an erection problem half way through sex i keep loosing my erection. Im recently with a new girlfriend i was with my last girlfriend for over a year and our sex life was amazing it was good every singl...
A. 13 September 2009: For one, are you thinking about your exgirlfriend while your having sex? You need to make sure that you have a clear mind while having sex... Another, if you're thinking about having a problem beforehand, you're going to have a problem... St... (read in full...)
Life is nothing but disappointments
Q. I am a 28 year old female. I have 2 children and 1 on the way. I have lived such a chaotic life. When i was 4 i was molested by an uncle until the age of about 11. He died about 4 years ago, without confessing a thing. He also let my family ...
A. 11 September 2009: I seriously typed difine instead of define... wow.. haha, sorry about that..... (read in full...)
Should I tell her about the dream as well? or should I just forget about it?
Q. I've been a lesbian for 3 years, and when I seen this girl in my class I fell in love with her and we spoke and we've been good friends ever since. So a couple of nights ago I had a dream that me and her got married. I was just wondering if I should ...
A. 10 September 2009: The first obvious questions is... Is she a lesbian as well or is she straight? Exactly how long have you been hanging out and do you think there could be any possible way she would feel the same about you? When you have answered these questions,... (read in full...)
Life is nothing but disappointments
Q. I am a 28 year old female. I have 2 children and 1 on the way. I have lived such a chaotic life. When i was 4 i was molested by an uncle until the age of about 11. He died about 4 years ago, without confessing a thing. He also let my family ...
A. 9 September 2009: I am very sorry to hear of all the things that have and are happening to you in your life. Honestly, no one can tell you what it is you need to do that you dont already know. We as friends, associates, acquaintances, counselors and or therapist... (read in full...)
Is this guy just using me?
Q. well i met this guy on the internet and we talked for while. but the problem is, hes 20 and im 15. he thinks im 16. i invited him over and my mom thinks he goes to my school and is 17. we kissed and stuff and i let him finger me, and then he wont ...
A. 8 September 2009: The simple fact of knowing that a 20 year old man would mess with a 16 year old female disturbs the hell out of me. And you telling him that you're 16 when in fact are 15 makes it NO better. For one, can he not find a woman of age? Who initiated ... (read in full...)
I need advice about proceeding with my marriage plans.
Q. Dear Cupid: I have a dilemma. I recently got engaged to someone who I have been involved with for two years. To be honest, the person was involved in another relationship for a number of years when we got together but last year, things were ove...
A. 8 September 2009: And I must say, you are absoutely right that you both initially started off in the wrong manner. The fact that you actually think that this man would do everything that he has done to his prior "partner" and would not be willing to do this to you ... (read in full...)
Why does my ex take so long to return my things? He makes excuses.
Q. To males especially: What does it mean when an ex boyfriend took so long for him to return your things with so many excuses. When he finally returns it, he calls you after you get your stuff back and tells you, "its not finished yet, ok? Call me ...
A. 8 September 2009: Definitely sounds like someone who has a bit of a control issue. For the most part, he doesnt want to have anything to do with you, but at the same time, he doesnt want to fully let you go as that would mean... "officially saying goodbye". Another ... (read in full...)
My parents are divorced, my dad has multiple problems, how can I help him?
Q. Hey, can you help me? My parents are divorced, and since then ive gotten less close to my dad. Its been about 5 years. He totally changed and hes never happy, and often, like today he does spiteful things. Anyway im older now, and instead of think...
A. 7 September 2009: There is no easy way to approach someone who is chemically dependent upon something. One of the easiest approaches would be to gather up some family members and do an intervention. Im sure most have seen the show "Intervention" and it can offer some ... (read in full...)
My ex husband is hassling me and it's affecting our daughter and my new boyfriend! How can I get him to stop?
Q. My X husband drives our new family crazy. He is complete Drama and I’m afraid it is affecting our 6 year old daughter he and I have together. He is a bully, a really nasty person. Name calling, yelling at the front door then denies it or acts as ...
A. 6 September 2009: I sat here and asked myself a few questions while I was reading your post. How long were you and your ex apart before you met your new love? Its not that it truly matters unless you had left him for no reason. By the sound of it, you had a very good ... (read in full...)
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