Is it normal for a 27 year old guy to get upset when he doesn't get sex?
Q. Dear cupid... Me and my boyfriend has got a few problems that we can't seem to overcome. This makes us both very frustrated. He obviously think that we not having enough sex. I don't always have that urge to have sex for some reason I don't e...
A. 26 May 2010: This is exactly whats happening to me 19 and my boyfriend 28. he doesnt seem to get as upset as yours but he mentioned that we hadn't has sex for two weeks at one point, but it was more like we hadnt had sex in 5 days, cause im away at university ... (read in full...)
Girls, how would you react if your partner had a 3 inch penis?
Q. I'm wondering for myself since mine is about 3.5 inches in length and 4 inches around - when it's erect. Both sizes of which are well under average. I'm not sexually active but I'm worried that when I get to that point, I won't be able to satisfy ...
A. 25 October 2009: Might help if you start out with less experienced girls... less critical maybe. I wouldn't worry too much because 1. nothing you can do about it and 2. you don't want to get anxious as this can cause you to lose an erection. just being realistic. ... (read in full...)
Is an hour for sex too long?
Q. Sex with my fiance' usually lasts 45 min to an hour. She complains that it takes me too long, but i have "trained myself" to last like this, and now its difficult to have an orgasm in a hurry (less than 15 min). She complains about it, but I though...
A. 25 October 2009: I personally prefer lots of quickies and then the occasional marathon. Women can get sore when 'at it' for a longer time and it's just not pleasurable at all when it starts to get painful. Quick, fast and passionate is always good. When going for a ... (read in full...)
I want group sex with 5 men
Q. I know this might sound crazy, but I have a long-running fantasy to have group sex with 5 men - I guess what you would call a gang bang. I would like it to be 5 men I don't know too well but who have been "pre-screened", maybe by a swingers group ...
A. 25 October 2009: If you're single and you don't have any sexual issues from the past then why not. But it might be wise to build it up to 5... maybe starting with two one night, then three another etc. This way you might find some men that you'd trust to join the ... (read in full...)
I want to be a girl...and I crossdress...can anyone help?
Q. please help me i am intrested in crossdressing i have all female like desires growing boobs and wearing bras now i am 18 my parents not know of this i want to be like a female anyone please help me please ...
A. 25 October 2009: 'Gender dysphoria' is a condition where a person feels that they are trapped within a body of the wrong sex, maybe do some research online.
There is an organisation called 'Mermaids' for children and teenagers under 19 years of age, who have gend... (read in full...)
Is it shallow for me to pursue women with small breasts?
Q. I have a strong physical attraction to women with small breasts. Is it a shallow thing to actively pursue women with this physical feature or given that it is both not a common thing for a guy to be attracted to and that it is a source of self ...
A. 25 October 2009: I have small boobs, and it's probably the only thing i WOULDNT change about myself, glad some men agree! Small boobs stay where they're supposed to be too... always a good thing, don't get droopy like huge ones! x... (read in full...)
Should I end my marriage or stay in it for my son ??
Q. 37 years old, successful doctor, married for 8 years and have only one child .. he is 6. I am in love with another woman for sometime now .... she doesn't want the role of being mistress ... she want a full relationship and to divorce my wife if I ...
A. 25 October 2009: Your son will probably come to sense that you and your wife are not exactly happy, kids can feel tension. My parents broke up when i was 13 which i think is a hard age for kids anyway what with all the teenage tantrums and hormones, anyway it made ... (read in full...)
How to erase the ex from my mind?
Q. hii so my ex boyfriend is a total jack ass. like he is extremly sick and mean. he used to like verbilly abuse me and he liked seeing me get hurtt. he would call me fat ugly and useless alll of the time. he even made me drop myy best friend for ...
A. 25 October 2009: Throw out everything that remotely reminds you of him, delete all the songs, keep your distance from mutual friends, try not to check out his facebk or other sites. Thats all i've got really. I made loads of progress getting over one of my exes by ... (read in full...)
Does he still have something for me or is it because he saw I'm a model?
Q. I used to like this guy a year ago. I could tell he liked me too cuz his body language said a lot. Then I went to a party and hooked up with some guy he never talked to me I guess he was heartbroken.. Then online for months I would write him ...
A. 25 October 2009: If he really liked you enough back then, then he would have made it clear. Seems like he really likes your photos, but thats all they are and he'll soon realise that if you get together. Don't mean to sound nasty, meet someone who likes you but ... (read in full...)
Can a girl get pregnant from dry humping?
Q. Okay so me and my boyfriend went to the movies on Sunday. And we got caught in the moment so we started dry humping we both had our clothes on though. I ***never*** took my clothes off and neither did he. But when i got home i checked my pants and ...
A. 25 October 2009: I think you ought to do a lot of research before you bother doing anything else sexual, save scaring yourself to death! x... (read in full...)
No lectures please, I'm staying with him no matter what, I just need to know what to do with my bf who's smoking weed...
Q. I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 15. Okay so here's the stich My boyfriend has lately started on weed again and it has changed him big time, its got to a point were he doesnt care what i say or what i do anymore... Hes yelling at me like everyday now,...
A. 19 March 2008: Im in the same mess, only mines on pills *grrr stupid!* to be honest, this isnt what you wanna hear but, it's up to them to decide they want to stop, you cant say anything to make them. part of me hopes mine has a scare to put things into ... (read in full...)
What makes a guy a virgin?
Q. In the thread, "What makes you are Virgin?" at http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-makes-you-are-virgin.html , a girl asked how "virgin" was defined for women. How about a FOLLOW-UP QUESTION: Girls, how do you define a virgin guy? Does h...
A. 19 March 2008: I'd say just get inside, no matter if they 'came' or not. penis + vagina = sex! x... (read in full...)
Is a "blow job" considered sex? Do girls do this for fun?
Q. I am curious as to why so many teenage girls, and maybe even some older girls and women, don't think a blowjob is sex. Do any of you girls or women here think a blowjob isn't sex? If so, why do you think that? And if a blowjob isn't sex, would...
A. 19 March 2008: I don't consider it sex at all but i would only ever do it for guys im with. I've been with 2 guys and in both cases sex has come before blowjobs... just cause it seems way more intimate to me than actuall sex :S dont know why but i need more trust ... (read in full...)
How can I get over my worries about blow jobs?
Q. I really kinda need help with this now. When I was kinda young, I had a few problems with a relative, which involved him doing a few.... not so nice things to me at the time. In the start of my teens, I privately went and saw a counsellor, but she ...
A. 19 March 2008: Try keeping eye contact with your partner so you're constantly reminded hes someone who cares for you? Failing that i'd try relaxation techniques or seek professional help. x... (read in full...)
I think my daughters' masturbating is going to far.
Q. I am a older guy. My wife died at a really young age. I have 2 daughters. One is 12 and the other is 14 One year ago I caught them masturbating in the bathroom. I told them it was ok and that they have the right to do that to themselves but d...
A. 19 March 2008: Together isn't really right... Maybe you could speak to a female nurse or doctor or someone professional and they could have a word with your daughters? x... (read in full...)
Is it possible for us to give each other a STD while having unprotected sex even though we both have gotten tested and they came back clean??
Q. Me and my girlfriend just got tested for HIV and any STD's and we both came out clean. We got tested because she is very very paranoid about getting a STD. My question is: is it possible for us to give each other a STD while having unprotect...
A. 19 March 2008: No you can't, but if you have any doubts about your partner cheating then wrap up! And use some other kind of protection in the meantime to prevent any sprogs :P, the pill? x... (read in full...)
Vampirism!
Q. My fiance and I are into a little bit of the old vampirism. Biting and that's about it. Last night however, we did something for the first time and I'm unsure of how to feel about it. He offered me his arm and told me to bite and draw blood. T...
A. 19 March 2008: Mine asked me to bite him too! At first i was like woaaah cause i hate the thought of hurting anybody, but its only fair to give it a go.I guess like anything if you do it too often it will get boring so i'd carry on with little bites and more tamer ... (read in full...)
What do lads think about girls/girlfriend watching porn, a lot???
Q. What do lads think about girls/girlfriend watching porn, a lot!? I just want to know if ye have a problem with girls watching porn. Is it a turn off? I would really appreciate your comments!!!...
A. 19 March 2008: Well i personally watch porn when i feel the need and when i mention it to my boyfriend he can seem a bit put out, maybe a little bit hurt that he might not be enough for me but deep down i think guys prefer girls who know what they like and girls ... (read in full...)
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