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He hurts me so bad but I keep taking him back! How can I just break away from him for good??

Q.   Hey Agony Aunts and Uncles. I just recently took my lying, cheating, disrespectful, sneaky bf back. I love him so much that no matter what he do or has done to me, i always forgive him and take him back...regardless of the situation. He has done ...

A.   19 June 2011: I will be frank with you and I am not going to sugar coat this dialogue whatsoever. Many of us, throughout our lives, will experience a relationship that we are used, abused, cheated and flat out taken advantage of. Some can rebuild these ... (read in full...)

5 months of dating and he won't introduce me to his family!

Q.   I have been dating my boyfriend for 5 months but he doesnt want to introduce to me his family.i have already introduce him to some of my family members.and i found out that he has a child from previous relationship bt he denies that.and the mother ...

A.   22 May 2011: I think that you should examine his relationship with his family. He may have come from a family that he is not proud of or is embarrassed of.... (read in full...)

Is it normal to have this high a sex drive or does it mean that I'm a sex addict ?

Q.   Recently my sex drive has been considerably higher than my bf's. We have sex quite often at least three week sometimes everyday but while my bf finds this plenty I still don't find it enough. He will often have sex more often than he would like to ...

A.   22 May 2011: Your sex drive is not always a result of your gender (testosterone/estrogen)but rather it is often times a result of your lifestyle. That is, for instance, he may not have as much of a drive as you because he has a higher than usual level of stress ... (read in full...)

Is 8 months too soon to know you want to settle down with someone?

Q.   Hey, I'd love your advice on my situation and on whether 8 months is too soon to feel like you want to settle down with someone, please. I've been with my bf 8 months now. We met through friends, both of us happily single and not looking for rela...

A.   22 May 2011: I can relate to your situation. Basically the same exact story. I just got out of a long term relationship and I was not interested in the least bit in pursuing any relationship- I wasn't even interested in flirting with any woman. My now gf had a ... (read in full...)

She told me that her ex's looked better than mine??

Q.   Quick question for the guys. And unfortunately this has happened to me so thats why im asking. What would you do if you recently started dating a girl that you really liked and she really liked you back and during a conversation she told you that ...

A.   26 April 2011: Buddy, the way I see it is this way and anyone can tell me I am wrong if they choose to; Like you said, you like her, she likes you. Regardless of how you look or feel or whatever, it should not matter. If it does end up being a deal breaker,... (read in full...)

Does this look like love?

Q.   My boyfriend means the world to me. i trust him with everything i tell him and he is the only one i can talk to about pretty much anything. we are always telling each other that we love one another, and he is always telling me i look beautiful, ...

A.   2 April 2011: It is love. My advice is to run with it. Fall in love over and over again. Don't give in to any doubts like my ex girlfriend has recently. If you love someone you will not fall out of love overnight... love is everlasting. “There is nothing more ... (read in full...)

What should I write in a text message to get my ex back?

Q.   It has been over six months since my girlfriend left and now I am missing her a lot. It was her decision saying that she needed space and I had to accept that. Can someone tell me that how to win back my girlfriend who lives in different city? What ...

A.   1 April 2011: Hey, Budddy! I am going through the same thing right now. I am still in the stage though that I want to give her her space and time to evaluate her feelings and ultimatly do some "soul searching". SO I totally understand where you are coming f... (read in full...)

Waiting for Your Love as They Explore: Foolish?

Q.   Recently separated from my girlfriend of four and a half years. We are both you, college aged individuals. The breakup was on her terms and she claims that it was because of our lack of common interests. I strongly believe that the real main reason ...

A.   29 March 2011: She is not like that. Thanks, though. I will look for another answer.... (read in full...)

How do I get a woman in the mood for sex?

Q.   I want to have sex with a girl how should I get her in the mood? ...

A.   29 March 2011: That is an epic question! First off, I think it is important that you have a connection, a mutual connection with this woman. Don't just have sex with her because you have the physical attraction to her. You need to know that she confides in you, ... (read in full...)

I'm shy, but people think I'm rude. How can I improve my social skills?

Q.   Well first off i'll tell you a bit about myself. I am very shy and chances are i wont talk to you when i first meet you unless forced and even then i only give one word answers. I'm very straight forward about things i do not sugar coat anyth...

A.   28 March 2011: I think it is very important that you have recognized this issue. First thing fist, though. Please realize that there is nothing wrong with you. Don't let this bring you down or make you feel insignificant. I see that you are in an age group tha... (read in full...)

4 and half years and now we are no longer a couple! Where did the love go?

Q.   After four and a half years the love of my life told me that she no longer loves me. She said that she no longer wants to see me or hear from me again. The hardest part to accept of all this is the fact that just days before we were great. Actually ...

A.   27 March 2011: So I was on Face Book today out of my surprise my ex messages me. Here is the conversation: Her: hope you are doing well, heard some people saw alot of you this weekend! take care of yourself, hope all is well! Me: Thanks...Y... (read in full...)

I've not had sex, but I think I have an STI! Help!

Q.   I am only 13 years old, I have never had sex or done anything sexual apart from masturbating but I have an sti! I don't know what to do and I'm to embarrassed to tell my parents what should I do?...

A.   26 March 2011: Hey, Bud. Listen, it is important to get to a doctor. Although you mey feel very embarrased to tell your parents and such, the fact of life is that we have all been through something similiar. Picture this, 15 years down the road when you meet a ... (read in full...)

4 and half years and now we are no longer a couple! Where did the love go?

Q.   After four and a half years the love of my life told me that she no longer loves me. She said that she no longer wants to see me or hear from me again. The hardest part to accept of all this is the fact that just days before we were great. Actually ...

A.   26 March 2011: I stand in agreement with you on that one. I should and will take this time to work on me. After I have overcome the initial shock of the situation I have been thinking more clearly I feel. Looking back now I do realize that there have been things ... (read in full...)

4 and half years and now we are no longer a couple! Where did the love go?

Q.   After four and a half years the love of my life told me that she no longer loves me. She said that she no longer wants to see me or hear from me again. The hardest part to accept of all this is the fact that just days before we were great. Actually ...

A.   25 March 2011: I know that this is immature and very youth like but here it is. On my exs facebook she updated her status with, "People and People and sometimes we change our minds. It's never easy, never simple." (Breathe-Taylor Swift) I know that I shouldnt ... (read in full...)

He's too busy for a relationship but wants to have sex with me

Q.   I have this friend at uni and we have kniow each other for a while 2 years. We like each other and there is a lot of sexaul tension between us. I want to be with him and be his girlfiend but his actions confuse me. He says he is too busy for a re...

A.   25 March 2011: Does he buy you lunch? Open doors for you? Do you guys cuddle? Do you two talk inappropriate to one another in a titillating sense? Now, do you want to have sex with him? he does want to with you... that is clear. You have to decide. Are you a... (read in full...)

People tell me that my ex talks about me lots

Q.   Here's a weird one...Today I get a phone call from my best friend telling me he saw my ex girlfriend in town and she kept asking how I am and when I'll never be in town....then another mate tells me last night his gf and my ex gf were talking ...

A.   25 March 2011: Dylan, Bro. I think it is clear. She has been thinking of you ever since you two split. Depending on her involement with this other guy I would say that she fancies the idea of re-connecting with you. How would you feel about that? Are you stil... (read in full...)

4 and half years and now we are no longer a couple! Where did the love go?

Q.   After four and a half years the love of my life told me that she no longer loves me. She said that she no longer wants to see me or hear from me again. The hardest part to accept of all this is the fact that just days before we were great. Actually ...

A.   24 March 2011: Eric.Troy- I hear ya, man. haha to be honest though I don't even know where to begin with that. I do know that the person she fell in love with and was attracted to over four years ago was in some sense a very confident guy and I had the strongest ... (read in full...)

4 and half years and now we are no longer a couple! Where did the love go?

Q.   After four and a half years the love of my life told me that she no longer loves me. She said that she no longer wants to see me or hear from me again. The hardest part to accept of all this is the fact that just days before we were great. Actually ...

A.   24 March 2011: Everyone, first off, thank you for your replies. I like to think that I have often been able to think through things n my own but we all know what emotions can do to your thought process. One minute you are sad, depressed and insecure and the next ... (read in full...)

I will always love my ex. But should I try to move on now?

Q.   I met the most amazing guy three years ago and fell hard for him. He was my soulmate if there is such a thing. I felt like I knew him all my life and he was everything I ever wanted. We broke up because of his drug problem two years ago. We sti...

A.   24 March 2011: from what I see is that you are sold out to this guy. You have put so much into him. I can tell that you have passion in your heart and that you would really like to go back to the first time you met him. But- What I also see is a man who is stru... (read in full...)

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