Can a guy hook up with a girl multile times and have no feelings for her?
Q. Can a guy really hook up with a girl multipile times and have no feelings for her what so ever? like is this really true? Ive heard guys can not even care what she looks like and they have no feelings for them?...
A. 16 April 2009: Yeah its true. There are a lot of guys who have sex just to have sex. To a lot of guys sex does not equal love. Men and women have have very different ways of thinking.
This may be just a generalization, but a lot of guys really don't care abo... (read in full...)
I turned down 3 serious dates and now he no longer pursues me
Q. after turning down 3 serious dates from a guy he no longer seem to pursue me. we both express that we are attracted to each other.i however would like to take things slower(at my pace).when we cross paths now he acknowledges me and promises to visit ...
A. 16 April 2009: Yeah you can't really blame him. Rejection is hard. You can't reject a guy 3 times and expect him to keep trying. Its just not fair to him. So he probably moved on. Sorry but next time try to express that you wish to take things slow and don't ... (read in full...)
Does anyone out there think I am being selfish and ungrateful?
Q. I've been dating a man for about 2.5 years. I'm living with him as I had to give up my condo to enter alcohol rehab for a month. I maxed out all my credit cards to pay the $12K costs of treatment and am up to my ears in debt. Prior to this ...
A. 15 April 2009: It's great that he tried to help you find a job and he has done a lot for you. but depression is also very serious. you need to find happiness on your own. honestly i think you both have valid viewpoints. But maybe this means that you just shouldn't ... (read in full...)
Curious: How does porn turn people on?
Q. Hey y'all what's up! How's it going? Okay I need to know how in the hell does porn turn ppl on? It's just naked ppl hooking up! Just go to your spouse or the one you love! And in my opinion Its gross!! But I just need to know how does porn turn u ...
A. 14 April 2009: also some people watch porn to learn about different positions or how to be better at sex. when i was younger i used to look at porn quite often. but when i grew up and had a girlfriend i didn't feel the need to anymore. plus i'm sure my girlfriend ... (read in full...)
How do I choose between my ex and a new guy?
Q. Dear Miss A, It has been over two years since my ex and I have been in a official relationship. We broke up when I left for college but have continued to talk ever since. We got back together while was back in school but broke up shortly beca...
A. 14 April 2009: i think you need to move on. you and your ex tried to be in a relationship twice. it didn't work. not to mention he made it clear he didn't want a relationship with you. i'm not sure if he really loves you or is just trying to fill a void on his ... (read in full...)
Husband is punching holes in the walls and ignoring me for days after arguments
Q. Hi. My husband and I have been married for 18 years and have 4 children ages 7-15. He is a good guy for the most part, makes a great living, is generous and usually kind. He does drink more than I would like to see him do but he is mostly home and...
A. 14 April 2009: well perhaps he doesn't talk to you because he is trying to work these out. maybe he is just trying not to make things work. he probably figures he needs time to try and be a better husband. now if he says its your fault, well that's not reall... (read in full...)
Should I keep trying?
Q. ok. so i like this girl that doesnt want a boyfriend but she really likes me.. should i keep goin or end it here...
A. 14 April 2009: hmm this is a hard one. i guess you should stop wondering and just ask her out on a date. if she says no then you should end it there. if she is nice she might say yes but give subtle hints that she is not interested in dating. if so, then end it. ... (read in full...)
Curious: How does porn turn people on?
Q. Hey y'all what's up! How's it going? Okay I need to know how in the hell does porn turn ppl on? It's just naked ppl hooking up! Just go to your spouse or the one you love! And in my opinion Its gross!! But I just need to know how does porn turn u ...
A. 14 April 2009: hmm. well i suppose it could be about the fantasy part of it. often people fantasize about naked people. i guess sometimes people just get tired or bored of regular sex so they look at porn. porn can be a fantasy for people. i'm not endorsing it or ... (read in full...)
A question on masturbation!
Q. Hey, This may seem like a somewhat strange question, but when you masturbate, how long does it take a normal person to cum? How can you make yourself last longer? Thanks, Anon...
A. 14 April 2009: well every person is different. some people take about 20 mins to cum while others can do it in about 10 seconds. its a little different for everyone. if you want to make yourself last longer it just takes time and pratice. you just need to wor... (read in full...)
We both love each other but I don't know if I could trust her or him.
Q. My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 8 months. But we broke up last week because we just couldn't handle us fighting all the time. We seemed t be fighting about the same stuff over and over. I was going to school and working too much and ...
A. 14 April 2009: well i decided to break it off with her. our relationship was affecting both of our lives in a negative way. we just moved too fast and my jugdement was clouded. i feel that we ended it on good terms though which is good. thanks so much for the ... (read in full...)
Has anyone had a break up after a long time and felt like this?
Q. Hi, just wanted a little moan again. I'm so fed up of feeling sad, and worrying about things. I split with my bf five months ago, and although I don't want him back, I miss being in a relationship. He's moved on fast, which he's entitled to do, but ...
A. 13 April 2009: You should do your best to move on. Try going on dates. Try finding someone else. Do your best to stay positive and move on. I know its hard because I am going through a break up too and it hurts like hell. But at least you know he has moved on so ... (read in full...)
I'm starting to lose my feelings for this girl but I'm so scared of breaking up with her
Q. Hello everybody... I've been with my girlfriend for 10 months now and we've already been through so much together... But, I think starting to lose my feelings for this girl but I'm so scared of breaking up with her because i don't want to hu...
A. 13 April 2009: are you sure you are losing your feeling for her. try spending some time apart. if you still don't miss her or have any feeling for her then you should just break up with her.
you are going to hurt her eventually if you don't have feeling ... (read in full...)
Move on or get back together? How long can I wait?
Q. My girlfriend of 11 months broke up with me. She said she didn't love me any more, didn't want to be in a relationship and lost that "spark." This was 3 weeks ago and at first I was fine with it but then reality really hit me hard. What hurt the ...
A. 13 April 2009: i have a very similar situation at the moment. the difference is that my girlfriend and i broke up mutually because we felt we weren't good enough for each other. we had simply gave up. however we took a different approach and began to try again. ... (read in full...)
I can't stand to see him with someone else! Is this love? Or addiction?
Q. its almost a week that i broke up with my boyfren.. i have been in dis relationship for almost 3 and half years.. i loved him very much and we also had a very intimate relation.. but then he always doubted on me, was very possesive and abused me and ...
A. 13 April 2009: if he abused you and is now with someone else then i think you definitely need to get over him. you have to realize that he doesn't want to be with you. i know its very very hard. believe me i know. but eventually you will find someone who will... (read in full...)
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