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... Send *at_auw a private message | | | *at_auw's profile:I'm 29 yrs old this year and living on my own. I'm currently a government employee but am working towards running my own business on a full-time basis.
I'm not married but am in a comfortably steady relationship with my girlfriend. We just celebrated our 5th Anniversary of the day we first met in February this year :) Even though we haven't stepped across the threshold of marriage yet, I dare say that ours is not a typical love story and we've overcome our fair share of challenges to grow into the couple we are today. For all you guys and gals out there in relationships separated by either a physical (ie long-distance) or social (ie class, race, religion or economic status) divide, don't give up!
I am heterosexual and am open to discussing most issues concerning sexuality, subject to my own experience and experimentation so far.
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My bf says it's wrong for me to remain nice to people I dislike. Is he right?
Q. i'm normally a really nice person, and people know me for this. even if its someone i genuinely dislike for something she did to me in the past etc i am not mean to her, and i remain polite if she strikes a conversation with me. sometimes i tend to ...
A. 20 July 2009: Dear Anonymous, You don't need to be nice to people you dislike but you don't need to be hostile or confrontational either. Between these two choices, it's great that you have managed to maintain at least a decent level of politeness and civility... (read in full...)
I feel trapped in this relationship - it's becoming abusive but I'm stuck!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years now. We have just recently moved out of town and are living together for the first time. About a year and a half ago i was raped by someone who was a coworker and someone who i thought was a friend. ...
A. 17 July 2009: Dear Anonymous, Thank you for your email. I would admit that your situation is a rather complicated one. Although you've tried your best to explain your situation in detail I'm still not sure if there's enough information in it for me to provid... (read in full...)
Why is my semen cloudy and thick?
Q. Why is my semen so thick and cloudy looking? I have never had any complaints from any of the females I've been with. Any help would greatly be appreciated!...
A. 17 July 2009: Dear Angelluvr,
This honestly sounds like a medical issue best answered by a doctor or medical professional instead of a column like this. Depending on what "thick and cloudy" actually means, it could be purely a normal variation in the way your... (read in full...)
Need more emotional maturity in the relationship
Q. I don't even know how to organize this question, but here goes. My boyfriend and I broke up in mid-May then three weeks later we decided we wanted to be together again, however, we can't until I go back to college in August (He lives in the c...
A. 17 July 2009: Dear EBM2008,
Thanks for your update and encouragement! I too think that you've made the right choice even though it would hurt for a while in the short term. But that's a sign of your growing maturity :) - your willingness to make a decision... (read in full...)
Are relationships with younger guys doomed from the start?
Q. hey im 28 and i always seem to attract younger guys. i am young looking myself but is it going to work ou with guys that ar 23 cause so far it hasnt. or is it the fact im in love with sumone already that is spoken for but yet i can see it in his ...
A. 14 July 2009: Dear Anonymous,
Glad to read your query! I think I might be a suitable person to answer you. I'm about 1 year younger than my girlfriend and we've been going steady for 5 good years and counting.
So no, relationships with younger guys are... (read in full...)
Need more emotional maturity in the relationship
Q. I don't even know how to organize this question, but here goes. My boyfriend and I broke up in mid-May then three weeks later we decided we wanted to be together again, however, we can't until I go back to college in August (He lives in the c...
A. 13 July 2009: Dear EBM2008,
Thanks for posting. It's great to hear that you're doing your best to grow into an emotionally mature individual. In contrast to maturing in terms of age, which everyone will get to experience since we will all grow old whether ... (read in full...)
Am I being jealous and silly or do I have valid reasons for feeling like this?
Q. My fiance and I have been engaged for 3 months but have known each other for many years. He is really nice, rational and calm and sees both sides of arguments and both feelings when we argue. Recently we have started arguing all the time due to a ...
A. 12 July 2009: Dear Anonymous,
Thank you for your well written post. Somehow I get the feeling that you already know the answer to your questions...
Based on the information you have provided in your letter, your fiance is an unrepentant casanova. How did the ... (read in full...)
I cannot forgive myself for my past mistakes
Q. theres something wrong with me. i cant ever seem to feel good about myself. recently i heard my ex got married and i was very upset by this news-so much so ive been in tears o and off the last 3 months-i know im sad at the same time ive just...
A. 12 July 2009: Dear Vodkablue, Sorry to hear about your situation, you must be feeling really really down at the moment, perhaps like in a never-ending abyss where you just keep falling and falling, never to pick yourself up again. It must have felt especially ... (read in full...)
Am I too nervous? Or just not ready for a relationship?
Q. Ok i am like 20 y/o and i wanna know is it normal to be able to talk to a female, on msn/yahoo/aim/games/phone easier than talking upfront to em? i get all nervous while even being near a female, sometimes i have tears coming down my face but i do ...
A. 11 July 2009: Hi!
I'm not sure if there have been any scientific tests to see if it is indeed easier for guys to interact with girls online rather than face-to-face, but there is certainly no need for an experiment to confirm just how much more uninhibited peop... (read in full...)
He said "I guess I could call you every day but I really don't want to!"
Q. I can't believe my boyfriend just told me that he is 'JUST NOT THAT KIND OF PERSON WHO WOULD CALL HIS GIRLFRIEND EVERY DAY!' He would felt like he is reporting to me if he has to, it's not necessary and why would he? After a while, a big discussion. ...
A. 11 July 2009: Dear Anonymous,
The first thing I'd like to say is to try not to jump to conclusions as yet. And if you really think about it, it appears that your relationship has at least developed to the extent that your boyfriend is comfortable to open up ... (read in full...)
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