My friend and I are getting closer, but with our shared history it's complicated. Where is this going?
Q. before i start, i just want to say that there is a long history behind this story. Almost a decade to be precise. I met S when I was in high school and we became quite good friends very quickly. I had a bit of a crush on him but he was in a relati...
A. 24 January 2013: thanks dorothy :) ... (read in full...)
Gf sending dirty texts to another man
Q. Hi, I've been with my gf for nearly 3 years, it's had it's ups and downs but we've got through them, between us we have 4 children, she has 3 girls I have one boy. The two youngest girls dad left when the youngest was born, and hasn't been around ...
A. 24 January 2013: good luck sweetie... (read in full...)
Are these the signs of an abusive relationship or am I being paranoid?
Q. I am a little worried about the relationship I have with my boyfriend, but I don’t know if I am being paranoid or not. A few years ago I was in an abusive relationship. My instinct at the time told me to get out, but I didn’t and I got hurt. ...
A. 24 January 2013: Your gut instinct is almost always right when it comes to think. But our biggest problem is that we are conditioned not to give into our gut feelings because mostly gut feelings are not 'logical' or 'rational'.
If you feel that he is being abus... (read in full...)
I feel embarassed that I'm still a virgin
Q. I'm a senior in college and still a virgin. It's not for religious reasons so much (although I am a faithful person), but I've always felt you should lose your virginity to someone you really love and have a future with. I've had several serious ...
A. 24 January 2013: No need to rush into sex if you feel uncomfortable or you feel that you need to lose your virginity. There's a big fuss when it comes to losing your virginity that we forget what a great thing sex is when you have it with someone you love.
Y... (read in full...)
Gf sending dirty texts to another man
Q. Hi, I've been with my gf for nearly 3 years, it's had it's ups and downs but we've got through them, between us we have 4 children, she has 3 girls I have one boy. The two youngest girls dad left when the youngest was born, and hasn't been around ...
A. 23 January 2013: dump her. She has way too much baggage. Had she not sent the texts it would have been okay but she did send them and it shows she has no respect for you. Dump her. No point in remaining emotionally invested in her, if she doesn't extend the same ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't sex "feel" good?
Q. I don't know what it is but sex just does not feel enjoyable to me. I am beginning to think it is just my age. I am only 20 and I hear a lot of the time women do not hit their sexual peak until they are well into their 30s and 40s. Ladies, is that ...
A. 23 January 2013: Well i'm in my 20's and I've found that sex, and good sex, has alot to do with how you approach it. One needs to see sex as a road trip in a new country rather than a pit stop at Mc Donalds. One needs to get acclimatised to sex. What works in ... (read in full...)
Is this fair? I do so much for him and he does so little for me. What should I do?
Q. Well my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years and lets just say I'm getting tired of being taken advantage of. He doesn't have a car so yes I drive him around and I pay for dates and I helped him get a job and yes he still asks me ...
A. 23 January 2013: This guy is bad news. For three years he's been using you! Girl, get rid of him. A relationship is a partnership, not a one way street. He's using you and he will keep on using you. Let go of him. ... (read in full...)
Is my fiancé acting up? Has she been too spoilt in the past? Not sure what to do.
Q. So here's my story. My fiancé and I are supposed to be getting married in July but we have been having problems. We have been engaged since March 2012. To give some quick background we have dated for 4 years and lived together for 3. We live...
A. 23 January 2013: Wow! Sounds like you've been through alot! I don't know much about being married, but I know that its critical that you are supportive of each other. Your fiance sounds extremely unsupportive. It takes alot of courage to start a business even in a ... (read in full...)
My friend and I are getting closer, but with our shared history it's complicated. Where is this going?
Q. before i start, i just want to say that there is a long history behind this story. Almost a decade to be precise. I met S when I was in high school and we became quite good friends very quickly. I had a bit of a crush on him but he was in a relati...
A. 23 January 2013: Hey Dorothy. Thanks for the response, I guess I really wasn't clear when I mentioned that his ex was pregnant. The ex is married and my man hasn't been intimate with her for about 5 years now. So yeah the baby's not his. When they hang out it... (read in full...)
He cant call me a friend, I'm his 'thingy' and all his friends say he loves me...but we've not dated for over 2 years!
Q. Um, I think I might need some assistance regarding a 'relationship, or lack there of. There's this guy, let's just call him 'A'. He is my ex boyfriend (though I don't even consider him that, as we only dated for a month) and one of my best ...
A. 21 January 2013: wow! looks like he's really into you but he's afraid of being in a relationship. since you have a good connection with him, and have issues getting to talk, i suggest you try to find out why exactly he feels the way he is feeling. also, try to ... (read in full...)
HELP! I feel like I'm a total beard for my gay best friend when he goes on a date.
Q. I'm a hetero girl and my best friend is gay. Let me make it clear, I have no interest in my bff in any romantic way. We are really close friends and roommates. My issue is that I feel like he's using me as a beard when he goes out to meet up with a ...
A. 21 January 2013: Best thing you can do is directly voice out your concerns, say that you don't find it as much fun when you feel like a third wheel. If he's a good pal he'll take it into consideration. Also he maybe quite self conscious of going out alone to meet ... (read in full...)
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