I am so tense and jumpy in intimacy, how can I become more relaxed??
Q. How can I relax enough to be intimate with my boyfriend? I want to do things with him and when I do, it feels wonderful, but I am so tense and jumpy. I freak out when we try something new and I just cant relax beacause I am so scared. When ...
A. 26 April 2008: Just let yourself go girl. There will be nothing you can do unless you totally trust him, if your scared just let yourself go... Maybe get drunk and see what happens... Letting yourself go will make him want you even more. Just say " baby do what ... (read in full...)
Advice for my pregnant twin
Q. Dear Cupid and All readers; This is a question about my twin sister, not about I. I'm 17 and my twin sister is pregnant. I'm so excited to be an Auntie, but I'm also scared for her. Her boyfriend is only 16 and he's already an alcoholic. He...
A. 13 March 2008: NO she is incapable of having an abortion. I think it will all be okay because by the time the baby is born, she wont give a f**k about the guy and will have no time to ever think about him. ... (read in full...)
How long do hand jobs and blow jobs take?
Q. 2 questions how long does a handjob take (on average)? and how long does a blow job take (on average)? (both until the guy comes) I know it differs from guy to guy obviously but Id just like to hear some averages and opinions thanks...
A. 13 March 2008: When you are doing that sort or stuff you usually start off with a handjob, then work your way down to a blowjob in the same session. Or the other way around. Some guys can hold their cumming until later until when they actually want to really ... (read in full...)
How do I bring up my rape fantasy with him?
Q. How do I bring up my rape fantasy? I've been with my boyfriend for over a year, I trust him and love him but i'm a little scared about how to tell him i have a rape fantasy. He's told me his other fantasies and we do some pretty outrageous sexual a...
A. 13 March 2008: Okay, so do not listen to "Ask Oldersister" because she's wrong. If you have been with your boyfriend for over a year then I'm pretty sure that you have talked about more serious/gross/happy/sad/sexual stuff other then being raped. I had the same ... (read in full...)
Why does he smell his fingers???
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year, and we have had sex. I have given oral but not received it, which was more of my choice because of me being worried about smelling bad (even though I don't think I do). Lately, I've noticed that after ...
A. 13 March 2008: If your soo worried about your smell (which you shouldnt be) then shower daily or even before sex, and drink juice, drinking juice as in (fruitopia, or fivealive) enhances the taste of your feminine juices. He smells his finger quite regulary by ... (read in full...)
He doesn't seem to want me any more...
Q. My fiancee recently started a new job and he's been working 7 days a week. He is always (understandably) tired and is too tired for sex. I've tried buying porn, lingerie, and even bought a strip pole to spice things up but we use them once and he ...
A. 9 March 2008: Simple thing to do. Ask him, and if you start crying he will know that he means more to you than anything. And maybe he doesnt think of it that way. I think that when he is expecting nothing Jump him and starting giving him a blow job. Men ne... (read in full...)
Why have my periods suddenly stopped?
Q. i havnt had a period for 4 months and i dont know why, normally i come on around the 3rd. 4th. of every month, but i havnt been on, march will is now the 5th month!! my last one was november which was normal. my boyfriend thought i was pregnant :S ...
A. 9 March 2008: if you have already taken a test then take another one... No even better go see your doctor... The results from the doctors are always right!! I think you're pregnant!... (read in full...)
Is it normal to be very upset/paranoid when my new GF is out with her friends, drinking?
Q. Is it normal to be very upset/paranoid when my new GF is out with her friends drinking? I just started dating this girl, and she has some guy friends and i dont mind at all that she hangs out with them but just the thought of a pretty 19 yr old...
A. 9 March 2008: Hi my names Amanda, Why get upset when your girlfriend is out trying to have fun? Do you guys live in the same town/city? I'm sure if she's out a parties there is a few people there that you happen to know, therefore if anything does happen you ... (read in full...)
I'll be in her city to visit and I want to take her out. How do I ask her, without being obvious?
Q. i met dis girl on msn. we are both 16. after a week of chattin i really liked how she talks etc. so i asked for her number. now we text each other at least 20texts a day! it's been going on for 3days now. she lives 1hour away. does she like me? she ...
A. 14 February 2008: Ask her "do you want to meet me" or say " im fixing mobile in your town, want to hang out" let her know you want to meet her because she could be holding these feelings back from you, because she might think she's being lead on. Just let her know ... (read in full...)
She said she loves me, so why did she break up with me?
Q. i had a girlfriend, who had been seeing someone for about 5 months, and then when that ended, she started seeing me a few days later. me and her had been texting and talking a lot before we started seeing each other, and had grown very fond of eac...
A. 12 February 2008: She didnt say that she didnt love you she said that she loved you more then anything in the world. Be bestfriends, you have to be friends first before there can be an actual relationship. Maybe wait, she just got out of a long relationship. Give her ... (read in full...)
Do I not turn him on like I used to?
Q. Ok so I've been dating this boy for about 2 years now, we love having sex. He used to look at me,touch me,kiss me in the wierdest places (palm of my hand) but now he doesnt even look at me, he still loves having sex at me, but he doesnt look at me ...
A. 8 February 2008: I have a naughty police outfit, and handcuffs.. but i think your right. Its his time to dedicate himself to my sexual pleasures, his time to please me. If hes not willing to do that every once in a while then I guess he's going to have to go without ... (read in full...)
What is going on with my friends, they don't seem to want me around.
Q. Ok i just don't know whats going on. For some reason ever since 2 weeks ago my friends have been extremely off with me and i don't know why. Some days they make it seem like they don't want me there and others its like they are all in on somethin...
A. 8 February 2008: If you want to know then simply ask. Just ask them if somethings bothering them because you feel somewhat uncomfortable around them lately. If they dont reply then maybe ignoring them and finding new friends would be ideal for the situation your in. ... (read in full...)
Do I not turn him on like I used to?
Q. Ok so I've been dating this boy for about 2 years now, we love having sex. He used to look at me,touch me,kiss me in the wierdest places (palm of my hand) but now he doesnt even look at me, he still loves having sex at me, but he doesnt look at me ...
A. 8 February 2008: Thanks.. But yes I do have lingerie, I even have toys, I just bought myself a baby doll, he's asked me to dance a few times but I cant get the nerve up to do it, because my confident level is very low, and Im scared he'll make fun of me cuz dancing ... (read in full...)
Why cant I cum when I masturbate??
Q. hi, I have been masturbating for a while and i get the really good feeling and i feel it about to cum and i start shaking and moaning but i can't cum. Why? I use a vibrator, my fingers, the removable shower head but i cant cum. Why? It's a litt...
A. 7 February 2008: When you get that feeling keep fingering or keep using the shower head or vibrator, dont stop when you have that feeling. The feeling is there because of what your doing so dont stop until you do cum. If this doesnt help message me!... (read in full...)
15 years old and still wetting the bed!
Q. Help me please. Im 15 and wet the bed. I usually dream about urinating then find myself doing it. I do it when i need the toilet and i usually go to the toilet in my dream and it seems weird in the dream and realistic. Because I really did it. Help ...
A. 7 February 2008: Maybe try going to the bathroom before bed, and after that don't drink anything at all. Or if you can maybe wake up when you have those dreams of wetting yourself... ... (read in full...)
A lot of questions about our first time sex experience...advice needed.
Q. Hello, My bf and I have been dating for over a year. We love and care about eachother. We enjoy spending time together. We like to make out and kiss. We are both virgins. We have been talking about sex. I think we will end up doing it. We hav...
A. 7 February 2008: Wowww Girl, sex isn't to be planned like a birthday party or to be scared about like its a life or death situation. If your scared what he will think of you when your nude, maybe take it slow maybe show him your bra and underwear.. take it slow.. ... (read in full...)
I pampered him all weekend and now I'm being blocked!?!
Q. My boyfriend and I have had troubles so we decided to slow down, I used to live with him but I moved out because we both needed our space. Well on the weekend I went to go visit him, had the time of my life, but I gave him money, bought him ...
A. 7 February 2008: thanks everyone or answering this...
everything is good now, shes gone, he told her to leave him alone .. which makes me happy :)
thanks for your posts.
Xoxo-- mandabaaby... (read in full...)
I pampered him all weekend and now I'm being blocked!?!
Q. My boyfriend and I have had troubles so we decided to slow down, I used to live with him but I moved out because we both needed our space. Well on the weekend I went to go visit him, had the time of my life, but I gave him money, bought him ...
A. 4 February 2008: I didnt forward the email that this girl sent me, I copied and pasted it to him on MSN messenger. I just want someone to get it through his head about how he is treating me. Maybe I did get used, but when I seen him he told me he loved me so much so ... (read in full...)
I pampered him all weekend and now I'm being blocked!?!
Q. My boyfriend and I have had troubles so we decided to slow down, I used to live with him but I moved out because we both needed our space. Well on the weekend I went to go visit him, had the time of my life, but I gave him money, bought him ...
A. 4 February 2008: He lives an hour away from me. I dont even know why hes doing this. I wish I had someone to help me out.... (read in full...)
I pampered him all weekend and now I'm being blocked!?!
Q. My boyfriend and I have had troubles so we decided to slow down, I used to live with him but I moved out because we both needed our space. Well on the weekend I went to go visit him, had the time of my life, but I gave him money, bought him ...
A. 4 February 2008: I honestly dont want to hear " get rid of him" need other solutions other then the break up... ... (read in full...)
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