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writes:i had a girlfriend, who had been seeing someone for about 5 months, and then when that ended, she started seeing me a few days later.me and her had been texting and talking a lot before we started seeing each other, and had grown very fond of each other.she came over yesterday, and we watched a film for about 15 minutes, before we went upstairs and just kissed for like 2 hours, with a like 10 minute break inbetween for a chat.she said she loves me, and we took pictures together and all that.when she went home, we were talking, and she said that several of her friends were having a go at her because she had dropped the person she'd been with for 5 months and got with me so fast.so she said that she thought we got together too fast and she also said she loves me more then anything in the world, but she sees me as more of a best friend.and so it ended. but the thing is, i have no idea why she's broke up with me, because she gave several reasons, and it just doesnt make sense.i just want to know what to do to get her back, because i miss her and its tearing me apart.we're 15/16 by the way.i just dont understand how someone can be so in love, and call sitting in kissing all day best friends, and go from being so in love to not loving me at all within like 5 hours...:(
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reader, andee +, writes (12 February 2008):
andee is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the advice, i'll try it.however, she's back with her ex now.about 12 hours after breaking up with me...and about 2 days before valentines day.what a bitch that is eh?aha :) but cheers for tryin to help
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reader, mandabaaby  +, writes (12 February 2008):
 She didnt say that she didnt love you she said that she loved you more then anything in the world. Be bestfriends, you have to be friends first before there can be an actual relationship. Maybe wait, she just got out of a long relationship. Give her sometime, be there for her if she wants to hang out and talk... Text with her, call her.. Just hang out with her, and when you do don't put the moves on her be her friend and her friend only, pretend that it doesnt bother you because if she sees that it does it will make her upset and chances are she might not talk to you. Give this a try... Everything will work out for the best.
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