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anonymous
writes:Ok i just don't know whats going on.For some reason ever since 2 weeks ago my friends have been extremely off with me and i don't know why. Some days they make it seem like they don't want me there and others its like they are all in on something. I did hear something though a while ago and they asked this lad i like a question (they don't no i like him) and im sure my name was mentioned and ever since then they have just not be right with me. At first i thought it might be because he likes me but then again he doesn't have my number and yet he has everyone else's and also hes stopped talking to me as much now, but even if it was him why would they keep being horrible to me in general. We all used to get on great until now and i just don't know what to do or why? I suppose what has hurt me is i really thought he liked me! I don't want to ask them out right but its just stuff like they text each other even though they are at the same table n notes go round.I don't know if they are about me or not but i never get to see them and when they talk to me they seem to smirk as if they know something. Honestly what do you think this is? Its been going on for 2 weeks now and i've had enough, the teachers are keeping an eye out but i honestly don't know what it is. The lad that i thought liked me doesn't join in as much but hes defiantly in on it. But since they all have each others numbers and stuff even though i did join the course late has made me wonder if its just the fact that they don't want me there, but then again why has it all gotten so bad so sudden. Please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2008): hi i wrote this question, i have asked n they jst won't say owt, the teachers reckon its all in my head and its not, they just seem so off with me and suddenly don't want to talk to me, i can't really go and find new friends because we are in the same class and together all day and it a very small college so we don't really know others from other courses. thanks for the advice.
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reader, mandabaaby  +, writes (8 February 2008):
 If you want to know then simply ask. Just ask them if somethings bothering them because you feel somewhat uncomfortable around them lately. If they dont reply then maybe ignoring them and finding new friends would be ideal for the situation your in. Your bestfriend can be your worst enemy... You keep your friends close but your enemies closer as they say. But try it out and give me the follow up. Most teenaged girls are evil, we've all been through being backstabbed and talked about.
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