Attracted to a lifelong friend and not my wife... Unfortunately, we both have partners and children!
Q. I am married with a child. I have a loving wife but I feel sexually attracted to a lifelong friend whom I have known for over 15 years. We are very close and she has a child as well. Our kids play together and she and my wife hang out a lot. S...
A. 12 July 2005: Sort your marriage out first.If it cant be saved then so be it but that doesnt mean you are free to pusue your friend.She doesnt want to leave her partner she loves him she has committed herslf to him so leave her alone.You say you had sex once but ... (read in full...)
He doesn't feel about me, like I do about him...
Q. Should I stay with a guy who doesn't have the same feelings towards me that I have for him? ...
A. 12 July 2005: In short NO no matter how hard you try you cant make this guy have feelings for you in the way you want him to.Maybe he just wants to be your friend but if you push him you may lose that as well.This is a go nowhere relationship and if for some ... (read in full...)
Met an online lover, but he was sprung by his wife. Now he won't talk to me!
Q. My husband doesn't have sex with me. About three months ago I took a lover, who is also married. We met online and his wife recently found out about the affair and has requested a divorce. I am very distraught because I am very emotionally attached ...
A. 12 July 2005: LEAVE HIM ALONE!!!He has made it clear who he wants to be with and ITS NOT YOU! You dont make any mention of your husband is this because he hasnt found you out you think its ok just to cheat on him.Do you think its fair to let him believe his ... (read in full...)
My husband would rather use porn to satisfy himself than be with me...
Q. I have been married for eight years.Mmy husband and i haven't had sex in two and a half years. He is addicted to porn, and would rather satisfy himself then be with me. I feel like I am dead inside. I have gained thirty pounds and just don't care ...
A. 12 July 2005: Don't let yourself go just because this selfish man would rather get his kicks from people who would probabaly never look twice at him. Start going out and finding things that dont involve him things that make you feel good.Tell him if he doesnt s... (read in full...)
My friend is pregnant and she feels she can't tell her parents...
Q. I'm 18 years old girl. My problem is about my close friend. Last week she found that she was pregnant with her boyfriend! We don't know what to do. I told her to tell her mom but she said she can't because her mom will not accept and it'll make ...
A. 12 July 2005: i would advise your friend to tell her mum.She may be very surprised by her mothers reaction,sure she may be angry but her own mothering instinct will kick in and she will want to protect her daughter.Does your friend have the support of her baby's ... (read in full...)
I came to help with her kids and fell in love with her, but she's married. Should I pretend it didn't happen, or what?
Q. Hello. What I am really looking for is advice. I have a really BIG problem. I am gay. But that is not the problem. Me and my partner have just separated while my best friend's boyfriend was in jail. Her and I started a relationship, and it was more ...
A. 9 July 2005: Leave her alone and find somewhere else to stay.If she really loves you and wants to be with you then she will come to you.She didnt want to walk away from her partner while he was in prison and i cannot fault her for that.If he is so bad to her ... (read in full...)
How can I find out if my friend's brother actually likes me?
Q. I've known my best friend since kindergarten and we are now in 9th grade. She is one of 5 kids and her oldest brother is a year older than me. I really like him and I think that he likes me too, but I dont know for sure. I don't know what to do. I ...
A. 8 July 2005: Ask him out on a friendly date but don't be all over him because you might just scare him off.Let him know you like him but that you wouldnt be devastated if he didnt feel the exact same.Believe me if he likes you like you think he does then he wont ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has a different idea about having sex... and he wants it that way all the time!
Q. Hello pls pls I need some advice. My b/f of 9 yrs has a strange idea of how you make love to a WOMAN if you know what I'm trying to say, without being crude. It's happened all the way through our relationship and I cant stand it any more. I ...
A. 6 July 2005: dont let him bully you into this with his silly little guilt trips.Most men like to try out different things but to want to do this ALL the time just isnt normal and its quite obvious your feelings dont come into his thoughts NO MEANS NO.Tell him if ... (read in full...)
There's nothing between us any more. Should I carry on for the sake of our child?
Q. Hi I'm desperately unhappy. My partner is five months pregnant .. we do not get on ... no love, no care, no kindness... and we are about to move into a house togther. Should I go through with it for the sake or our baby or end it now please ? ...
A. 6 July 2005: BREAK IT OFF because you will only end up hating your partner and through time you may take this out on the child not intentionally but you may look at the child and think "if it wasnt for you i could be elsewhere".Don't forget your commitment to ... (read in full...)
He read my email without even consulting me! I've got nothing to hide, but don't I deserve my privacy?
Q. The other day, I was writing an e-mail to my girlfriend. She had told me some very personal information and I was replying to some concerns she had about her upcoming divorce. When I left the computer to answer the phone, my boyfriend had came to my ...
A. 6 July 2005: You are not the one in the wrong here. Your b/f only had to ask and I'm sure you would have let him see. He obviously doesn't trust you as much as you trust him. I would like to see his reaction if you did the same thing to him when he was talking ... (read in full...)
Our good relationship is being spoiled by my eldest child!
Q. I have 2 children and I am divorced. I am in a relationship with a man and my eldest child has created so much trouble that he has decided to end it. Is there any advice on how I can try and save us? We are deeply in love but it's my child who is c...
A. 6 July 2005: You haven't stated the child's age but it could all to be with jealousy and your child doesn't like someone else sharing your time and attention. If this man really loves you then he shouldn't just give up on you. It could be that your child is just ... (read in full...)
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