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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2005): if you have the capability to love love someone who can give it back it feels amazing no matter how long it takes is always well worth that feeling when you get it:) trust me im a complete stranger
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2005): No..call it a day and and move on. You have to start respecting your own feelings and realize that you deserve to be loved in a healthy, caring way...by someone who is willing to give back to you as you would give to them. For reasons of his own, he's incapable of giving you the love you deserve, in return. Good luck
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reader, pinksoftkitten +, writes (12 July 2005):
Whether you should stay with him or not remains your choice, but personally it would depend how long I'd been seeing him for. If it is more than 6 months, then I would break up. You will only be more and more hurt and frustrated at his lack of depth of feeling for you as time goes on. If it is less than 6 months, I would back right off. Don't call him, text him, email him. Let him make all the arrangements to see you. Men adore this type of challenge, when they can't be sure they are going to win. So make plans to do the things you want to do with your friends, pamper yourself, and have fun without him. Another words, let him feel what it's like to miss you. This will fire up his desire to be with you. I would give it at least 2 weeks to see if he starts chasing you. If he doesn't, then you are past salvaging this relationship, and I think you should retain your dignity and walk away. If he does suddenly become more interested, then keep cool, because it really does work!!
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (12 July 2005):
 Why would you want to?
Is the "relationship" more important to you than your pride and self-esteem?
If you're confident that he really doesn't share your level of affection, you'd be doing yourself a favour to break it off, so that you're free to find another person who loves you, don't you think?
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reader, mamma +, writes (12 July 2005):
In short NO no matter how hard you try you cant make this guy have feelings for you in the way you want him to.Maybe he just wants to be your friend but if you push him you may lose that as well.This is a go nowhere relationship and if for some reason you stay together then this problem will never go away .Go out and meet someone else and if possible keep this guy as a friend you can never have too many friends.
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