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It's just argument after argument - is he trying to break up with me?

Q.   My boyfriend and I got into an argument and he has been turning the tables on me acting like I am the one at fault. Yesterday he sent me a text saying We never talk anymore. and I responded by saying that everytime we talk he makes it short by ...

A.   14 December 2006: I recognize this. I'm even starting to think it's something typically masculin. Turning tables: I once caught him in a painful situation and it was still me who was invading his privacy and being pathetic. But it's ups and downs with us. We're quite ... (read in full...)

His demands for sex is ruining our relationship! What should I do?

Q.   Ok I have a problem. Me and my boyfrien have been dating for 10 months now. I'm 20 and he's 25. He was a man whore before we hooked up. He must have slept with over 100 women(which I knew about before we hooked up). I've always been in ...

A.   13 December 2006: It seems to me that you might be rejecting him too much or too untactful. To be honest...I would get very turned on if my husband started touching himself and even more if he would ask me to just open my ****ing legs but I guess every woman has her ... (read in full...)

Started an affair with my husband's brother...

Q.   I got married 2 months ago to a man I had been living with for 2 years previously. My husband is a wonderful man who I truly love but unfortunately our sex life has never been fantastic. However I thought this was not important as we get on so ...

A.   10 December 2006: I had this problem during our engagement and I recognize the feelings, but I chose for my husband. I told my husband everything before we got married so as to get off with a fresh start. Lucky for me, he still wanted to marry me and he still gets on ... (read in full...)

I have lost interest in her because of her breasts!

Q.   My gf and i have been in a relationship for over 3 months. I am begining to loose interest in her becasue she has very small breasts. This sounds really immature but I can't help but feel it. I really like her and she has the best personality and ...

A.   10 December 2006: Get your wife pregnant and breast-feeding. Best way to naturally enlarge breasts. :-) ... (read in full...)

I'm a teacher. Do you think it is wrong that bossing students around turns me on?

Q.   I am a bit of a power freak and I enjoy bossing people around. I am a teacher and I love my job, sometimes I do go little too far but not often. Thing is though, the power thing relates directly to my sexuality. I enjoy bossing students around ...

A.   10 December 2006: Well, everybody has phantasies. It only gets bad when all (explicit) phantasies are acted out. The fact that you talk about it is a good thing, but because pedophaelia is somewhat a current affair and you being a teacher -you already expected this- ... (read in full...)

Was it a man talking in the background or a woman with a deep voice? Could she be cheating?

Q.   As My Girlfiend Cheated On Me or am i being silly? last night my girlfriend planed a night out with some work friend's. she went out 9.30pm she was going to the night club down town. i agreed she could go i give her money 2 go. at 3am the nigh...

A.   10 December 2006: Why did she shut her phone? That's just too weird, I hope she has a plausible excuse especially after saying: " oh my god he's just belled me " . Is it so bad if your bf bells?... (read in full...)

She has given me unconditional love but there are parts about her I just don't like...

Q.   If I have someone's unconditional love, should I be "blinded" by feelings ? To get a bit more into details, I'm in a relationship with a woman that trully loves me for who I am and I know she would just do anything for me. I do love her too,...

A.   7 December 2006: I think my husband feels this way towards me. I also love him unconditionally although I will point him to unacceptable attitudes and fight with him every now and then. He is also not of the same intellectual level as I am and I think sometimes he ... (read in full...)

Married 26 years, he looks at porn all the while, I think he also cheated, I strayed as I was so unhappy, this is all a mess please help someone!!!

Q.   Help anyone. I've been married for 26 yrs now, but I am very unhappy. I was married by the age of 19 and at 20 had my first son. I only knew my husband for a short time, for which I only knew him 6 months and was married within that time. Anywa...

A.   7 December 2006: There's the denying again. Jeez!! So, exhausting, when you saw something with your own eyes and you can't get your husband to admit it. Makes you go totally bananas!... (read in full...)

I don't mind him looking at porn, but he still lies about it!

Q.   I would describe my husband as a good-looking, nice and funny man. He does however have a bad habit that has been pursuing us for two years now. Two years ago I found a lot of trash on my computer (nudity)...I asked him if he visited those websites. ...

A.   7 December 2006: That's the whole point, conf.dink., as long as he denies it all, there is no possibility to sharing anything. And that's what makes me feel so isolated. I'm also very interested to talk and try out new things. Ok, if he maybe wants to enjoy th... (read in full...)

"I love you... BUT it's over"... what does it mean when someone says that to you?

Q.   Why would a guy say i love u but its over???...

A.   6 December 2006: I feel this way now towards my husband. I can't stand his incessant lying and I love him for other reasons, but the lying makes the marriage hard to endure. So I kinda feel like saying: I love you but it's over. ... (read in full...)

Are most men sex-mad beings who hop from female to female? Any thoughts?

Q.   Are most men generally sex-mad beings? Who if finished with one girl they happen to be seeing or been with, go straight onto the next, without a thought of the person they had been involved with before?? Just curious on your opinions with th...

A.   6 December 2006: I've also asked myself this question. I think that yes men seem to have a need for different females in their lives to be at ease, be it lust or sexual. But how they feel towards these women can differ. Maybe they get bored more easily then women. ... (read in full...)

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