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Do his reasons for masturbating to his exes picture sound valid?

Q.   i am in a relationship with a 29 year old man (i am 41). we've had a very good relationship in and out of the bedroom thus far. however i found out recently that he has been masturbating to old nude photos of a very recent ex-girlfriend. what the ...

A.   24 January 2008: get rid of him. His excuse is pathetic. your better off out of that one.... (read in full...)

He was in jail for a year and has missed out time with our son. Now I want to leave. What should I do?

Q.   ok i have a problem. i've been with this man for about 4 years but last year fot the whole year he was in jail. he missed out on the best part which is our son. now that he's out he tries to have me home all day everyday and i have to do what he ...

A.   24 January 2008: GET OUT NOW. You cannot stay with this man. You must take your child and get as far away from him as possible. The abuse will only get worse. He'll start hitting you, and you and your son cud both end up dead. Please leave.... (read in full...)

I don't like how much time he spends with the boys. What can I do?

Q.   I have been married for nine months. I am from a small town, but lived in a large city for awhile. I met my boyfriend, now husband, and moved to his small town with him ( from the city). We are now married and expecting our first baby. I do not mind ...

A.   24 January 2008: You need to get some freinds of your own, then when he has a night out drinking with the boys you can have a night in with the girls. mother and baby groups are always good for meeting other women in the same position as you. ... (read in full...)

Why can't he let go of his ex??

Q.   Hey there... I have been with my boyfriend for about a year now. we live together, and we always talk about getting married someday... i love him more than anything and want to spend my life with him, but i have some issues i kinda need help wit...

A.   24 January 2008: I think you should get out straight away. He obviously still has feelings for his ex. You obviously dont trust him or you wouldn't go through his phone. I say get rid.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has been texting his EX. Is this cheating?

Q.   Hi everyone. My boyfriend emotionally cheated on me with his ex. I forgave him. I still dont think i know the full story. What i wanna know is does everyone think that i should know the full story b4 i can move on. Im trying to move on but its very ...

A.   23 January 2008: Right, i think you do need to know. If you dont find out now then you'll wonder for the rest of your relationship. It will always be there nagging at you,somewhere in the back of your head. You need to get everything out in the open. No secrets. ... (read in full...)

Can you Persuade an ex, that you should be together, and give it another go?

Q.   My boyfriend and I were together for a year and just split up recently. I am in my late twenties; ten years younger than him. In the beginning, he pursued me strongly. I wanted to start slow. When we were together, we were great and got along ...

A.   23 January 2008: they always say you have to let people go to find out if your meant to be. Chances are he'll come back on his own once he's realised how much he misses and still loves you. I'd let him know that you love him and want him back, but you're not gonna ... (read in full...)

Please help! Could I be pregnant?? - from pre-ejaculation.

Q.   Is it possible that i could be pregnant? My boyfrriend had pre ejacualtion on his fingers and i believe that it got into contact with my 'down below'* could this mean that i'm pregnant? I got my period 2 weeks after if happened, but it only la...

A.   23 January 2008: You wont be pregnant. The chance is a million to one anyway and if you got your period i wouldn't worry. trust me.... (read in full...)

Where is the best "place" to ejaculate?

Q.   My fiance' and I are both virgins and have agreed to not have sex until our wedding night (we want that to be a special time for the both of us). While I have never had sex before, I do understand quite a bit and have read up on several things. My ...

A.   23 January 2008: Dont pull out of her! Ejaculate inside her(this is the best part for most women) If shes on birth control then theres nothing to worry about her getting pregnant. I love it when me and my partener have sex, and he comes inside me and then we just ... (read in full...)

I cant forget my affair, I love her and it Hurts so much! What can I do?

Q.   I was involved in an affair that ended after two months. We both knew it was wrong, I was the married one and she wasn't. My marriage has basically been over for the last four+ years and my wife and I have not been intimate in over three years in a...

A.   23 January 2008: Right first off, tell your wife its over. Then get in touch with the woman you love. Send her a copy of this page so she can see how strongly you feel about her. Tell her shes all you want. Once she knows youve left your wife and your serious about ... (read in full...)

I feel I have to much presure from my parents, how can I tell them to sort this out for themselves?

Q.   Hi, I live with my parents due to financial reasons. after a series of bereavements, my mum moved out in the new year,so now I just live with my dad. they both talk to me about their problems (we have always been close) but i find it so hard to deal...

A.   23 January 2008: tell them its not fair putting you in the middle all the time. Im sure you have your own problems without taking on theirs aswell. If they wont get any proffesional help for their greif etc then theres really nothing more you can do. Tell them ... (read in full...)

Do I trust him or not? I don't know what to think now.

Q.   My boyfriend took an ex home with him from the pub last Saturday she claimed she was being hassled by some other bloke he should have put her in a taxi home nothing happened, but she did get into our bed, he slept in the spare room when he discovere...

A.   23 January 2008: he obviously still has feelings for his ex, and she can obviously wrap him round her little finger. Does she still have feelings for him? Could she be trying to get him back? I would never go back to my exs house if i knew he had a girlfreind and i ... (read in full...)

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